Team 2012 Bundle of Joy - Dragons in the Making!

[pink80]

Glad you've got it sorted Can start moving things on after this

 

[4magpies]

Next mission is to try and get a FS appointment ASAP. And get these 11lbs off.... tempted to cut my arm off.

xxx

 

[Feisty Fidget]

If it were me Becca I would cut my butt off

Emma tbh PCT will possibly side with the GP surgery and tell me that I can't receive the fertility referral sooner as it against protocol I had many run ins with the PCT when I managed a NHS dental practice, they are nightmares.

A few family members are telling me to seek legal advice for compensation to put towards Private treatment or sell my story to the tabloids exposing how crap the NHS is. I know it would be for the right reasons but people can be so judgemental, I have said I will wait to see what they respond with

 

[cajunbabe]

That's just terrible Feisty.. so sorry!

 

[alaricsmom]

So sorry Danielle.

I'm happy you got your appointment scheduled Becca! That's great news.

 

[gilmore85]

Becca thank you my darling your description has made me smile for the first time in a rather horrid day, and congrats on appointment

Stupid, idiotic, negligent twits at my GP surgery have had me on clomid for too long and now there is a good chance I have developed ovarian hyperstimulation syndrome! I am so angry right now I can't stop shaking!
They haven't apologised for their major bulls up and despite the fact the syndrome can lead to major health complications they have no interest in confirming if I have it or treating it!

Have also been told that I have to stop the clomid and there is no alternative, that is it - we cannot move forward on our ttc journey for another 15 months because my GP surgery has cocked up and I have to bare the brunt of it.

Needless to say I have just fired a very angry email off at the PCT demanding they sort it or else I am taking legal action.

Oh Danielle I can't believe that they won't even check if you have it how can they make mistakes, risk someones health and then just wash their hands of it! Hopefully your email will make them take responsibility! xx

 

[Razcox]

Danielle (BTW my name is Rachel! ) thats awful and so negligent of them! I really hope the email helps to get across to them how crap they have been. If they dont offer you any further help i would go see another doctor or start proceeding to sue their asses!

AFM - Got a BFN today at 12DPO so despite a load of symptons i think i am out this month i was sure i was pregnant as well because of how i have been feeling but guess i was wrong. Oh well onto next month then.

 

[Razcox]

Double post because of stupid internet!

 

[Feisty Fidget]

Rachel that is exactly what I plan to do. Unsurprisingly the PCT has not responded to my email so I can't really contact a solicitor until they respond. A close family member said yesterday that she believes everything happens for a reason and maybe them messing up with put pressure on the local health authority to speed up our referral process. btw 12 DPO is still way too early especially if you implanted late Your not out until the shows!

Amy I honestly don't know how they can just leave me stranded either - it is ridiculous! It was bad enough before that we had to wait 15 months for our referral but at least we could continue 'trying' now we don't even have that!

Have also read that if by some major miracle I fall pregnant this cycle then my OHS syndrome will become unbearable for the early weeks of pregnancy I guess I should be thankful that we won't fall as I am going to be a bundle of nerves anyway worrying about every little twinge and it would be a million times worse if I couldn't figure out what pains were baby related and what were OHS.

I had a good private cry last night and I am feeling slightly better. I guess I could try Soy after I have given my body a bit of a break. Just really peed off because I know I am going to find the anniversary of our pregnancy and then the anniversary of our loss really difficult and if we can't even continue trying it is going to make it that much worse

 

[Rachael1981]

Danielle

 

[shelleney]

Feisty
xx

 

[pink80]

Danielle

I wish there was something I could say, but I don't think there is. I do agree that this may force the issue with the PCT with regards to your referral though. What is your local PCT..?

 

[gilmore85]

well ff has said I ovulated 3 days ago so out already, well we had at but we were interrupted so he didn't 'finish' if you know what i mean didn't think it mattered at the time cos it was too early how wrong we were

 

[Feisty Fidget]

Thanks lovelies

Emma it is Bournemouth and Poole PCT. They are useless, when I initially phoned to complain just went through to answering machine each time. Then when I phoned the main switch board I was fobbed off onto the PALs team who I know professionally have zero medical knowledge and just mediate minor cases against the health care provider and person with complaint. Again the person at PALs I needed to speak to was out of the office but I was assured she would phone later yesterday or today - so far nothing!

I am however being pro-active and not just moping. I have phoned our local BMI clinic and told I can have a private consultation with no waiting with my local fertility specialist for £150-£200. Yep it's pricey and I will have to get a credit card to pay any treatment/tests etc but it saves sitting around for 15 months waiting for the NHS to sort it out. Just going to see what the PCT has to say first before booking.

Also for the first time in over a year I have dyed my hair When we started ttc I got my hair stripped back to it's mousey brown boring colour as I didn't want to risk dying my hair whilst pregnant Have now thought sod that and am currently sat waiting for my new auburn hair to dry. I wanted cherry brown/dark red but this was a freebie for my cousin and meant I didn't have to leave the house

I am so over letting this whole crap nightmare rule my life, no more! xxx

 

[Feisty Fidget]

PS Amy it seems a bit odd that all of a sudden you would ovulate that early?!?! Your other charts are the earliest CD12. Have you tried taking out EWCM and seeing what happens? xxx

 

[gilmore85]

well ive took out all the ewcm and it has it as dashed lines instead but still from CD10

 

[alaricsmom]

I hope you figure everything out Amy. Maybe ff is just wrong. Danielle,

 

[Razcox]

It does seem a little early to OV but that was a hell of a temp rise to CD11

 

[Feisty Fidget]

Amy was there anything that could have triggered it? Alcohol or excessive caffeine the day before, heating being left on, feeling ill etc??? Just really confused as to why it would be so early?!?!

Still heard nothing from PALs or PCT I will give them until Wednesday and then just contact a solicitor. The email was saved so I have proof it was sent to them and all calls are usually recorded with PALs.

After my 'lovely' new auburn hair dried we realised that for same strange reason it had turned orange Not quite sure why seeing as it was done on natural hair-colour, no previous dyes were on it. It was a natural looking orange (if that makes sense ) but obviously wasn't the colour I was after......so begged my cousin to re-dye it for me and I now have a gorgeous really dark purpley red colour

How is everyone else doing? xxx

 

[gilmore85]

Amy was there anything that could have triggered it? Alcohol or excessive caffeine the day before, heating being left on, feeling ill etc??? Just really confused as to why it would be so early?!?!

haven't had any alcohol in a month, don't drink tea or coffee (not for TTC reasons just dont like it), haven't been ill no heating on but it has been really hot in the office just a strange one could my abnormal cycle last month have affected this one as well?