oh right sorry haha, the charges arnt that bad like said start about 800for full package thats on top of holiday though which is gunna be 1000 at least, think me mum n dad are gunna pay for the actual wedding bit though,
weve only invited mums and dads, brothers and sisters and their partners and kids (just got one niece)then my best mate n her bf and stuarts best man and his gf but even thats 15people,
i got 9 sets of aunties and uncles all with at least 2 kids couple of got 5 includin step kids, then grandads, grandmas, great aunts, cousins kids, friends etc its just too much i dont want all that fuss, and stuart feels awkward cus his family is his m+d and his sister so he dont want tiny amount of people from his side and loads off mine, im nervous as it is i dont want 100s people there cus i dont really care tbh, were having big reception when we get back for everyone but actual wedding i want small, and we always like abroad cus i dont want just tatty register office lol, plus its honeymoon too init, xx