we've decided to only give it one try as even though we have only been trying for two years. i've had 5 operations in my baby making area. only have one ovary and one fallopian tube left. 2 miscarriages. A year of fertility treatment. i'm on a special food diet too, so we have just decided that if the IVF doesn't work after the first try we are going to just say we are meant to have our own child and we will start the adoption process. THe IVF costs about €6-7,000 over here, then the adoption will cost about €30,000 so we have to be wise with our money so that's why only one try. I'm at the end of the road and can't go through much more so it will be adoption which will take about 3 years. x