The One Year Strong Ladies!

[HappiestMom]

ha ha I know how you feel with all the brothers and sisters..Im the oldest of 7 but the only kid from MY mom and dad, then my mom has the 16 and 15 year old from my ex step dad and then the 2 year old and 9 month old that shes adopting with new hubby and then my dad and step mom have the 13 and 11 year old... its soo complicated lol..

I definitely definitely want to have the first one in some kind of pre-k program or maybe even kindergarten before I have number 2..I know how hard it is to have two kids under 4 years old..and then not sure about number 3...but I figure with the older in some kind of program you atleast have some peace and a break and since my family isnt close I wont have that option...

 

[Kitten91]

yeah i know what you mean, my family is the same, my dads side is all very close but i am only in contact with mum on my mums side....

i would only want one until reception year at school which is about 4 years old. before considering number 2.

you thought of names ?

For a girl we decided on : Kairi Elizabeth
For a Boy We Decided on: Tristan James
like to have ideas about what we would call our kid(s)

 

[HappiestMom]

Brieanan Jade for a girl and Kennar Dalton for a boy, I also like Marston for a first name for a boy but havent picked a middle name for that one yet

 

[Spunky]

This should definitely be your month. Why? Just because. You deserve it.

I'm at home. Terrified coz of blood this morning. EPU won't bring my appointment forward a day and now I'm off work bedresting with just my paranoid brain for company.

Just distract yourself with non baby related tv. Whenever something happens my mind goes to the worst, stay AWAY from there!!! Hope it stops and the doc tells you you're fine tomorrow!

Bleeding in early pregnancy is very common and doesn't always mean bad things are happening.

 

[HappiestMom]

I just wrapped some steaks in bacon...yay..cant wait for that tonight...

 

[HappiestMom]

https://www.psychicreadingsbysandragibbs.com/#/conception-pregancy-and-ferti/4533327872

I better get my reading or a refund....

 

[fluffywabbit]

i g ot a question i hope i have not asked it before. its about af. to predict when i shoul start after oing. do i count 14 days from the beginning of o or from the last day

 

[HappiestMom]

Im not sure as I dont know how you can tell exactly when O happened...

 

[fluffywabbit]

I am back...family has left...DH was so cute with my nephew and he is so excited for his own. AF is just about over so that means I am closer to the exciting, frustrating TWW.

I should O around the 8th to the 11th depending on if my cycle stays at 25 days...I don't temp but it is pretty clean when it happens.

Getting excited!!!

good luck 2 u lots and lots of baby dust

 

[fluffywabbit]

i sure would have liked to have read this whole post of urs MRSjerome but my blood glucose is getting low and i dont understand most si ill have to come back later to reread it lol

 

[HappiestMom]

ha ha oh its ok fluffy....hubby is diabetic too so I totally understand ha ha thats actually part of what the post is about, how his diabetes isnt good for our sex life ...hope you feel better!!

 

[Spunky]

Erica - I would believe your husband when he says it's the diabetes that's the hard part turning him on. More than I ever wanted to know but between my parents I have heard how my dad has a difficult time being able to perform due to diabetes/high blood pressure, and so they've tried cylexa I think (one of those get em up drugs) but it makes him feel bad due to his blood pressure (he gets dizzy/doesn't feel good). But he's a horn dog and I'm sure would like to have sex often. Ew. Now that beign said I never want to talk about that again.

 

[Spunky]

Fluffy - You ov about 14 days BEFORE your period. I'm 11 days before period though. However, I don't see how this useful, unless you are a very regular person, and you are the average of 14. Cause what good is knowing what day you ov when it's already happened? If you're a 28 day cycle then you ov day 14, 29 day ov day 15, 30 ov day 16, etc. At least that's what research has said.

 

[Spunky]

My husband fight SOOO much sometimes. I'll go in another room to cry and he'll follow me into the other room and then scream at me for crying because then I'm making him feel like an asshole and he's not the asshole! WTF? I thought about leaving him a few months ago after 7 years of marriage due to an issue we keep having, but I think we've got a better system down now. I didn't want to keep having the same huge fight every couple years. Told him I wouldn't want to have kids with him if this is how things are going to be. It was pretty bad. But we've moved on, and we'll be good. Just the really big fights suck!

 

[HappiestMom]

Oh I know all about it...our big fight issue was and hopefully wont be ever again..his little porn addiction..it just fuels too many bad feelings and fights...he claimed he couldnt help it and now I dont trust him at all home alone or even alone if Im somewhere else in the house and hes close to a computer....it sucks as when it happened I would just be able to kind of get over it and then it would happen again..so now I dont know if I will every be able to trust him....and I also almost left him course we havent been together that long yet but I told him that if it happened again, if I found out right away or even if I didnt find out till later which is how it happened before a few times that I would be gone, I told him I didnt care if we had kids, I would be gone...I am just not going to make myself feel like shit because he says he NEEDS to watch porn....

 

[Spunky]

I want to have my babies in the hospital I was born in (about 5-10 minutes from my house). Part of their thing is they have midwives and doctors, so I would want a midwife because I think they would allow me to get up and move more and have less intervention if I want, but I would still be able to get an epidural or c-section as needed (many babies in my family are c-section due to complications).

Baby names: Boy: James (? husband wants Lee-family middle name but it's his first name, ugh, plus it sounds like a martial artist) and 2nd boy Luke Marlin (Marlin is my dad's first name).
Girl: Julie Lynn and 2nd girl (God help me because if I have a girl like me I'm screwed if I have more than 1, I was a terrible teen) Katherine Martha.

 

[Spunky]

Oh I know all about it...our big fight issue was and hopefully wont be ever again..his little porn addiction..it just fuels too many bad feelings and fights...he claimed he couldnt help it and now I dont trust him at all home alone or even alone if Im somewhere else in the house and hes close to a computer....it sucks as when it happened I would just be able to kind of get over it and then it would happen again..so now I dont know if I will every be able to trust him....and I also almost left him course we havent been together that long yet but I told him that if it happened again, if I found out right away or even if I didnt find out till later which is how it happened before a few times that I would be gone, I told him I didnt care if we had kids, I would be gone...I am just not going to make myself feel like shit because he says he NEEDS to watch porn....

Porn was our fight too. It's my fault apparently because I should love him enough to not to try to change him. Seriously? I told him I'll watch it WITH him and then we can do it! What could be better? But no... he has to hide it. He says (which I believe him) that he only looks at it when we're in a dry spell (like a couple weeks or more) and for like less than a half hour. I told him I still can't handle that, and he seemed to think that I was being unreasonable. Well, he said he'll talk to me more and ask me to look at it with him if he wants to look at it. Arg.

 

[CottlestonPie]

We had a porn row. He kept saying he was too tired/it was too hot/whatever to ... but he turned his phone on to text someone while we were in bed and there was porn on the screen from where he'd sneaked into the loo to watch it at work.
I got offended that he didn't wait til he'd come home and then gone to bed, but I find it kinda funny that he was so mortified that he got caught. He openly admits that if he has a day off work and he's sitting around in his pants and he's bored, he'll watch it just because. I can deal with that. As long as it's just on a screen and not in real life and not too often I can deal with it I think.

I suppose now I'm terrified of any kind of intimacy on my part, I've gotta expect him to need SOME kind of release. Spose I'd better start giving him more trouser kisses or he'll be watching porn more often!

 

[CottlestonPie]

I'm scared to mention baby names at the moment because of what's happening but I'm stuck on girls names. Seriously can't think of any that I'd want my child to grow up with.
Boys names, I've got one picked and 3 others that I like. But girls names are tricky!

 

[Spunky]

TROUSER KISSES?!?!!? LOL Mine wouldn't look at it at all if he got more trouser kisses I'm sure.