Ok. At 6 weeks today, I'm feeling brave enough to tentatively join you. In the last week I've read this and 2 other November threads in full, but decided this seemed to be the most active.
A potted history of my baby situation: we tried for over 3.5 years to conceive naturally, with a diagnosis of unexplained infertility. Had IVF in September 2013, resulting in our gorgeous boy, who will be 3 in June. Last January's cycle resulted in a pregnancy, which I sadly lost at about 6 weeks (the spotting started at 5+5, which is why I waited until today to post), with the miscarriage happening over Mother's Day; yesterday's Mothers' Day I just prayed would pass as a normal day, which thankfully it did! With no further pregnancies, we went ahead and used our 2 frozen embies, over 2 cycles in September and November, both with negative outcomes. We've been saving to have the full IVF again from maybe May this year, but 2 weeks ago I was shocked, stunned and delighted to get a positive result when I tested. With a previous miscarriage and boxes of progesterone left from my frozen cycles, I self-medicated progesterone. So I'm going to phone my fertility clinic tomorrow to ask their advice about cutting down in due course, as I only have enough to last me to about 8.5 weeks on 2 per day. I might also see if they'll do me a scan at 8 weeks, even if I have to pay for it.
I haven't relaxed into the pregnancy and haven't really allowed myself to get excited. But with each passing day, I feel that bit more hopeful that this could happen. I have next to no symptoms, which does bother me, but I've had quite a bit of cramping - mostly on the right side - and I hope and think it's just stretching, but on Saturday it lasted all day and was quite intense.
Our current due date is 20th November and I'm currently 38 but will 39 before the baby arrives, so an older mummy! (not for the want of trying, if you consider I came off the pill when I was 31).