Jo .. my goodness ... it is here already.
DH has absolutely no experience holding babies. Didn't even hold his nephew (born last November) even though I said he should try and get some practice
Last week at the baby-preparation-course he put on the doll's nappy ... And then while I was dressing the doll, I was talking to it, telling it how well it was doing, using a soothing voice (didn't even think about it, just came naturally *lol*) and he totally laughed at me, thinking it was weird that I was talking to a doll
Will definitely be thinking of you Monday and looking forward to an update and some pictures when you are up to it
Sandy, I am so so sorry to hear that DH suffered an infection! Very glad to hear that he is OK now and also that you will have some together-time before he has to go in for his transplant. When is that? Will definitely be sending out prayers for the two of you!
Sadly, on this journey, there - more often than not - isn't always an answer as to why it doesn't work. We never got an answer, just the assumption, that the embryos we were transferring were in some way chromosomally abnormal and that they stopped developing / body rejected them. i.e. it was just nature at work. I mean the two times we had chemicals (before the bfp), we transferred two beautiful looking blastocysts each time ... No rhyme or reason, just the way Mother Nature works some times. It is of no consolation to the couple, desperate for it to work...
For the last tries we had, they did an endo scratch (which is really supposed to help) ... as Peachy suggests, maybe that is one thing you could bring up?
Sarah - fingers are now tightly crossed that nothing else goes wrong with the bloods and that it can be smooth sailing from here on in!! So annoying, when "external influences" screw up and there is nothing you can do about it. Sometimes makes you wonder if they have
any idea what they are putting the patients through with their incompetence?
AFM ... I have been so good updating my journal (and the groups I am on on Facebook), that I have been terrible updating anywhere else. Incidentally, anyone who wants to read and stalk my journal is most welcome *hint hint*
The link is in my siggy...
Soooo there has been a lot going on the past week or so. Last week on Monday we went to a breastfeeding seminar which was very interesting. Then on Wednesday, to the baby-preparation course, which was also pretty cool. That was held at the birthing centre we were registered and at the end, I asked the midwife, whether having the gestational diabetes would influence my being able to give birth there ... sadly, it does and I no longer can give birth there. So I promptly started researching clinics - the first one that both of us liked was where we visited the breastfeeding seminar last Monday (they are certified as baby-friendly and have a fantastic policy on breastfeeding, 24-h rooming in with the baby etc. etc.). Also, I promptly stated my desire to have a Doula at the birth supporting me / us. So the hunt for the doula began. I found a few that I contacted and tonight we are meeting one and on the weekend (Saturday + Sunday) another two. At least I can now be relieved that I will have a Doula and don't have to worry about not finding one.
Then on Monday I was at various appointments. First, for the gestational diabetes - we agreed to up my dosage at night to 8IE (maybe 10) and that I would send her the readings for Monday and Tuesday (and not just 4 times a day, but 7 - fasting, before eating and after eating 3x a day) ... did that and this morning she told me to up my night dose to 12IE and to inject 4IE in the morning too....
Monday afternoon I was at the birthing centre we had been registered at and wanted to know if they would still carry out the "after-birth-care" now that I wasn't giving birth there any more. They said they would and would let me know who would come out to me after team discussions today. So I was relieved.
In the evening on Monday we then went to the hospital we had listened to the breastfeeding seminar at (info evening) and feel pretty comfortable that that is where we will register at for the birth. So next week I will be ringing to get an appointment for the registration. Also, with gestational diabetes, I won't be able to come straight home again, as baby P. will need monitoring to make sure that his sugar levels are OK (poor little bean)...
This afternoon, the midwife-led facility rang me to tell me that the midwife who would have been coming out to look after me / us will be on her honeymoon during the first month that I need her (it is the practice here for midwives to visit you on a daily basis in the beginning to make sure everything is OK) and would I please look for someone near where I live (even though hard, because I am very late looking for someone now). She confirmed if I couldn't find anyone, that they would somehow do it. ... anyway, long story short, I managed to find someone with availability and she is coming for a "getting to know you" meeting on September 2nd. Decided I won't look further, don't need the stress - but luckily, I have someone now
So ... that is the excitement going on at my end at the moment ... here is my bump-picture from Monday, when I started into the 30th (OMG!!!) week!
Hugs to you sweet ladies and lots and lots of
for the upcoming tries!!!