I finally couldn't take it anymore and we figured out a new plan with my sister. She moved the air mattress and all of her stuff in to OH's studio so I could have Draven's room back. Poor OH has to work with all of her junk everywhere, but it doesn't look too bad in there. We gave her a maximum of 2 months to be here and get her stuff together before she's on her own. I think she'll do great and hopefully wont need the full 2 months.
Draven's been doing this weird breathing thing and it FREAKS me out!!! He goes in fits where it sounds like he's gasping for air. I'm going to take a video next time to show you all. I called the doctor almost in tears and she told me as long as he's eating right and his color is normal and there's no fever or anything that he's okay and we'll just wait until his appointment to look in to it further. I'm glad the doctor doesn't seem concerned but it still freaks the living daylights out of me when he does it. He's either sleeping or crying today so I'm hoping he's just having a rough day and that this won't last.
Momof1:
Allika: Good luck at your appointment tomorrow I hope they finally give you the green light to start TTC again! Since you were so close last time I think this will finally be the end of it
Hopin: I've heard Femara is a better choice for those who miscarry because Clomid can thin your lining, but Femara wont. I think it'd be worth bringing up to your doctor and at least discussing it.
TypeA: Usually when you get IUI they have you stay lying down for 15 minutes afterwards anyway (at least, that's what I've heard from others) so I'm surprised they didn't just have you do it. I'm sure if you asked they wouldn't tell you no! I went with an epidural. I would LOVE to try it natural, but I just don't have the guts! Maayyyybeeee I'll try and see how far I can go with out the epidural next time. We'll see though. I have a few years to consider it. What about you??
Lune: I used to haaaate it when people would tell me that!! And it doesn't end there. Once you are pregnant and people ask you how you're doing it doesn't matter how you answer them, they always respond with "Oh, you just wait! It gets way worse!" They'll continue to say that until you're full term where then it's replaced with questions about where the baby is or how big you are. It's never endinggggggg!!!
Lei: I'm so happy to see your surgery went well! Rest up, doll. We'll be waiting to hear how you're recovering.
To add to the whole "big head" topic, OH's dad failed to tell me (until AFTER I had Draven) that EVERYONE in their family has had to have a c-section. I gave him a big fat "Thaaaanks for the warning..." Maybe if I'd known ahead of time I wouldn't have skipped the "c-section" sections in all my pregnancy books
On another little side note... So I finally made my appointment for my wisdom teeth to be taken out but they couldn't get me in until April 3rd. Weeelllllll, the problem is since I lost my job when I got pregnant I also lost my insurance. Luckily the state doesn't let pregnant women go uninsured so I've been on DSHS insurance for my pregnancy. That will run out March 1st though so after realizing that I called back to see if they could get me in this month so I won't have to pay the full price to get these stupid things out. Long story short, if I want to get them out this month I'll have to do it with out getting put to sleep. Juuuust novocaine. I'M TERRIFIED!!! I know I won't feel a thing, but it's the psychological part of it. I'll be fully awake thinking "They're ripping my teeth out" the entire time. Maybe I can get my doctor to prescribe me a few xanax to dope me up a little before hand....
Sorry I just wrote out an entire novel for you all to read lol. It's obviously been a while since I've caught up. I hope everyone is well!
I just hope it doesn't last to long. Just wanted to say hi & I don't know what I would do without you all. Love you all so much!
Thank you so much for having DH update us. That was so sweet.
