Hi Cottleston, Im sure everything is fine, just remember, a fair amount of women experience bleeding in early pregnancy and its perfectly normal and ok....just keep telling yourself that.....over and over and over it just means that LO is burrowing in deeper to get comfy for the next few weeks!!
My mom had period like bleeding for a few months into each of her pregnancies and we are all fine...well my little sister has some mental issues as we now all know lol.... now but shes healthy physically lol!!! and Im glad you have decided to stick around with us!!
Yay Spunky, I do believe mine is over as well as of last night, thank god for short periods!!! 3 days!!! woohoo!!
Now just have to wait until my ticker says day 10 and thats when I plan on starting my OPK testing, do NOT want to miss that big O time lol....
Babe I totally agree with you, some doctors are asses!!! I wonder if midwife types are any better? Which brings me to a good question for the start of the day... where do you plan on having your baby? home? birthing center? hospital? out in the middle of nowhere with nature??
ha ha sorry I went to a hippie college and I can just imagine some of the people there choosing that last option lol..lol... I know I want someone that is medically trained and a facility that can handle anything that might happen because I know things can happen, my family is proof...but I also want to be able to move around and not be stuck to a bed...
Heres a weird and funny story, the funny part is in the end mind you lol....my younger brother (now 16) had to be helicoptered to a hospital in Asheville that specialized in pediatrics and had a huge NICU because the stupid Dr. said he needed to be induced but his lungs weren't developed yet, I so wish we had sued, he still has asthma issues, stupid Dr...anyway....then about 4 years later my step-mom went into labor with my youngest sister (now 13) at 28 weeks and was rushed to that same hospital in Asheville...Megan weighed 2 lbs 8oz when she was born, she was in the preemie NICU in the incubator forever and then finally got moved to the NICU with the open beds and here is the weird and funny part in the story....when she was moved there, she was in the exact same bed/place that my brother had been in 4 years earlier!!!! I mean there are a lot beds in there, it was just so weird/funny!!
Ok so Im up early because we had a huge fight last night, started over the stupidest stuff and ended up talking about deeper stuff, I cried...we were up till 2 or so talking....and so I got up to make him breakfast before work...as I think Ive mentioned he has diabetes and has to take like 5+ pills in the morning and an insulin shot and then the same at night before bed....some of the meds are for blood pressure and so that affects his ability to umm..well I'll just say it...sometimes it takes him a bit to get hard and then sustain it...STUPID MEDS!! lol....but anyway so we havent done it in like 2 weeks!!! and I wasnt pushing it because I know hes been working on the shower and stuff so I havent said anything but then last week I was asking and hinting and everything and he said no wait till the weekend..and of course who shows up on Friday...AF!!....so I was like yeah there goes that...and then last night I knew AF was over and I told him and he said oh thats good and that we would have naughty cuddles ( I know I sound like Im 5 lol...) and so I took a shower and shaved..every freaking where mind you
.... and then somehow that small argument happened and he ended up being an ass and not even coming to bed till 1am when he knew what I wanted and that he had to be up early this morning
... and so then we had an even bigger fight..I went to the other room..he came in there...tried to get me to act like nothing had happened and I said no I was tired of being fussed at for nothing...and then he was all
and left and went back to bed..and then about 5 mins later he came back in
and was like "please come back to bed Im sorry please come back you know we cant sleep like this I miss you and I want you to come back and Im sorry.." and I said "I'll come back if you say that it wasn't my fault and that I really didn't do anything" and he said it and I went back and then we ended up having a huge discussion/argument over me thinking its all because I don't turn him on (since I'm overweight, course he is too but..) and him saying it was because of the meds and diabetes has been crazy lately..and me asking if the only reason he finally agreed to have a baby was because he knew that we would never be doing it so there wasn't a chance that I would get preggie so he just decided to say yes to finally placate me and make me stop bugging him about it...and I cried and said there is no way I'll get preggie if we only do it every other weekend... and it just went from there...and we finally fell asleep...and then when he got up I got up to make him a healthy breakfast so he could get out the door to work on time... but I am still so frustrated..its like if I ask him or hint or whatever about naughty cuddles he gets mad and upset....then I try to not talk about it and let it just be spontaneous and it still never happens..and then when finally its kind of agreed on to happen and I get all excited and "ready" for it and then something like this happens and I still dont get it.... ughh...