You ladies are the best, I'm just so happy for you Charlie and Danna! I can imagine how stressful it must be in the time between getting your BFP and when AF is due to arrive! I love the way you're both looking at it though, no matter what happens you ARE pregnant right now! And nothing will happen, this will be a sticky bean for both of you!
Patience, it looks like it's down to you and me...both of which aren't even actively trying anymore! Ha!
I'm doing pretty good...I had my 3D sonogram on Friday and everything looked great! No cysts or anything, so I'm guessing the twinges/pains I've been feeling are more likely from my Crohn's Disease. I know I don't have any active disease going so it just must be one of those random times that it's bothering me a little bit. That's okay, it's totally manageable!
DH also had his repeat SA on Friday and now we're just anxiously awaiting those results. I think it's ridiculous that they make you wait so long when you know they have to test it immediately. I emailed the nurse this afternoon to check on it and she said nothing back yet, and that it can take up to a week to get the results, and then the doctor still has to review it after that. Sigh. I'm too impatient for that!
I'm pretty sure I've decided against IUI though (as well as IVF) if his results are the same, I just don't feel like I have it in me at this point in my life to do it. I can't really put my finger on why, I don't know if I don't feel like I'm strong enough mentally for it or what. It just kind of feels like we're playing the lottery with very low chances or something, and I just don't think I have the mental strength to go through that. We've decided we're going to move to Colorado in the next 1-2 years and as of right now, I think our rough plan is to look into adoption from foster care at that time (way more affordable than from a private adoption agency!). That plan my change tomorrow, but as of today that's where I am.
Patience, if a boob job is something you can afford and something that you want, I say go for it! You deserve to do something to make yourself happy.
I'm so glad to hear you're new job is going well, btw!