Hey ladies,
CD11 - I usually get AF around CD13, so we'll see. I'm determined not to test until I make it past CD14.
Temp up this am (check out my chart). It's looking good, but I'm really trying not to get my hopes up. Trying not to do too much SS this time around either. And honestly, any symptoms I do have are REALLY mild. Mostly headaches, more than usual, but work is much more stressful than normal.
Back to the DH and Facebook/social networking subject - my DH had a FB account for a while, but it was mostly maintained by me. Once his ex tried to friend him and sent him this hugely obnoxious message (some bs about how she was so sick this past year, how she wasn't even allowed to tell him, blah blah), I deleted the account. I told him it was because he was getting too many friend requests from weird people. This particular ex is a witch - he was totally in love with her (she was his best friend), they slept together all summer, and when she went away to college, she told him she was gay, and wasn't into him. My stupid DH, being the naive little boy I adore, drove to see her at her college every. Damn. Weekend. Next thing you know, she's engaged, getting married at the courthouse, and wants DH to be her witness?! WTF. Very manipulative. Once we met, she kept saying how she had to meet me, because I had to meet with her approval before he was allowed to date me. It went downhill from there. She lived 300 miles away, drove here every weekend to ride on the volunteer first aid squad with DH. To me it was just weird, because she was married and you NEVER saw her husband.
Once DH figured out I didn't like her, and that she absolutely HATED me, she somehow convinced him to lie to me whenever they hung out. One day I was out driving, passed his truck on the highway when he was supposedly elsewhere, and she was in the passenger seat. Another time, his family was having a graduation party for him, I was at work all day and coming by later...the beginning of the party, before I got out of work, guess who shows? She spent the entire time she was at the party badmouthing me to anyone who would sit still long enough. When I called DH to tell him I was on my way, she jumped up and left. I didn't know about it until a few months later.
The final straw was when she was having a party at her place (300 miles away). A mutual friend of ours called me and asked me what time we were leaving, since she was under the assumption we were carpooling. I, however, didn't even KNOW about the party. Turns out DH had told Mutual Friend that they'd go together, neglecting to add the "Don't tell Lindsay" part of the equation. I called DH, and asked him what his plans were for the weekend. He tells me he had no plans, and wanted to know why. I played off that a different friend wanted to go to the movies, or some bs. He just said he had no plans, we'd see what was going on. So I asked him if that meant he wasn't going to his ex's party.
Total silence.
Ended up being a wicked fight, something like a month before we got married. Told him it was either her or me, and he cut her off. She tried to contact him a couple times since then, and he's been good about not replying. I never liked the way she treated him, how she managed to keep him hanging on for so long. I hated that she almost was the end of us more than once. So I'm more SCARED of him having FB because I don't want that door opened again.
No fun plans this weekend. Work, work, more work.