The 2 week wait i didn't bother with and it worked :)

[beckiieboo]

Hi all,

i know i shouldn't be posting a BFP in this section but i thought i would give you ladies some hope. I have been TTC for 3 months and i was getting totally obsessed. I am a uni student and this month i gave my self the excuse that i didn't want to fall pregnant due to being so close to exams, so i really relaxed.stopped temping (well the odd few at beginning, some round ovulation, and then stopped) i done opk's and took my vitamins but forgot about it really. I told myself i really didn't want it this month.

well guess what at 11 dPO i got a very faint BFP and 12 dpo a clearer BFP.. they do say the months you stop being obsessed or trying as hard it happens and i am now a stung believer of this.
I really didn't think it would happen this quick. I had started taking agnus castus and vit b6, EPO last month but didn't start until CD7 (ish) so this month was a first full month of taking them, but when i ovulated i stop taking everything. i didn't even take pregnecare or fit b6, i jus thought to myself ;i couldn't b bothered and was stressful'..

So my tip would be to honestly relax, i know it is hard to not obsess over it but really find an excuse to not fall that month and it could happen.

Agnus castus, vit b6 and EPO defo helped big time too!

good luck all.

x

oh and i had no symptoms all month until 11dpo i had sharp pains in my nipples!
xx

 

[MrsButterfly]

Congrats!

 

[AmandaBaby]

Congratulations! I;m a strong believer in this as well (except, I wish I could take my own advice). We had initially been trying for 2 months before we feel pregnant (ended in MC). The first month I was stressing over it so much and I was so convinced it would happen straight away. When it didn't and AF arrived, I was so upset, but more so ANGRY at the whole TTC process. We hardly BD'd around ovulation that month because I was so sick of it (already - lol) and then I took a test at 8 DPO because I thought I might still have conceived the last month and it was a very faint positive!! I couldn't believe it!!
We're now trying again and this is the first time trying since the MC (no AF in between). I've been obsessing so much this month, taken about 15 HPTs in about 6 days!! And I really don't think it's my month. Going to just relax next month, NOT test until AF would be due and just hope for the best. I'll be getting engaged soon and starting a new job next month so hopefully it will take my mind of the whole thing
Congratulations again and I hope you have a very happy and very healthy 9 months xx

 

[AmandaBaby]

That made me sound like I was sick of BD, but I wasn't. It was more so the whole legs in the air thing for 15 minutes afterwards -_- lol x

 

[beckiieboo]

thanks for the contrast
ahh i know what you mean it can get draining after obsessing so much and feeling like its too much science!

hope you get your BFP soon and foul have some stuff to take your mind off it

thanks butterfly xx

 

[beckiieboo]

honestly the month you don't take any notice of things and just opk and BD then forget about it, defo worked for me

good luck to the rest of you

recommend Agnus castus up until ov, EPO up until ov and Vit b6 all the way .. first full month of them and BFP

x

 

[doopersgurl]

congrats beckiieboo