The One Year Strong Ladies!

[Spunky]

i know
the house we are in now is a mess, there is damp on almost every wall in every room and the heating doesn't work properly so we've told the landlord to stick it !
We are moving to a open plan one bed appartment, closer to town with double glazing and central heating and we can acctually decorate this place...
Can't wait

You on facebook spunky ? x

Nah, not on facebook hubby and I don't social network, we're too antisocial hahaha Feel free to personal message me though

 

[HappiestMom]

Hi everyone, I asked Menagerie to come on and tell you all that I prolly wont be around for a while because I was just too teary to do so myself..but now that I have stopped crying for the moment I thought I would let you ladies know what happened...I found hubby downloading porn again....right with me in the room...its like the 10th time and he always says hes doing it because I dont physically turn him on so he feels like to make me happy he has to look at it to get turned on and then do me....which..well Im sure you can imagine how that feels to be told that...so we had a huge fight..and Im not even talking to him right now...so..no more TTC...and Im glad I wasnt preggie this time to be honest....I just know that I dont want to have a kid and just always think that for them to even have been conceived daddy had to get hard by looking at porn because mommy disgusted him so much...I just cant believe he did it again and I have to go through this emotionally again...ugh...and I cant believe I was so stupid to start trusting him either...I just have no words to describe how mad/sad/and just furious I am...I do wish you all the best of luck and I hope you all get your BFPs soon..you ladies deserve it more than anyone I know..not sure when or if I'll be back on here again..but I'll def try to catch up with you all sometime...baby dust to all of you...thanks for all your support through everything!!!

 

[Spunky]

Good luck, I've had the hiding porn fight repeatedly, but not the not turning on fight. I'm sorry he does not deserve you after this.

 

[Kaede351]

Sorry your OH is being a d**k, MrsJerome, some men just don't know when they're on to a good thing. Sending you lots of

FF confirmed ovulation for 5 days ago, so I'm 5dpo today

XxX

 

[happymuffin]

hi ladies , jus a fast question: can we bd during these 2ww?

 

[Kitten91]

Ow Erica,

No woman deserves that he sounds like he's being a right twat !
i hope you are going to be ok my thoughts are with you....
You can do so much better, really can.

Happymuffin - I'm not sure if we can BD or not i think you can i tend to ;P

Spunky - i don't believe for one minute that you are anti social, lol, i see you talking lots on here.

Hugs And good Luck too you all xx

 

[Spunky]

Well, thought I ovulated, as temp jumped so much, but back down today WTF? SO I guess I'm not tww which is why ff waits for three temps, but a .8 jump? With no waking up or anything weird. Arg, onto more bd I guess today and tomorrow, thought we could go back to having carefree not on-demand sex.

 

[Kaede351]

Spunky - My temp did that this time around, but FF still counted the dip as 2dpo because I had a +opk to confirm OV... Maybe it'as just a fall back rise and it will be up again tomorrow

XxX

 

[Kitten91]

stay positive spunky, i'm sure the dip is nothing, i had a dip today of about .4 i think i was couldn't tell you for sure without checking FF xx

 

[Spunky]

My dip was .7 after a .8 rise.... My opk still seems positive... So either it's a fallback and my opks are picking up the decline of lh, or I haven't oved yet, but that wouldn't explain the high temp to me... Thanks for the opinions ladies!!

 

[Kitten91]

no problem

 

[Spunky]

Here's my chart: https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/3033e5

Isn't it funny that I don't want to have it in my signature because it seems personal? lol. Let me know what you think if you want to/have time. I've been looking into fallback rise and if it goes back up tomorrow I'm pretty sure that's what it is.

 

[Kaede351]

I would say that you have OV'd... it looks alot like what happened to my temps this month. the link is in my sig if you want to compare

XxX

 

[Spunky]

It looks a lot like yours but my opks are still postive and that worries (not the right word but can't think of another) me. LOL, I'm just too damned impatient to wait until tomorrow morning to interpret.

 

[Kaede351]

Haha, I didn't believe my OPK when it said +... it wasn't quite as dark as the test line... so to make sure I carried on dtd after it said + lol... if I take out the +OPK it says I'm only 3dpo... but either way, because of all the bd we did I'm abuot covered... I hope ;P

XxX

 

[Spunky]

lol, thanks, I'll just tell hubby he's on duty for the next two days just in case, then we can go back to spontaneous fun sex, lol. Thanks for giving me your opinion, I hate clogging the board with just my worries, but I do feel better!

 

[leannestacey]

Hi, I have had positve smiley faces on clear blue for the last 3 days..this is my first time using these tests, is this normal? Thanks ladies x

 

[Spunky]

I dont' know, haven't used that brand, but my guess is it means you're ovulating. My opks will show positive for 1-3 days, could be showing the build up, peak, and decline, make sure you're having sex

 

[Kitten91]

i think it's good to try and have sex as often as possible especially when TTC x

 

[mrsmmm]

Hi ladies! Mrs J!! Let me say you're hubby doesn't deserve you. My ex was just like your DH. He was attracted to larger (300+ lb) women. I'm you're average run of the mill not fluffy but not thin lady. He would constantly look at porn trying to get a stiffy before we'd bd. After 2 years I couldn't take it anymore. then he cheated. It was the last straw. We split. He's now married to a woman that fits his desire and I have a DH who is crazy about me. Good times. You're in my thoughts.

I ov'd early. Dh's meds for his tooth extraction worked against us. He got stiff but not finish. TMI....sorry. We'll try again this evening, but my opks are lighter now so I am in the 2ww but not really.