TCC After Ectopic buddy needed

[saveme]

Saveme- Hope you are able to get the ball rolling and get a fast BFP Hun. It is exciting once your given the all clear really praying for you Hun and yes we're all here for you

Saveme-I still see a FS too! The nice thing about that is when you do get your BFP he will see you every 2 weeks and you get an ultrasound every time! So you will see your little bean grow!!! GL to you hunny!! Oct. will be here before you know it!!

Thanks Lucy, AM- I am hoping and praying for the best as well. AM- that would be so reassuring that the FS would see me every 2weeks and to be able to see the little bean in the right place and the heart beating so amazing... I can't wait! Thanks girls so much for the support it helps more than you know.
And I'm so happy that all of your pregnancies are going great and those little babies are beautiful and healthy.

 

[Nazz4]

Hello ladies! Obviously I'm new here... I had an abdominal pregnancy and had surgery in May at 9 weeks along. Basically I went into my doc in a lot of pain, they did an ultrasound and took me into surgery right away. The baby bursted through my right tube and implanted onto my bladder. I had a lot of abdominal bleeding and if I had waited another day I might have died! So scary! They cauterized the tube, so I still have it.

Well, I went back on the pill after the surgery and about a month ago I ran out and haven't refilled it... so I guess we are really just NTNP right now. It took almost a year to conceive the ectopic even though we are both very young. I'm pretty scared of it happening again... especially since after having an ectopic you are more likely to have another, AND since my tube is cauterized I'm sure I would have another if it was in the same tube again. And I see that someone on this thread did just have a second one. That makes it so real and I'm very sorry, I can't imagine going through all this again.

I was also wondering if anyone else has this: whenever we get... intimate... the area where the ectopic was (the right ovary, tube, idk exactly what it is, but that area) feels weird... It isn't really painful, but I just feel something there, like pressure maybe? Am I the only one?

Well I just wanted to meet some people to chat with who are in a similar situation as me. I hope everyone here has good luck and please share some success stories if you know any!

 

[Amcolecchi]

Nazz-Sorry about your loss! Ectopics are so scary!! I had no pain with mine, we just happened to have an u/s and he saw nothing and then had the surgery. I actually lost my left tube BUT the second we started to try, I got pregnant! So have faith you will get pregnant again

You will have pressure from time to time where your scar is...I am thinking when we had sex I do remember just a slight discomfort, it could be your body healing. If it gets any worse I would call the docs just to be safe. But you should be fine! When you do get pregnant you will feel cramps and pressure in the scar areas too! It's like it never goes away!

 

[Lucy529]

Nazz so sorry about your loss, I had an ectopic it's been almost two years I only have one tube and they were able to save it luckily it was really early I was bleeding before my BFP and had just one really sharp pain my dr decided not to wait and did exploratory surgery they found it and saved my tube we were waiting to try until this July since I wanted to lose weight but got a happy natural surprise in may (I was told I might have to use clomid to conceive)
For a few months I think I had some discomfort where my scar was I had a c section type surgery so huge scar, but all is well as AM said if you get too uncomfortable call your dr and get checked FX for you Hun

 

[c.m.c]

Jazz I'm so sorry for your loss....I truly hope it's a fast BFP for you. I sometimes get left sided pain still

As for me....had a scan today...baby is ,owing arms kicking legs and lifting head....it was amazing

 

[Lucy529]

Cmc wow !!!! Congrats looks like a proper baby so happy for you

 

[Nazz4]

Thanks for all the good success stories, gives me some hope! I should be ovulating any day now so we will see what happens in a couple weeks.

 

[Lucy529]

Nazz hope you catch that eggie

 

[Nazz4]

Thanks, we just dtd but it was the first time in a few weeks (because of one thing after another) so im sure all his little guys were old and dead lol. Plus i Od before him and then read you should O after him.... so I made myself O again after haha omg... sorry tmi. I almost always O before him thoigh idk if there is anyway around it!! Well hopefully we get at least one more chance during the window of opportunity.

 

[Lucy529]

Hun we talk about so many personal things I think tmi is out the window LOL

I have trouble with the big O but it might not really matter am sure it's one of those wives tales but I guess it couldn't hurt either anyway to hold off until he's done just a thought you could also elevate your feet after dtd.

 

[saveme]

Hi girls well doc called me last week to let me know hcg finally less than 2. He still advises me that he wants me and DH to wait 2/3 cycles before we try again. I was super stoked about seeing my AF back in full effect last week thinking I can start trying after I finish. Its what has kept me off of the depression wagon DH hears this and now insist we do exactly as the dr says. I'm so upset about it I know most people tell you to wait and let your body heal and give yourself time to grieve but honestly I don't want to do that.... I have been working out, eating super healthy, taking my prenatals and extra folic acid. I don't know maybe I'm being selfish, I just want to be as fertile as they say you are after a loss, but dtd is not going to happen DH is not budging on this, he keeps saying he wants us to have the best possible chance of having a healthy pregnancy and baby. I guess I was just ready to put behind me all the hurt and disappointment, by starting to try again so soon. I go in to see the fs in another 2weeks what feels like forever I don't know I just needed to vent.

 

[Nazz4]

Hun we talk about so many personal things I think tmi is out the window LOL

I have trouble with the big O but it might not really matter am sure it's one of those wives tales but I guess it couldn't hurt either anyway to hold off until he's done just a thought you could also elevate your feet after dtd.

I usually put a pillow under my butt after lol.

I'm sorry about you having to wait over there, I know when my Dr told me to wait and to go back on my pill I was super angry and sad, but after about a month or so of waiting I decided I didn't mind waiting because I realized I was still emotionally unstable after the whole thing. Of course everybody is different, that was just me (the whole thing really made me an emotional mess, OH was practically afraid of me lol). I'm still honestly unsure about the whole thing which is why we are just NTNP... we are just going with the flow. While you wait keep up the healthy lifestyle though! You are doing way better than I am! And keep in mind that yoga is good for fertility (our pregnancy happened after I started doing yoga twice a week who knows if that's what did it, but hey anything to help!)

 

[Amcolecchi]

Saveme-I had my surgery in May and got my first period in July and my doc said it was okay to start trying in July. How long has it been since the surgery? You do want your body to heal because when you are pregnant you will feel a lot of pulling and pressure in the surgery areas and you want to make sure that is all healed okay just in case! I know it's hard...I was like you. I was training for my half-marathon again, eating right, and wanted my period SO BAD.....it's when I went on vacation to relax, I got my period the next day! So stress does play a lot on our bodies!

 

[c.m.c]

Thanks for all the good success stories, gives me some hope! I should be ovulating any day now so we will see what happens in a couple weeks.

Hope you catch that egg

 

[c.m.c]

Saveme-I had my surgery in May and got my first period in July and my doc said it was okay to start trying in July. How long has it been since the surgery? You do want your body to heal because when you are pregnant you will feel a lot of pulling and pressure in the surgery areas and you want to make sure that is all healed okay just in case! I know it's hard...I was like you. I was training for my half-marathon again, eating right, and wanted my period SO BAD.....it's when I went on vacation to relax, I got my period the next day! So stress does play a lot on our bodies!

Exactly the same for me -----save me.....I think you only need to wait if you had methotrexate.


My ectopic was attached to my bowel and I still got pregnant 7 weeks after surgery

 

[Amcolecchi]

Hey ladies!!! I just went for my check up and new u/s pic! I am a day later but he didn't change the date because he said it's not that big of a deal. But the heartbeat was 167! Baby is doing great. Got to see and hear the heartbeat...the baby is curled up in this pic, he/she was sleeping lol! https://i802.photobucket.com/albums/yy310/amcolecchi/9w4d_zpsafd4915c.jpg

 

[Lucy529]

Ooh AM how cute look like a cute gummy bear LOL

Congrats Hun

 

[c.m.c]

Fab pic AM!!

 

[Amcolecchi]

Thanks ladies! I didn't get to see the baby move though. I think he/she was sleeping. Lucy, when did you see your baby first move? CMC- when is your next scan!?

 

[Lucy529]

I had a scan at 8+5 bc of bleeding and it seemed like he was wiggling around in there but at my 17+6 he was def bouncing around he clapped and was grabbing his boy bits LOL

Last month at the specialist he was sleeping and wasn't really moving which worried me but the tech said all was well, I have an other u/s today which I'm hoping she will do the 4D image am so excited