with TTC, me and DH are NTNP, I am not making him use protection or anything, but I am also not doing OPK's and timing sex for my OV window...I dont really want to look into fertility options until about 3 to 4 years into the future, I honestly dont think that I am going to get pregnant naturally due to DH's low
count, and honestly i have lost hope that it will happen on its own at this point. My job situation being up in the air makes it an additional stresser that I dont want to add to the mix, and our finances are tight right now, me and DH have a plan in place to pay off our debt in 3 to 4 years once I get a steady reliable job, and than after that we will put the plan into place. We have even talked about downsizing our home as an option, although we dont want to unless we absolutely have to. DH will also be getting a raise this summer, and hopefully he will be able to move up in his job so that will mean our finances will be better over time as a result of that as well. Hopefully my job situation is going to improve over time as well.
I just cant handle the emotional roller coaster of TTC month after month right now, and crying and feeling so devestated when AF arrives, i am emotionally exhausted and just cant handle it anymore right now, plus my job situtaion and our finances are too much and will push me over the edge at this point i think... So I am choosing not to focus on TTC so much anymore and in 3 to 4 years if it hasnt happened naturally we will look into fertility options. I figure by the time I am 35 than I can start to panic and really focus on TTC, and still have a few more years...I hope....
When I quit my last job, I was going to be working late evenings and would be working around DH's shift if I got pregnant, so it was an answer to us not being able to afford daycare, and i thought it was a solution for our problems, but instead the job was a nightmare, and I ended up hating it....
So now it is back to the drawing board....
With most jobs i will be working during the day along with DH, and I dont see anyway we can afford daycare right now... sigh...