Erg! I had a nice long response typed up for all the stuff I had missed and my computer crashed and ate it
I guess I'll just give an update and go from there. Oh technology, why do we have to have such a love and hate relationship?
Over the weekend I found out someone else is pregnant. This girl is only 19 and has so many problems! She is bipolar (on meds, but they are clearly not helping), she tried to kill herself a couple months ago because she got into an argument with her husband about doing the dishes (seriously, what the hell?). She had her infant son right next to her in the bedroom while she started downing pills! Her husband and her have such a toxic relationship, they really shouldn't even have the one child they do have. They are constantly breaking up and getting back together, it's so ridiculous! Her husband is a friend of my sister in laws and they stayed with my inlaws for awhile so that is how I know them. I would never call them friends of mine, that's for sure! I hate to be so judgemental, but it is really hard not to be in this situation. I really don't think they deserve even one baby and here they are pregnant with number two! They were trying apparently (even though she just tried to kill herself) and they are broken up yet again! Ughh! This stresses me out so much. Sorry it's such a long rant, but I just needed to get it out.
Now about me, today is CD1 again. I took fertilaid all cycle and I o'd normal and had a 13 day luteal phase so that put me right back where I should've been unlike last cycle, but still no baby for me! I had been feeling pre AF cramping the last 2 days so I knew she was on her way, plus my temp was dropping the last couple days too. I talked with hubby and I'm going to go in to my doctor and talk to them about trying to conceive. I don't like doctors and try to avoid them (haven't been in years, I know, I'm bad!). We're pretty close to 8 months now so we can hopefully get some preliminary stuff out of the way and if nothing happens by a year we can get referred to a specialist. I don't want something to be wrong obviously, but if there is I just want them to find it and fix it.
Since the computer ate my responses I'll just respond to the last page here.
petesgirl- I've considered taking EPO, but I've been taking fertilecm instead. I'm going to give it another month and see since I have seen postive changes. Glad to hear it helped you so quickly! I didn't know it helped you O earlier though. Is it supposed to do that? I just knew about it helping with CM.
kezza- Of course you can join! Welcome
Good for you for going ot the docs. I need to get there myself! Hopefully they find some answers for you soon.
ttc_num1 - Hi welcome to the boards and the thread! Hopefully you get your BFP real fast!
bbbunny- Hey there! Those ovulation calculators aren't very accurate in my experience, but if it is accurate for you then hopefully you got to DTD a few days before as well. According to data on fertility friend most women get pregnant from DTD 1 to 2 days before ovulation and not on the day of ovulation itself. Sorry to hear you and the OH had a bad fight though. It can be so hard to get the BD in that we need to when we're tired, I know it all too well! Also, glad to hear that all your hard work out in the garden is paying off. My backyard is starting to look like a jungle. Hubby hasn't mowed it at all since last fall and now that it's warmer it's starting to grow again. Hopefully he'll do it tomorrow, lol.
Alright, hope all you curvy ladies are doing well. Had a long day today being in horrible pain curled in the fetal position on the couch so I guess I'll be off to bed soon. Anyone else get really bad AF cramps take anything that helps for it? I just sit here with a heating pad on so high I start to burn my skin a bit. It's the only thing that seems to help!