Daydream - you know what I'm going to say to you - you're not out until the red lady sings! (bleurgh).
Chloe - This is looking REALLY positive for you I think!!! Fingers crossed and make sure you let us know the outcome!
As for me, I just got back from my appointment at the assisted conception unit and it was BRILLIANT. This time I saw one of the consultant gynaes, who was amazing - really switched on. He said that my shorter luteal phase COULD make things difficult, but the progesterone score of 65 I got at 7dpo when I had that tested (in a cycle where spotting had started at 5dpo) suggested that progesterone deficiency wasn't an issue and prog suppositories therefore wouldn't be of particular help in my case. I asked about the spotting - he said that the signal to the body to continue producing progesterone can be emitted at the start of the implantation process - which would normally start to be triggered from 5dpo. So, it's unlikely that the spotting in itself means that implantation can not occur. Does that make sense?
Anyway, the long and the short of it is that I start IVF at the beginning of my next cycle! Maybe this is stupid but I actually feel really excited about it. I know it's just as likely to fail as succeed (my individual chances have been put at 40-50%) but at least it feels like I'm getting closer. My PCT will fund one full cycle of IVF, then if it doesn't result in a pregnancy, up to two cycles of frozen embryo transfer (FET), assuming of course that everything goes to plan and more than one good quality embryo is produced.
My next appointment is 20th March with the nurse, where she'll show me how to self inject. All my drugs should be arriving in the next few days. On the first day of my next cycle (which I think will be around 20th March, funnily enough, as I'm due on tomorrow or Sat - been spotting for a while!) I start taking the pill (!) to down-regulate my cycle. After 3 weeks of this I will start to stimulate my ovaries for 10-12 days, after which my eggs will be collected, fertilised (hopefully) and returned.
There is lots that could go wrong at each and every stage, so I'm not expecting this to be easy. But I'm now a woman WITH A PLAN!