Hi everyone. I would love to join in this thread. I am glad to see a thread about spotting because it is the ttc issue that I am spending a lot of time stressing about atm.
Here is my story so far:
At 35 I was ttc #1. I'd had spotting for years, I don't know how long because I'd never particularly paid attention. I'm pretty sure I used to spot a bit even on the pill.
At the time I really started keeping track I had simply ridiculous amounts of spotting - from around 5dpo!!! It wasn't much, but it was there.
I at first thought I had low progesterone, but that all checked out ok.
The first gp I went to at that time wasn't concerned - O.O how could you not follow up on someone getting 8 days of abnormal bleeding prior to af??? But unless you go to a specialist, in general doctors don't know much about it I found.
After more self-diagnosis I came up with the endometriosis theory - and when I got to see a specialist that was the first thing she said too. (I found reference to a paper on the net where the specialist was quoted as saying that 80% of spotting cases were due to endo.) Ultrasound showed nothing. She gave me a laparoscopy - found *minimal* endo which she removed.
After the op my drastic spotting reduced from 8 or so days to 2 days prior to af, and a couple of cycles after that I finally had my bfp! Yay! I knew I was preg days before I tested because I didn't have any spotting.
When I got my cycles back after my son they were awesome - NO spotting at all. Conceiving my 2nd was really easy - 2nd cycle trying I got utd (early mc), then 2 cycles after that and my 2nd son was on his way. I thought my fertility probs were all solved and behind me at this point.
Here I am now ttc #3 and I am a bit bummed that I have missed my 'fertile window'... my cycles were again great immediately after they came back. Then I was getting spotting, but only the day before af, which I was not worried by. But NOW, I am getting spotting again... nowhere near as much as before, but seeing a faint sign around 11dpo these days - grrrrr. And I have been ttc 6 months now (which I know isn't that long, but I am 40 now so I don't have all the time in the world.)
Anyway, that's my not-so-short story!