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Stopping BCP to TTC***Updates & Progress/Noted Changes Since Stopping BCP***24BFPs***

Sorry about your sister Charlie :( when is af due for you?

I'm doing fine now, just 1.5w left at work :happydance: hubby just got moved offices and is happy too, I'm working more on my hobby and all is good ^^
 
Thanks, AF is due somewhere around may 13th so I've got a while and that's IF I ovulate on my own, since I decided not to take anything this cycle. We shall see.

So excited for you!! Has to be so exciting!
 
Ooh tired brain thought it was soon! Doh :) having a relax is certainly wonderful after all the ttc!

I think ttc had almost become a habit rather than a real need so its nice to be rid of the obsession, I mean I'll faint with joy if I I get a sticky during this time but I'm so fine not now which is what I needed to stay sane :)

I just found out my new colleague/friend of friend who pointed her boss in my direction for the position is also ttc, she's wonderful and I think we'll probably talk lots about babies on our shifts :haha: maybe we'll be that kinda weird phenomenon when we both get pregnant at the same time, you heard about that? When lots of women get preggers at the same time when they work together :haha: it works with periods so why not!

Time to have a TV marathon on all the shows we need to catch up on!
 
How is everyone doing this Monday? I'm currently sitting in an airport on our way home from a short mini vacation.
 
I'm doing good thanks! Where was your mini weekend? Did you get some nice relaxation time? I'd love a mini weekend right about now :)

Feeling nice and chill this month, it's nice to have some tww symptoms for the first time in a few months :D still early though so af isn't even due yet, just enjoying myself and chilling out!

I bought a bicycle over the weekend, such hard work but I'm addicted!
 
Happy monday ladies! Hope you had a nice weekend, mine was crazy with renovations.

I just came out if an appointment and I have a beautiful follie ar 20mm! I'm triggering tonight and IUI wednesday morning. I feel much better about this cycle as I know what's going on now! Last time it was crazy and stressful and new, now it's been there done that haha.
 
That's a nice fat eggy :D yeah you were rather thrown into it last cycle! This one will feel less stressful I'm sure :)
 
Hey ladies!I realize this post has been going for years for some, and that's amazing!
I'm new to this forum and have just finished bc aswell and am ttc!
Would love to jump into this discussion for info and support :)
 
Heya Amanda :wave:

Not to sound deterring but it may be better to keep an eye out for another group, the ladies in here are either pregnant now and semi active, or have had such bad ttc journeys that we're pretty much all taking a TTC/BnB break and just updating if something interesting happens :haha: just so you don't think you're being ignored!
 
IUI first thing tomorrow morning! Yesterday night I triggered myself and it went like a charm, everthing is better than last time so far. And also I'm not temping, or testing. So I'm looking foward to a relaxing (ish) TWW

How is everyone? :)

Hey Amanda, welcome! Like Patience said the ladies still "regularly" here and not pregnant all have some kind of fertility issue and are not very active ATM.

I hope you'll have a easy time conceiving though! :)
 
Hi ladies! I've been lurking for a while here. I'm frequently thinking of you all and sending you well wishes. <3 How is everyone? Any fun plans this week or the weekend?

Danna I hope everything goes well for you with your IUI this month! Sounds like things are off to a great start. I've got my fingers crossed for you!

Welcome Amanda! While this thread may not be the most super-active everyone here is amazingly supportive. Love you gals! :flower:
 
Ok thank you for letting me know!
479 pages were to much to go through to find that out ahah.

Good luck to everyone here :)
 
Awesome Danna! Sounds great! Rest and relaxing sounds good to me!

Like lavender said....always thinking of you ladies!

Amanda....welcome. an amazing group of strong and inspiring women here!
 
Thanks for the kind thoughts <3 i am always super calm up until the last bit before AF when i go a bit crazy :haha: i'm done believing something will happen naturally but i can't stop myself hoping !
 
Hi, ladies! I've been reading along the last couple of weeks here and there but choosing not to post during my break...I must say, the mental break has been nice! I wanted to update you on my RE appt today though:

She said my FSH levels aren't really that bad, and my AMH level is good. She said AMH is a way better indicator of ovarian reserve than FSH is (to the point where she doesn't even test FSH anymore). So I'm not as bad off as I was thinking. She did say Crohn's Disease can play a factor, in that you see less pregnant women with Crohn's (and there's a higher miscarriage risk with it). It can also cause blocked tubes but we know mine are cleared so that's good at least. The radiologist who did the HSG noted a small uterus, which she doesn't think really means anything. BUT, just to be sure, she's ordering a 3D sonogram with a saline injection. Basically it injects saline into my uterus much like the HSG (but saline instead of dye, less injected and less painful) and that builds a 3D image of my uterus to really give them a good feel for the size and shape, plus sees my ovaries, etc. She said the pains I've been feeling are more likely from the fibroids I have, and they'll see those too while doing this test. So I have to schedule this for cd6-10.

Now as for DH's SA: she said that there's basically 3 categories he can fall into with his TMC (total motile count, which is what they look at). Greater than 40 million is what is considered good. Here's where it gets tricky. The next category is from 40 mil down to either 5 or 10 mil...some studies say 5 mil, some say 10 mil. His is 5.47 million. So depending on who you ask, he's either just BARELY in that range (if it goes down to 5 mil) or he's not at all (if it goes down to 10 mil). IF he's in that range (again, if) then it's considered baseline male infertility (or something like that). In that range, combined with all our other factors (including age), we're looking at 2-5% chance of conceiving on our own naturally. In that range they recommend IUI. The third category is either 5 or 10 mil (again, depending on which study) or below and is considered severe. Again, his is 5.47 million. So he's either barely above that range or in that range. In the severe range, we're looking at 1% chance of conceiving on our own, and IUI only increases it to 2% chance. (I forgot to ask what IUI increases it to in the middle category). So for that category, they do IVF.

So....we're either looking at IUI or IVF most likely but we still don't really know. I need to do that 3D sonogram DH has to have another SA. Best case scenario, his numbers will be much higher (if above 40 mil it sounds like we won't have to do anything! Maybe anyways...?)...but at least hopefully above 10 mil to be solidly in that middle range. We won't know though until we get those second set of results. He's taking next Friday off anyways, so he'll do it that day and drop it off. I'm hoping to have my sonogram done that same day. Then after they get his results, he has to see a urologist to see what he recommends based on the two SA's, and to see which course of action is best for us. Whew. Lots to take in, sorry for hijacking the thread! :winkwink:

Love to you all! <3 Danna, good luck today, I hope it went well!!! :hugs:
 
Turtle, I'm keeping you both in my thoughts!! Wow, so much going on!

Danna, I've got everything crossed for you!!!

AFM, I'm just hanging around. I'm supposedly in my fertile window, we DTD a lot while on vacation, but gonna do it again tonight then just relax until this cycle ends. I'm not expecting anything to happen. Go to the DR next week to talk about everything and see what our next plan of action will be.

Patience I'm always hopeful too, especially for you!!
 

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