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Spunky- i always think about it! and i get nervous if i go through a room and i see him hide a window. Usually it's because it's something he's embarrassed about that he's reading or that it's a gift for me. I always look anyway and if you hide it it's going to make me look harder.
 
Oh poo! It's too early to sleep. Dh and I had sushi, drank bottle of wine, and relaxed. I have a day with my girlfriends tomorrow. I'm excited. Will be looking forward to some bfps tomorrow. :thumbup:
 
Spunky- i always think about it! and i get nervous if i go through a room and i see him hide a window. Usually it's because it's something he's embarrassed about that he's reading or that it's a gift for me. I always look anyway and if you hide it it's going to make me look harder.

Yeah! He'll be like oh, I just finished the article. But I've found porn after hiding things like that. Just makes me crazy. And he's been pretty good the last couple of months. Just takes a lot of energy to be a crazy paranoid person, doesn't it?
 
I get so worked up just thinking about it..lol..and being paranoid..I really wish we lived back in the days of no comp. porn when you didnt have to worry about it and they couldnt hide it so easily...and having a hubby in the computer business doesnt help because I just know he can hide/lock whatever he wants..
 
Spunky you should take down your fertility friend ticker and put up a babygaga one where it tells us whats going on with the baby development....
 
I thought about it, but I liked when other positives had theirs up cause I could compare my chart. I'll probably take it down after my ultrasound on Monday.
 
Well, another day another bfn. I am not testing tomorrow. I'll just wait on af.
 
Spunky- i'm one of the girls who likes to see the charts of those who are pg too! I like to compare. Mine looks nothing like yours though (just peeked) :( I wonder if we succeeded this time. How many times did you BD in your cycle?

mrsmmm- hoping she doesn't come.
 
Good morning lovely ladies!!! :flower: I tested this morning and it was :bfn:, I thought i was starting to see a faint second line, but i doubt if it means anything. AF is due tomorrow and I wont be surprised or upset when she shows like every other month!! Life will just continue like it always does... sigh.... One good thing about these cheap test strips is that this set does not have any evap lines, even when they sit for a long time.. much better than my old set of 50 I got a few months ago, I got tons of evaps with those and was thinking i was pregnant. Other than the faulty test that I showed you guys a few days ago this set is much better.

I need to get cracking with my school work today so i can go out this afternoon. Ugghhh... I cant wait to be done with school finally!!! I hope it goes by fast. I am working in a group for this project for my last class. I hate working in groups, but the people in my group seem nice and easy to work with , so hopefully it will go smoothly.

good luck to you ladies and lots of baby dust to you guys!!!! :dust: :dust: :dust: :dust: :dust: :dust:
 
Spunky- i'm one of the girls who likes to see the charts of those who are pg too! I like to compare. Mine looks nothing like yours though (just peeked) :( I wonder if we succeeded this time. How many times did you BD in your cycle?

mrsmmm- hoping she doesn't come.

Mine never looked like anyone else's either, don't stress too much. :hugs: I was so disappointed that everyone I compared to was so different from mine, but it worked out, and I'm glad my ticker still has a purpose!
We had sex cd 8-10, cd 12-18. And twice on cd 16 and once the next morning, so 3 times in like 24 hours. Ovulation was cd17. For us it seemed like more really was more.
 
I dunno if it helps any... I was on a 26-28 day cycle and BD on:
cd 9
cd 10
cd 12
cd 14 (pos opk)
cd 15 (pos opk)
cd 16 (pos opk)

Decided to leave it to fate after that because he was knackered! :haha:
Lifted our current sex-ban this morning though. After over 3 months. Oh my, thats a weight lifted!!! Much less worried now.

Good luck to you all ladies. Sorry to hear about the BFNs... early days though! :dust: xx
 
Hey ladies,
CD11 - I usually get AF around CD13, so we'll see. I'm determined not to test until I make it past CD14.
Temp up this am (check out my chart). It's looking good, but I'm really trying not to get my hopes up. Trying not to do too much SS this time around either. And honestly, any symptoms I do have are REALLY mild. Mostly headaches, more than usual, but work is much more stressful than normal.

Back to the DH and Facebook/social networking subject - my DH had a FB account for a while, but it was mostly maintained by me. Once his ex tried to friend him and sent him this hugely obnoxious message (some bs about how she was so sick this past year, how she wasn't even allowed to tell him, blah blah), I deleted the account. I told him it was because he was getting too many friend requests from weird people. This particular ex is a witch - he was totally in love with her (she was his best friend), they slept together all summer, and when she went away to college, she told him she was gay, and wasn't into him. My stupid DH, being the naive little boy I adore, drove to see her at her college every. Damn. Weekend. Next thing you know, she's engaged, getting married at the courthouse, and wants DH to be her witness?! WTF. Very manipulative. Once we met, she kept saying how she had to meet me, because I had to meet with her approval before he was allowed to date me. It went downhill from there. She lived 300 miles away, drove here every weekend to ride on the volunteer first aid squad with DH. To me it was just weird, because she was married and you NEVER saw her husband.
Once DH figured out I didn't like her, and that she absolutely HATED me, she somehow convinced him to lie to me whenever they hung out. One day I was out driving, passed his truck on the highway when he was supposedly elsewhere, and she was in the passenger seat. Another time, his family was having a graduation party for him, I was at work all day and coming by later...the beginning of the party, before I got out of work, guess who shows? She spent the entire time she was at the party badmouthing me to anyone who would sit still long enough. When I called DH to tell him I was on my way, she jumped up and left. I didn't know about it until a few months later.
The final straw was when she was having a party at her place (300 miles away). A mutual friend of ours called me and asked me what time we were leaving, since she was under the assumption we were carpooling. I, however, didn't even KNOW about the party. Turns out DH had told Mutual Friend that they'd go together, neglecting to add the "Don't tell Lindsay" part of the equation. I called DH, and asked him what his plans were for the weekend. He tells me he had no plans, and wanted to know why. I played off that a different friend wanted to go to the movies, or some bs. He just said he had no plans, we'd see what was going on. So I asked him if that meant he wasn't going to his ex's party.

Total silence.

Ended up being a wicked fight, something like a month before we got married. Told him it was either her or me, and he cut her off. She tried to contact him a couple times since then, and he's been good about not replying. I never liked the way she treated him, how she managed to keep him hanging on for so long. I hated that she almost was the end of us more than once. So I'm more SCARED of him having FB because I don't want that door opened again.

No fun plans this weekend. Work, work, more work.
 
BFN this morning... and as you can see this is supposed to be cycle day 31 or 1 for me I think...no signs of AF...and since I have always had a period PCOS or not haha I dont feel like I will just start not having a period now that I know I have PCOS lol right?
 
Also pretty stuffed up still...dry stuffed up for the most part.. like its just my sinuses that are bigger but not runny or icky nose and not irritated or anything..also a bit constipated today lol...maybe the prenatals?
 
Hey ladies,
CD11 - I usually get AF around CD13, so we'll see. I'm determined not to test until I make it past CD14.
Temp up this am (check out my chart). It's looking good, but I'm really trying not to get my hopes up. Trying not to do too much SS this time around either. And honestly, any symptoms I do have are REALLY mild. Mostly headaches, more than usual, but work is much more stressful than normal.

Back to the DH and Facebook/social networking subject - my DH had a FB account for a while, but it was mostly maintained by me. Once his ex tried to friend him and sent him this hugely obnoxious message (some bs about how she was so sick this past year, how she wasn't even allowed to tell him, blah blah), I deleted the account. I told him it was because he was getting too many friend requests from weird people. This particular ex is a witch - he was totally in love with her (she was his best friend), they slept together all summer, and when she went away to college, she told him she was gay, and wasn't into him. My stupid DH, being the naive little boy I adore, drove to see her at her college every. Damn. Weekend. Next thing you know, she's engaged, getting married at the courthouse, and wants DH to be her witness?! WTF. Very manipulative. Once we met, she kept saying how she had to meet me, because I had to meet with her approval before he was allowed to date me. It went downhill from there. She lived 300 miles away, drove here every weekend to ride on the volunteer first aid squad with DH. To me it was just weird, because she was married and you NEVER saw her husband.
Once DH figured out I didn't like her, and that she absolutely HATED me, she somehow convinced him to lie to me whenever they hung out. One day I was out driving, passed his truck on the highway when he was supposedly elsewhere, and she was in the passenger seat. Another time, his family was having a graduation party for him, I was at work all day and coming by later...the beginning of the party, before I got out of work, guess who shows? She spent the entire time she was at the party badmouthing me to anyone who would sit still long enough. When I called DH to tell him I was on my way, she jumped up and left. I didn't know about it until a few months later.
The final straw was when she was having a party at her place (300 miles away). A mutual friend of ours called me and asked me what time we were leaving, since she was under the assumption we were carpooling. I, however, didn't even KNOW about the party. Turns out DH had told Mutual Friend that they'd go together, neglecting to add the "Don't tell Lindsay" part of the equation. I called DH, and asked him what his plans were for the weekend. He tells me he had no plans, and wanted to know why. I played off that a different friend wanted to go to the movies, or some bs. He just said he had no plans, we'd see what was going on. So I asked him if that meant he wasn't going to his ex's party.

Total silence.

Ended up being a wicked fight, something like a month before we got married. Told him it was either her or me, and he cut her off. She tried to contact him a couple times since then, and he's been good about not replying. I never liked the way she treated him, how she managed to keep him hanging on for so long. I hated that she almost was the end of us more than once. So I'm more SCARED of him having FB because I don't want that door opened again.

No fun plans this weekend. Work, work, more work.

How is it they always find the most manipulative crazies to follow around. My opposing girl actually asked if she could come to the wedding. Arg. Hated her.

Impressive temp climbing!!!
 
Still nothing for me..lol...didnt test this morning but AF is officially one day late lol...hmmppfff....
 
Ok ladies..stupid question time..lol..

If I were to be preggie right now.. I would be 4 weeks and 1 day preggie..so.....if I were to be looking at preggie calendars and they ask me to pick what week I am in...would I pick week 4..or week 5...Im asking because week 4 always says that at the end of this week you should expect your period...but I was expecting my period yesterday..lol.. I know Im prolly over analyzing..but..just wondering
 
MrsJ, I'd say 4 wks. I'm due for af today. Didn't test this morning....too hung over. I'll update if she shows up.
 
Hey ladies,
CD11 - I usually get AF around CD13, so we'll see. I'm determined not to test until I make it past CD14.
Temp up this am (check out my chart). It's looking good, but I'm really trying not to get my hopes up. Trying not to do too much SS this time around either. And honestly, any symptoms I do have are REALLY mild. Mostly headaches, more than usual, but work is much more stressful than normal.

Back to the DH and Facebook/social networking subject - my DH had a FB account for a while, but it was mostly maintained by me. Once his ex tried to friend him and sent him this hugely obnoxious message (some bs about how she was so sick this past year, how she wasn't even allowed to tell him, blah blah), I deleted the account. I told him it was because he was getting too many friend requests from weird people. This particular ex is a witch - he was totally in love with her (she was his best friend), they slept together all summer, and when she went away to college, she told him she was gay, and wasn't into him. My stupid DH, being the naive little boy I adore, drove to see her at her college every. Damn. Weekend. Next thing you know, she's engaged, getting married at the courthouse, and wants DH to be her witness?! WTF. Very manipulative. Once we met, she kept saying how she had to meet me, because I had to meet with her approval before he was allowed to date me. It went downhill from there. She lived 300 miles away, drove here every weekend to ride on the volunteer first aid squad with DH. To me it was just weird, because she was married and you NEVER saw her husband.
Once DH figured out I didn't like her, and that she absolutely HATED me, she somehow convinced him to lie to me whenever they hung out. One day I was out driving, passed his truck on the highway when he was supposedly elsewhere, and she was in the passenger seat. Another time, his family was having a graduation party for him, I was at work all day and coming by later...the beginning of the party, before I got out of work, guess who shows? She spent the entire time she was at the party badmouthing me to anyone who would sit still long enough. When I called DH to tell him I was on my way, she jumped up and left. I didn't know about it until a few months later.
The final straw was when she was having a party at her place (300 miles away). A mutual friend of ours called me and asked me what time we were leaving, since she was under the assumption we were carpooling. I, however, didn't even KNOW about the party. Turns out DH had told Mutual Friend that they'd go together, neglecting to add the "Don't tell Lindsay" part of the equation. I called DH, and asked him what his plans were for the weekend. He tells me he had no plans, and wanted to know why. I played off that a different friend wanted to go to the movies, or some bs. He just said he had no plans, we'd see what was going on. So I asked him if that meant he wasn't going to his ex's party.

Total silence.

Ended up being a wicked fight, something like a month before we got married. Told him it was either her or me, and he cut her off. She tried to contact him a couple times since then, and he's been good about not replying. I never liked the way she treated him, how she managed to keep him hanging on for so long. I hated that she almost was the end of us more than once. So I'm more SCARED of him having FB because I don't want that door opened again.

No fun plans this weekend. Work, work, more work.

NJ,

Gosh girl, i am so sorry you had to go through that with his psycho bitch EX!!!!! I probably would of beat that bitch's behind!!!!:growlmad: Ugghhhh, she sounds very manipulative and she was definatly trying to get your DH back because of all of the scandoulous crap she was doing!!!!! Men are so dumb too, and they cant see what is going on, they think it is all innocent, and she is just a friend, blah, blah, blah.... and dont know what psychos women can be and how scandolous they are!!! Honestly there are very few women I trust when it comes to my husband!!!!

I am glad that your DH made the right decision and chose to be with you and end the relationship with his psycho bitch ex!!!! I am also glad you put your foot down and wasnt willing to put up with that BS anymore!!! Good for you!!!:thumbup:

I know my DH's FB password, and can log on and see what is going on at anytime, so I can see what is going on with his stuff. We made a compromise on the problems that we were having with our FB argument before. He isnt deleting his page, but he is removing and no longer accepting the friend request of random single women from his past. Ugghhhh, I wanted us to both delete our FB pages, but he isnt willing to because he is getting back in touch with alot of his old highschool guy friends and army guy friends, which I can understand. DH knows my FB password as well and can go on there if he wants as well. So of course i every so often go on there and check his friends list and make sure nothing fishy is going on... I hate being like that with him, but I just cant help myself. Bottom line is that I do trust him, or else i wouldnt have married him... But I dont trust all of these random women he knows from back whenever in the days, that are on there!!!! Women can be very scandolous!!!!!:growlmad:
 
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