So, what I thought was a story of literally becoming a mom, was merely my story how how I found out I was pregnant and how I told friends and family.
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Silly pregnancy brain. Here's the labor and delivery story that I remember 2 years later!
As many of you already know I have been diagnosed with HBP, therefore putting me at high risk during pregnancy. My Dr. did not want me to go over 40 weeks pregnant, so she was looking into inducing me around 39 weeks. I went in a few days before 39 weeks, and the Dr. checked me. I was already 2cm dialted. Over the weekend on Sunday I began having what I thought were braxton hicks contractions (B/c they didn't hurt). They were coming every 5-10 minutes apart. This went on for 3 days (till tuesday) when I got the call from my Dr. saying that I needed to be at the hospital at 10pm that night to have our little guy! There was no time to process.
The nurses hooked me up to the machines after I arrived and I was already having measurable contractions. They put that gell on my cervix to soften things up a bit, and I was to "go to sleep!"
At about 4am, I woke up with some pretty painful contractions. I remember around 7am a nurse coming in to check me. I don't remember what I was dialated at then, but my Dr. stopped in and told me she wasn't going to break my water yet, b/c she had things to do that morning (like seeing patients), and I was progressing too fast!
I got my epidural when I was about 5-6 cm and right before they broke my water. This was around 9:30am. Things progressed pretty quickly after this. I was at 10 cm around 2pm, but waited another hour to start pushing b/c they wanted Joey to move down the birth canal a little further before I started pushing.
(I am SOO glad I had the epidural. I was still feeling the contractions even with the epidural, so I can't imagine what that pain would've been like without the drugs!)
A few weeks before I was induced I asked a Dr. if it was a problem that Joey was laying sideways in my stomache. He was still head-down, but he was crocked. He said Joey would "fix himself." I trusted him and went about my day.
Well, now we are in the delivery room, and he's not making his way down the birth canal like he should. The nurses decided I should try and push through it. This is where all the fun and excitement started (if you want to call it excitement). I was pushing my dear little heart out and nothing was happening! I had a mirror, b/c they thought I would be encouraged as I pushed. They had turned off the epidural, so that I would begin to feel more. Right before I started pushing, I was already freaked out that I could feel my legs...now they turned it off! Two and half hours later, things got a bit in tense in the delivery room. My dr. told me that Joey was getting distressed and that if he doesn't come out in the next pushed, they were going to have to do a C-section. I said "forget that!" I pushed him up the next push. He came out with a sideways cone-head!
He had swallowed meconium, so the nicu team was there to check him out, but he was okay. He needed oxygen for about 20 minutes, but then he was okay after that. We both spiked a fever during delivery, so we were both on antibiotics for 2 days following. It was annoying b/c I had to take that stupid poll with me to the bathroom every time I went (and you go like every 5 minutes b/c of all the fluids they give you).
Joey latched on right away after I gave birth to him, and it was amazing feeding him for the first time! But this was the last he latched on for 24 more hours! This then caused lots of stress with me, and a few tears and when my husband asked about us eating I yelled at him b/c Joey hadn't eaten since he was delivered. The lactation consultant helped us out, and things were better.
The roughest part was the 2.5 hours of pushing, otherwise I feel that things went really smoothly. I now have a 30lb, happy, 2 year old!
I can't wait for the excitement of #2. I really hope I go naturally and have that excitement of driving to the hospital etc. Good times!
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