Things I cannot say out loud....

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You get a lil greedy once they do start...like now...I want him to sleep his 7 to 8 hours again!
 
I definitely can't say this outloud...and probably shouldn't say it at all, but AH!

To DH's family: STOP DYING! I hate going to these funerals! I go cuz my husband needs me and I want to support him, but they're so awkward! I know the funerals aren't about me and I need to learn to just deal with it, but GAHHH! I hate seeing their faces when they realize I'm the 'new' wife! I hate seeing their brains spinning when they ask me how old I am, and then try and do the math in their heads. Yes, I am 19 years younger than my husband. DEAL WITH IT! I hate the patronizing "Aww your baby is so cute! And you're so brave to have a baby so young! I'M ALMOST 20 FOR GODS SAKE!
 
To grandma: Please don't not constantly use the comment "he's looking a little blue around the mouth" it's not nice, it irritates me and he isn't blue around the mouth. He's happily sat on my lap and he rocks back and forth because he's enjoying himself...not because of trapped wind!

Dear Nanna: He does NOT have a sore tummy. He's a little grizzly because it's his nap time and he can't go to sleep because of being passed around family members every 10 minutes! He is not grizzling because of trapped wind.

To both: For the final time... He...does...not...need...to...pass...wind!!!! We use Dr Brown's bottles and if he doesn't burp when I'm trying to burp him, it's no big deal! It just means that he hasn't sucked in enough air to need to burp. He is not grizzling because of gas, he is not bringing his legs up, he is comfortable and is either wanting to play (it's called cooing, not complaining people!) or is tired and irritable.

What is with my grandmothers and their obsession with trapped wind? Why does Louis have to have "a sore tummy" or be "blue around the mouth" just because he didn't burp after ONE bottle? Arghh!
 
alienbabe4321 said:
To grandma: Please don't not constantly use the comment "he's looking a little blue around the mouth" it's not nice, it irritates me and he isn't blue around the mouth. He's happily sat on my lap and he rocks back and forth because he's enjoying himself...not because of trapped wind!

Dear Nanna: He does NOT have a sore tummy. He's a little grizzly because it's his nap time and he can't go to sleep because of being passed around family members every 10 minutes! He is not grizzling because of trapped wind.

To both: For the final time... He...does...not...need...to...pass...wind!!!! We use Dr Brown's bottles and if he doesn't burp when I'm trying to burp him, it's no big deal! It just means that he hasn't sucked in enough air to need to burp. He is not grizzling because of gas, he is not bringing his legs up, he is comfortable and is either wanting to play (it's called cooing, not complaining people!) or is tired and irritable.

What is with my grandmothers and their obsession with trapped wind? Why does Louis have to have "a sore tummy" or be "blue around the mouth" just because he didn't burp after ONE bottle? Arghh!
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Oh they would have hated me, I've not once burped Kili! :haha:
 
DH, do not get arsey with me cos my brother and SIL took Jenny to the park for the first time, and on a swing for the first time! I did walk her to the park before but she was always asleep! Bloody hell, it was so kind of them to take her for a walk so I could get break! Seeing as shed been up all night and you weren't offering.
Here's an idea sunshine, you want to do some firsts with your daughter!?? How about you actually do something with us?!!? you could have walked to the park with her anytime in the last 12 weeks!
Besides, we get lots of firsts, they were so excited to have one! it was lovely. Xxx
 
To DH:

Stop pretending you don't hear Joe at night! I know you aren't asleep and I know you are just being a lazy fcker!

You are currently lay next to me pretending to sleep and if you dare tell me how tired you are today, I may very well clock you around the head.
 
LO please sleep tonight. I and you both know you don't need a wee feed or comfort suck during the night I can't handle you waking every 2 hours during the night. Your Daddy is working tomorrow so I'll be on my own gettign you back to sleep.

Parcelforce - please find our house and deliver the buggy asap!
 
Just to let you know, I'm back home now with OH and he is being great. He got up in the night to help with Maria and gave me a lie in this morning without me even asking! He's agreed to stop drinking and we're going to get him help for his problems.
 
Glad to hear it. I on the other hand have armed to let DH back in. And just as quick feel trapped and like its not right. He's doing more but I feel as the damage has been done. I said we could seep in different beds and he started kissing me and bring romantic. Then he asked if I will wear my wedding ring again. I already feel lost but am not ready for the battle that will be my divorce with him. I am not ready to share my baby and to not have her a few nights a week. Sigh.
 
Natsku said:
Just to let you know, I'm back home now with OH and he is being great. He got up in the night to help with Maria and gave me a lie in this morning without me even asking! He's agreed to stop drinking and we're going to get him help for his problems.
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So happy to hear!!
 
:hugs: Natsku I hope things work out for the best :)

ALEX!!!! Mommy is over the moon proud of you!!!!! You STTN 10pm to 5:45am! Mommy feels so much more refreshed and less cranky!!!!!! AND you're grabbing your rattle now!!!!! I'm so so so so so proud :cloud9:
 
Yay Alex!

To Maria - these hour+ screaming fits in the middle of the night are not fun for anyone! Neither is the constant grumbling during the day - I know you're pissed off to be back in this tiny room again after all the space at your grandparent's but you've just got to get used to it til we move!

But thanks for going down for your nap easily and sleeping a good hour and a half. Now could you please unpack our bags and tidy up your toys and vacuum so we can put the rug down? Go on......
 
Ntsku that is great :) I hope you leaving him for a while was really enough to make him realise and that he sticks to his word :)

Dear wind and rain, please pi$$ of I think my trampoline is about to take off.
 
divadexie said:
Ntsku that is great :) I hope you leaving him for a while was really enough to make him realise and that he sticks to his word :)

Dear wind and rain, please pi$$ of I think my trampoline is about to take off.
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Same here! The sound of it coming down the chimney is so loud this is about the third day in a row that it's been like this. And the tv is right next to it too so I have to keep putting it on so loud it's driving me crazy! My asda grocery delivery is coming today and I'm hoping my things won't blow away like last time..although it was pretty funny watching two grown men chasing food down the road :haha:
 
grrr...to mother in law and sister in law... I know you mean well, but at the family party yesterday, you really annoyed me. Both of you calling her "my baby" and taking her from me the minute we got there to show her off to all the family. I finally got her back when she started crying because she was tired and overstimulated. And stop saying that she is doing things when she isn't. "oh she is going to laugh!" when she is just sitting there looking around is really annoying after the 10th time. And just because she smiled at you when you made popping noises with your mouth doesn't mean you have to do it over my shoulder in my ear when i'm trying to feed her. Thanks to the mosquitoes we were only there for a couple of hours. And stop hinting that you want her overnight...i am not ready for that and neither is she. Especially since the last time you watched her for the day, you fed her water.
 
And let her sleep the whole time so she cried the entire hour ride home then stayed up until 3am...
 
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