Things I cannot say out loud....

[Ozzieshunni]

Lettuce, you must be in the middle of wonder week 12 too Alex will only sleep on me at the moment.

 

[Ozzieshunni]

SIL, I love you to bits, you're so great with Alex and you help us out so much, but I kinda wanted to buy him his first pair of real shoes Also, an hour means an hour! Not an hour and ten, twenty, thirty minutes! Please bring my baby back home!

 

[lhancock90]

To EVERYONE.

1. Stop telling me its time to have my next one because YOU think the age gap would be nice. MY body, MY DECISION!

2. If your child is ill please warn me before you ask me to come visit with my baby, neither I nor she appreciate the chest infection and cold you have so lovingly given us.

3. STOP TELLING ME TO GIVE HER SQUASH! OR RUSK IN A BOTTLE! NOOO. This is wrong, just because you did it i won't!

4. Stop saying "ohh come on you need a break let me take her for the day" NO. I decide when i need a break and who i trust to have my child.

5. Stop telling me to "watch her" "make sure shes okay" She is MY daughter, that is a given that i will do this, i don't need reminding to look after my daughter.

6. Stop telling me she looks exactly like her Daddy and nothing like me. This makes me want to cry.

7. Stop saying things like "is Mommy mean to you" This makes me want to punch you.

8. Stop saying "I know what she likes" No. You don't. You see her for a few hours a week. I see her 24/7 i know she doesn't like dance music, but freakin LOVES Adele.

 

[mummy2lola]

Dh-we had an argument 3 hrs ago.STOP asking me for a bj.I've told u,I get nothing out of it and u obviously still need to look at sluts on the net so why would I bother anymore???? It's not called a job for nothing and u know what.I just quit (blows a raspberry)

actually I did say alot of that out loud but I was so angry that I stuttered and think it wouldve sounded great if it came out smoothly like when u read it back lol xx

 

[lhancock90]

Dh-we had an argument 3 hrs ago.STOP asking me for a bj.I've told u,I get nothing out of it and u obviously still need to look at sluts on the net so why would I bother anymore???? It's not called a job for nothing and u know what.I just quit (blows a raspberry)

actually I did say alot of that out loud but I was so angry that I stuttered and think it wouldve sounded great if it came out smoothly like when u read it back lol xx

THIS KILLED ME
I love how, not matter big the row men will always assume a BJ is still on the cards for them later. I'd like them to give a BJ and see how THEY like it.

 

[Kalah]

To the makers of Hipp and Organix toddler meals: You really didn't think these through did you! First off if it's supposed to be spoon fed then it shouldn't be marked age 1-3, and if it isn't supposed to be spoon fed then why is it such a big thick soupy mess with tiny random chunks?! As I type this my LO is trying out her new Hipp toddler meal that I thought might be a good idea, so far she has used her spoon to scoop some out onto the floor, then dumped the entire container out onto her tray, and is now playing in the mess with her hands while licking it off her fingers... On the bright side she is really loving it, but she's going to need a bath after this! Couldn't you have just put really big chunks in there, similar to actual "adult" food, and left out all the stupid sauce?!

 

[mummy2lola]

Dh-we had an argument 3 hrs ago.STOP asking me for a bj.I've told u,I get nothing out of it and u obviously still need to look at sluts on the net so why would I bother anymore???? It's not called a job for nothing and u know what.I just quit (blows a raspberry)

actually I did say alot of that out loud but I was so angry that I stuttered and think it wouldve sounded great if it came out smoothly like when u read it back lol xx

THIS KILLED ME
I love how, not matter big the row men will always assume a BJ is still on the cards for them later. I'd like them to give a BJ and see how THEY like it.

lol honestly I don't think they realise how much effort we have to put in lol lock jaw,sore throat,blocked nose,the whole shabang....well....no more l xx

 

[Kalah]

Mom I will NEVER let you take Kili to a different state with you. I do not trust you not to drink and drive with her. You think it's ok to have a couple glasses of wine then drive home, but it is not, ever, especially with my daughter in your car! Why did you ever think I would just be ok with that?

I'm really annoyed about this right now. I was just on msn talking to my mom and she started saying "oh kili says she wants to go to florida sometimes with gma" (my mom works in missouri and florida, travels back and forth). It's a 700+ mile trip, takes around 15 hours. I told her that I wouldn't be ok with that. So she starts basically trying emotional blackmail on me, says I have separation anxiety, says she's "used to it" because my brother and SIL won't let her see their baby ever, and she's just being generally weird and pathetic about it all! She is trying to make me feel like crap because I don't want her to take my daughter to a different state and do god knows what with her showing her off to people, driving around like a madwoman (as she does), leaving her with strangers, drinking and driving, etc...
It's even more frustrating because I'm not even back to missouri yet and already she's trying to control my life and manipulate me to do what she wants. She thinks I NEED her and therefor can treat me like shit and make me feel bad. I'll say one thing, I will live in a homeless shelter before I live with her.

Am I really being that crazy to not want her to take Kili to florida? Keep in mind, they've never met!

 

[Mizze]

Errr no Kalah - YOU arent being crazy, your Mum however.... Frankly - even given she will be hugely excited to see her granddaughter - most definately is! It ISNT you!

Mizze x

 

[Ozzieshunni]

I love and trust my parents, but I would not let them take LO to another state upon first meeting him. Maybe when he's older and he knows them better

 

[Ilikecake]

DH you finished work at 6...it's now 8. Thankyou for not bothering to come home or tell me when you're going to come home. No, really, it's fine, I mean why wouldn't I be fine dealing with our poorly screaming baby by myself?!

 

[divadexie]

OH Oh nooooooooooooooooooooooooo you have been at work all day, I would love to (hate saying this!!) be able to get out of the house away from LO for just 10 minutes she has been screaming ALL DAY with NO NAPS the only peace I got was when she took an hour to eat a packet of quavers. You being at work does not compare to me looking after LO who is absolutely full of the cold AND is teething TWO new teeth! She even cried right through lunch and dinner and it took me 40 mins to feed her dinner because she would not swallow it.
And then I ask you to nip and get some calpol on the way home cause there none left and it takes you an HOUR from shop closing to get home? Could you not have just told your dad that LO needed some calpol??!
And on the subject of your dad, he treats you like SH!T at work, I don't see him treating any of the other staff the way he does you. OK so he never takes a hissy when you are late for work (which even though you are getting up earlier you still manage to get to work at 9:01 ) yet you stay until 6pm some nights, work your days off because you have a stupid trade fare to go to and then come home in a shit mood because you haven't had a day off

 

[stardust599]

Argh. Me and OH are absolutely skint, We only have £15 a week to spend on food for the rest of the month so I have made a meal plan that we'll have to stick to. I was running through the plan with OH for our lunches etc. and his reponse was that'd he eat whatever he F***ing wants and I'm being too anal about it.

Fine. He can waste all our food and then when it's gone and we have no money he can starve. And when I have nothing decent to feed myself or LO we will go and stay at my parents so we can eat nice, proper food. And when he asks why I'll tell him exactly why! Two can play his games!

No, I REFUSE to bail us out this month by extending my overdraft, credit cards etc. No more. He can learn!

 

[wishiwas]

Ooh, I want to play!

MIL: If you are going to lay the baby down in the middle of the living room, you could at least put your large and overly excitable dog in a different room. I don't want her face mauled because "she's just excited to see the baby"

Father: It is NOT ok to slam on your brakes because you get pissed of while driving with my baby in the car!!

Mother: She is not your baby. She is MY baby. Mine. All mine. Don't call her 'my baby'.

Weird girl who followed me home from a walk and won't stop coming by: If you ask to hold her, and I say "No, we're trying to keep the germs to a minimum", that means that its a probably not a good idea to start touching her face. Same concept idiot.

Various people: Just because she smiled does not necessarily mean it's gas or that she's pooing. Maybe she was giving me a smile because I'm her mommy? And even if it was a poop smile, can you just let me have it? It's stressful enough taking care of a screaming baby, and one of these smiles, regardless of origin, really helps me get through the day.

 

[Natsku]

Natsku I'm so glad you are both safe. And thumbs up to the in-laws for helping you can't be easy to back daughter in law over your own son.

I'm not sure if councilling would work he clearly has mental problems that need sorted. What do you inlaws think? They must know what he is like?

I think they want to help find him the right treatment. They also think things would be better once we move and arent living in one tiny room together 24 hours a day - it probably would be better if we can escape to other rooms when we're getting on each other's nerves.
I haven't phoned him yet, I really want to but I think I should leave it a bit longer.

I thought the same thing about all being in one room and thought things would be better with an entire house..it didn't work though

I'm sorry things didn't work for you guys, our situations are so similar - it was actually you that gave me the guts to leave (even if it might only be for a while). I hope you get to the US soon.

aww really? I'm glad to know I inspired you, even if it is only for a little while that's still much further than most women get when they're not happy. It's amazing the number of women who are in situations like ours, many will never leave and many will. It is very scary though, the thought of being a single mom terrifies me, it just seems so hard. Just taking care of Kili is tough on it's own, but add work and daycare to that, along with me not having a car (or even knowing how to drive), and very limited work experience, and the fact that there won't be benefits to help with childcare so my entire check will go to daycare (which makes me question what's the point!) and then there's societies view on single moms..like we've some how failed even when we do our best!

I feel sorry for you at least I know if I go it alone I won't have to worry about the money side of things, plenty of support here and daycare is adjusted to income. But yeah, society does look down on single mums, they don't bother to find out the reason and just make assumptions. Really hope things work out ok for you

 

[Ozzieshunni]

To my great aunt and uncle: I wish I could give you both huge hugs right now. No one should lose a child. I know she's finally at peace and not in pain any more.

 

[Ozzieshunni]

One more: DH's friend: FUCK OFF! I don't know anything about your damn game accounts! I don't know why they were hacked. I have bigger things on my mind! Talk to HIM about it! Don't vent at me on Facebook and then get all butt hurt when I tell you there's nothing I can do about it! Just go fuck yourself. Please. Oh and that dumb bitch you're marrying in 2 days? Yeah, I don't see that lasting longer than a year because when you go to Germany, you're going to fucking cheat on her ass! MORON!!!!!!!

 

[mummy2lola]

Dh-after our argument yesterday I called o2 and put a "parental block" on ur iPhone the second u left for work as I felt u were taking the piss with all the porn u were watching.I wondered to myself "how long will he take to notice?" and "will he have the bottle to say anything when he does"......DON'T text me within TEN minutes u fucking prick.how much porn a day did u watch....arse hole

oh yeah and ur morning poo was alot quicker this morning for some reason....ha ha gutted xx

 

[Lauki]

oh yeah and ur morning poo was alot quicker this morning for some reason....ha ha gutted xx

 

[Kalah]

Dh-after our argument yesterday I called o2 and put a "parental block" on ur iPhone the second u left for work as I felt u were taking the piss with all the porn u were watching.I wondered to myself "how long will he take to notice?" and "will he have the bottle to say anything when he does"......DON'T text me within TEN minutes u fucking prick.how much porn a day did u watch....arse hole

oh yeah and ur morning poo was alot quicker this morning for some reason....ha ha gutted xx

Oh my...!! I think he's really got a problem