cheerios
Mom of 5 (4 on earth 1 in heaven)
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i love your story and i am very happy for you. I am also glad that i have found someone who might be able to answer my question. I usd to be a very catholic woman and the word of god and mother mary were like air to me. I couldnt imagine not having the in my life, especially when my son was born. we tried for 2 years for him. Now i am in my 4th year of trying and i am still nowhere to close to providing another child to join our family. My faith is slowly disappearing. IF GOOD IS GOOD AND I HAVE TRIED TO LIVE A GOOD LIFE WITH HIM IN MY HEART, THEN WHY AM I SUFFERING STILL!!! please help if you can. Thank you and god bless you all.
Kermy!
Thanks for your comments.
I see that you have a son. Congrats!!!!
I'm sorry that you've been waiting so long to have your second baby. And dear, I have absolutely no answers about this whole conceiving issue. I don't know why its so easy for some women to conceive and give birth to 4/5 babies and some take forever with their first even.
All I know is that God is good. And His plans are perfect. And we may not understand all the "whys" on this side of eternity but we will eventually when we meet Him face to face.
I know of a pastor and his wife who took 10 yrs to conceive their first baby. They conceived their second within 2 years (I think) but lost the baby because of a miscarriage. And since then they haven't had any more babies.
They wrote their testimony on pdf form. If you want, I can send you their testimony (will ask them for their consent first).
We will all have suffering on this side of eternity because we're not living in heaven yet. Only in heaven will we have no pain and no tears. Suffering is part and parcel of the Christian life. Jesus suffered as a man too. He was crucified on the cross. But it was the fulfillment of God's plans.
I'm not saying, "Oh its God's plan for you to suffer". But that suffering is part of the world we live in because we live in a fallen world.
Do you go to a local church? Perhaps you can get the pastor to pray over you and your hubby? And it might be a good idea to have a close group of friends who you can confide in and pray for you too?
The one thing you can keep falling back on is that God is GOOD. And He has proven Himself with the son you have. I know its your desire to have more children. God knows your heart. Keep going back to the simple truth that you alreayd have a son. And with that truth, trust that God who has done that is capable of making it happen again. I don't know how long it will take, but know that God's timing is always perfect.