Things I cannot say out loud....

[Ozzieshunni]

FUCK YOU! That is all

 

[MizzDeeDee]

FUCK YOU! That is all

I like it when you talk purdy.

 

[cowboys angel]

Oh Ozzie...talk dirty to me again!

 

[BrokenfoREVer]

FOB... Stop talking about me to your ex!!! If she can say her daughter is nothing to do with you then I can say my son is nothing to do with her!

Stop bitching about me. This is a woman who told me I'm psycotic & not fit to be around children. I don't wish to hear you've been telling her you're sick of hearing me bitch about still being pregnant. Lol to the fact you walked into her reminding you that you've never been there after she's had a baby serves you right!

The fact her son & my son share you as a parent does not make them 'brothers' in my eyes. No I do not want them to meet, what are you gonna say to Daniel 'this is mummy's friends little boy' Like he's gonna care. You can't tell him LO is his 'brother' cos he doesn't know you're his dad! Fool!

You're mother is disgusting for telling you to 'fuck your ex' & just tell Daniel you're his dad. He's 3 next month & for the last 2 yrs your ex's DH has been his dad. How cruel are you to try & do that to him?

So you're dad is in police custody again? Dear dear... doesn't look like LO will be spending much time with granny & grandad does it?

Also....would your ex help you shop for LO? No she wouldn't. So why I am being asked (2 days from being due) to wander round town with you to find him a xmas present!? I complained enough at doing it for LO. You're 24 yrs old...I'm sure you can pick a fucking gift for a 3 yr old! & I told you enough times not to buy teddies for LO for xmas...what have you bought him? A fucking disney teddy!!! Where the hell am I supposed to put this crap???

Oh & mom...I know exercise is meant to bring on labour...but cleaning the bathroom is a bit much, I'm done in now....just dare complain about it....

& breathe....

 

[MizzDeeDee]

FOB... Stop talking about me to your ex!!! If she can say her daughter is nothing to do with you then I can say my son is nothing to do with her!

Stop bitching about me. This is a woman who told me I'm psycotic & not fit to be around children. I don't wish to hear you've been telling her you're sick of hearing me bitch about still being pregnant. Lol to the fact you walked into her reminding you that you've never been there after she's had a baby serves you right!

The fact her son & my son share you as a parent does not make them 'brothers' in my eyes. No I do not want them to meet, what are you gonna say to Daniel 'this is mummy's friends little boy' Like he's gonna care. You can't tell him LO is his 'brother' cos he doesn't know you're his dad! Fool!

You're mother is disgusting for telling you to 'fuck your ex' & just tell Daniel you're his dad. He's 3 next month & for the last 2 yrs your ex's DH has been his dad. How cruel are you to try & do that to him?

So you're dad is in police custody again? Dear dear... doesn't look like LO will be spending much time with granny & grandad does it?

Also....would your ex help you shop for LO? No she wouldn't. So why I am being asked (2 days from being due) to wander round town with you to find him a xmas present!? I complained enough at doing it for LO. You're 24 yrs old...I'm sure you can pick a fucking gift for a 3 yr old! & I told you enough times not to buy teddies for LO for xmas...what have you bought him? A fucking disney teddy!!! Where the hell am I supposed to put this crap???

Oh & mom...I know exercise is meant to bring on labour...but cleaning the bathroom is a bit much, I'm done in now....just dare complain about it....

& breathe....

Why can't they just leave you alone while you're so heavily pregnant. I had this issue too.. nothing but drama while pregnant. Why can't they just let you be pregnant in peace?

 

[cowboys angel]

FOB... Stop talking about me to your ex!!! If she can say her daughter is nothing to do with you then I can say my son is nothing to do with her!

Stop bitching about me. This is a woman who told me I'm psycotic & not fit to be around children. I don't wish to hear you've been telling her you're sick of hearing me bitch about still being pregnant. Lol to the fact you walked into her reminding you that you've never been there after she's had a baby serves you right!

The fact her son & my son share you as a parent does not make them 'brothers' in my eyes. No I do not want them to meet, what are you gonna say to Daniel 'this is mummy's friends little boy' Like he's gonna care. You can't tell him LO is his 'brother' cos he doesn't know you're his dad! Fool!

You're mother is disgusting for telling you to 'fuck your ex' & just tell Daniel you're his dad. He's 3 next month & for the last 2 yrs your ex's DH has been his dad. How cruel are you to try & do that to him?

So you're dad is in police custody again? Dear dear... doesn't look like LO will be spending much time with granny & grandad does it?

Also....would your ex help you shop for LO? No she wouldn't. So why I am being asked (2 days from being due) to wander round town with you to find him a xmas present!? I complained enough at doing it for LO. You're 24 yrs old...I'm sure you can pick a fucking gift for a 3 yr old! & I told you enough times not to buy teddies for LO for xmas...what have you bought him? A fucking disney teddy!!! Where the hell am I supposed to put this crap???

Oh & mom...I know exercise is meant to bring on labour...but cleaning the bathroom is a bit much, I'm done in now....just dare complain about it....

& breathe....

Also, do you have an exercise ball? Bouncing on those is supposed to help with labor, and it doesn't take a lot of energy. Or have someone give you a foot rub. My OB actually told me no foot rubs til 37 weeks cuz I was having lots of issues wiith preterm labor and there's a point in your foot that stimulates labor. I'm sure you could find exactly where on google.

 

[HeeBeeGeeBee]

MIL
I don't care how you did things back then this is my baby not yours leave me alone....and no me having a bay is not the closest thing to you having a baby , you absolute freak!

 

[cerrie311]

As much as I hear horror stories about in-laws, I kinda wish I had them... My baby's grandparents on his father's side are not involved in LO's life at all His grandfather is crazy, lives in another part of the country, and has never seen LO...His grandmother lives in El Salvador... I grew up knowing all of my grandparents and I cant help but feel sad sometimes.

 

[Neko]

As much as I hear horror stories about in-laws, I kinda wish I had them... My baby's grandparents on his father's side are not involved in LO's life at all His grandfather is crazy, lives in another part of the country, and has never seen LO...His grandmother lives in El Salvador... I grew up knowing all of my grandparents and I cant help but feel sad sometimes.

My MIL lives with me. Can I move her in with you so you know what it's like?

 

[StarlitHome]

Dear DH's Family (Aunty, Cousin, MIL, etc) -

Hi. I'm TM's wife. We've been married for almost two years. We have a daughter. We live in our own place and have since we got married. We don't do everything that MIL does, we don't do everything that Aunty does. We have a completely separate life because we are a completely separate family unit.

This means that if you are planning a get-together for the family, it would be a good idea, hell it would just be polite, to give me or DH a call, or drop us an email, if you are including us.

Instead of just inviting Aunty or MIL and assuming they'll let us know.
Yes, even if Aunty says "Oh I'll tell them!"

Because she and MIL are weird and don't tell us till they see us, instead of giving us a call. Which means we are the last people to know.
Also, we don't want to just ride on the coattails of MIL bringing food to contribute, we'd like to bring something too, but how are we supposed to know what to bring if we don't talk to YOU??

The way you've done this, makes me feel like you see us as two kids playing house. Which we are not. And I have no idea how to get you to stop....

 

[cerrie311]

As much as I hear horror stories about in-laws, I kinda wish I had them... My baby's grandparents on his father's side are not involved in LO's life at all His grandfather is crazy, lives in another part of the country, and has never seen LO...His grandmother lives in El Salvador... I grew up knowing all of my grandparents and I cant help but feel sad sometimes.

My MIL lives with me. Can I move her in with you so you know what it's like?

LOL, I'm sure living together is enough to drive the sanest person crazy! I have had in-laws before (I'm divorced) We did not have a baby together but I know how crazy in-laws can be from when I was married.

All in all my LO has tons of love, just not as many free babysitters lol

 

[bluejen]

FIL - No Henry will not have "a suck of a chocolate at Christmas" he will be 5 MONTHS OLD! I actually did say that out loud an he replied, "Well, when we have him while you are at work I can take him to Gregs for a sausage roll..." WTF! I just left the room - that's a discussion for another day! :s

 

[Neko]

As much as I hear horror stories about in-laws, I kinda wish I had them... My baby's grandparents on his father's side are not involved in LO's life at all His grandfather is crazy, lives in another part of the country, and has never seen LO...His grandmother lives in El Salvador... I grew up knowing all of my grandparents and I cant help but feel sad sometimes.

My MIL lives with me. Can I move her in with you so you know what it's like?

LOL, I'm sure living together is enough to drive the sanest person crazy! I have had in-laws before (I'm divorced) We did not have a baby together but I know how crazy in-laws can be from when I was married.

All in all my LO has tons of love, just not as many free babysitters lol

MIL has issues and doesn't babysit either. I just get to live with her and listen to everything I do wrong.

 

[tiggerpony]

to my "friend" who had 4 lousey stitches after giving birth and keeps moaning about how awful the pain was after - "NO OFFENCE LOVE - but I had over 150 stitches and am now having to have more surgery done to try and fix me cos I have SHIT leaking out my bits!!!!!!!!! Stop whining about how much pain you were in - I am 15 weeks PP and am stil in pain and have to have a temp colostomy bag put in!! Stop telling me that I shoudnt of wished I had a C section instead of focepcs - cos I would of rather of died than have what I have now! I will never be normal again and me and my husband and no longer intimate cos I cant be! How would you like to be 25 years old and walking around wearing Tena lady pads having shit leak out your vagina and having to shower constantly because you recieved a 4th degree tear due to forceps and a crap doctor?! So. Stop whining about how bad you feel you had 4 stitches and how I should learn to live with what I have. Cos I cant. So shut up! Oh and stop going on about how great your christmas is guna be cos you know what, my xmas is guna be crap!" Ok andddddddd breeeeeeeeeathe.

 

[BrokenfoREVer]

Honestly...if I had to live with FOB's parents... it doesn't even bare thinking about. To have my son plucked out of my arms every time he sniffled, got out of bed at stupid o'clock to 'watch tv with grandad' & be heavily smoked around.

I'd go live with my mom's sister first!

 

[cerrie311]

to my "friend" who had 4 lousey stitches after giving birth and keeps moaning about how awful the pain was after - "NO OFFENCE LOVE - but I had over 150 stitches and am now having to have more surgery done to try and fix me cos I have SHIT leaking out my bits!!!!!!!!! Stop whining about how much pain you were in - I am 15 weeks PP and am stil in pain and have to have a temp colostomy bag put in!! Stop telling me that I shoudnt of wished I had a C section instead of focepcs - cos I would of rather of died than have what I have now! I will never be normal again and me and my husband and no longer intimate cos I cant be! How would you like to be 25 years old and walking around wearing Tena lady pads having shit leak out your vagina and having to shower constantly because you recieved a 4th degree tear due to forceps and a crap doctor?! So. Stop whining about how bad you feel you had 4 stitches and how I should learn to live with what I have. Cos I cant. So shut up! Oh and stop going on about how great your christmas is guna be cos you know what, my xmas is guna be crap!" Ok andddddddd breeeeeeeeeathe.

I am so sorry you had to go through and are still going through all of that. I do not blame you one bit for feeling the way you do. You are a strong woman.

 

[cerrie311]

As much as I hear horror stories about in-laws, I kinda wish I had them... My baby's grandparents on his father's side are not involved in LO's life at all His grandfather is crazy, lives in another part of the country, and has never seen LO...His grandmother lives in El Salvador... I grew up knowing all of my grandparents and I cant help but feel sad sometimes.

My MIL lives with me. Can I move her in with you so you know what it's like?

LOL, I'm sure living together is enough to drive the sanest person crazy! I have had in-laws before (I'm divorced) We did not have a baby together but I know how crazy in-laws can be from when I was married.

All in all my LO has tons of love, just not as many free babysitters lol

MIL has issues and doesn't babysit either. I just get to live with her and listen to everything I do wrong.

Oh man that really stinks Hope she gets a damn clue!

 

[Lettuce]

to my "friend" who had 4 lousey stitches after giving birth and keeps moaning about how awful the pain was after - "NO OFFENCE LOVE - but I had over 150 stitches and am now having to have more surgery done to try and fix me cos I have SHIT leaking out my bits!!!!!!!!! Stop whining about how much pain you were in - I am 15 weeks PP and am stil in pain and have to have a temp colostomy bag put in!! Stop telling me that I shoudnt of wished I had a C section instead of focepcs - cos I would of rather of died than have what I have now! I will never be normal again and me and my husband and no longer intimate cos I cant be! How would you like to be 25 years old and walking around wearing Tena lady pads having shit leak out your vagina and having to shower constantly because you recieved a 4th degree tear due to forceps and a crap doctor?! So. Stop whining about how bad you feel you had 4 stitches and how I should learn to live with what I have. Cos I cant. So shut up! Oh and stop going on about how great your christmas is guna be cos you know what, my xmas is guna be crap!" Ok andddddddd breeeeeeeeeathe.

you are having a terrible terrible time, I hope things are getting sorted for you. I know this may not help, but I hope it does... A friend of mine went through a similar experience, her lo got stuck, they used forceps and ripped right to the back, through rectum etc, and even cut right up her butt cheek. Like a huge L shaped tear. She was doubly incontinent, had fistulas, all that (don't think she had a temp colostmy, not sure) she was devastated. But her surgery has been very successful, she told me she has a designer vagina now, and 5 years on things are totally different. She's just announced she's pregnant with twins! I know you've said before you don't want anymore children, and hell, I don't blame ya, but I just wanted to say, though it took time and several ops, she is all fixed, physically and mentally, I hope you can be too. You are a great mum to be carrying on when you've gone through so much. you're friend is an eedjit.

 

[tiggerpony]

to my "friend" who had 4 lousey stitches after giving birth and keeps moaning about how awful the pain was after - "NO OFFENCE LOVE - but I had over 150 stitches and am now having to have more surgery done to try and fix me cos I have SHIT leaking out my bits!!!!!!!!! Stop whining about how much pain you were in - I am 15 weeks PP and am stil in pain and have to have a temp colostomy bag put in!! Stop telling me that I shoudnt of wished I had a C section instead of focepcs - cos I would of rather of died than have what I have now! I will never be normal again and me and my husband and no longer intimate cos I cant be! How would you like to be 25 years old and walking around wearing Tena lady pads having shit leak out your vagina and having to shower constantly because you recieved a 4th degree tear due to forceps and a crap doctor?! So. Stop whining about how bad you feel you had 4 stitches and how I should learn to live with what I have. Cos I cant. So shut up! Oh and stop going on about how great your christmas is guna be cos you know what, my xmas is guna be crap!" Ok andddddddd breeeeeeeeeathe.

I am so sorry you had to go through and are still going through all of that. I do not blame you one bit for feeling the way you do. You are a strong woman.

thank you hun.........but Im not strong. Im terrified of having the op for the colostomy bag, and I am told the reversal in 6 months time is hell.....I dont feel strong. I feel sad, in pain and a bit scared! x

 

[tiggerpony]

to my "friend" who had 4 lousey stitches after giving birth and keeps moaning about how awful the pain was after - "NO OFFENCE LOVE - but I had over 150 stitches and am now having to have more surgery done to try and fix me cos I have SHIT leaking out my bits!!!!!!!!! Stop whining about how much pain you were in - I am 15 weeks PP and am stil in pain and have to have a temp colostomy bag put in!! Stop telling me that I shoudnt of wished I had a C section instead of focepcs - cos I would of rather of died than have what I have now! I will never be normal again and me and my husband and no longer intimate cos I cant be! How would you like to be 25 years old and walking around wearing Tena lady pads having shit leak out your vagina and having to shower constantly because you recieved a 4th degree tear due to forceps and a crap doctor?! So. Stop whining about how bad you feel you had 4 stitches and how I should learn to live with what I have. Cos I cant. So shut up! Oh and stop going on about how great your christmas is guna be cos you know what, my xmas is guna be crap!" Ok andddddddd breeeeeeeeeathe.

you are having a terrible terrible time, I hope things are getting sorted for you. I know this may not help, but I hope it does... A friend of mine went through a similar experience, her lo got stuck, they used forceps and ripped right to the back, through rectum etc, and even cut right up her butt cheek. Like a huge L shaped tear. She was doubly incontinent, had fistulas, all that (don't think she had a temp colostmy, not sure) she was devastated. But her surgery has been very successful, she told me she has a designer vagina now, and 5 years on things are totally different. She's just announced she's pregnant with twins! I know you've said before you don't want anymore children, and hell, I don't blame ya, but I just wanted to say, though it took time and several ops, she is all fixed, physically and mentally, I hope you can be too. You are a great mum to be carrying on when you've gone through so much. you're friend is an eedjit.

this makes me have hope, thank you xx