Things I cannot say out loud....

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My turn!! This thread has saved my marriage...
DH, you are a selfish prick. It is your fault for coming to bed at 3am, I know you were working, but you woke me up, you woke Jen up, luckily for you she settled, but that does not mean you get to lie in bed all morning! And if you ever ever ever tut and moan cos I've asked you to change Jen, while I run into the shower for the only 10mins I get to myself all day then I will not hold myself responsible! I've been up since 6.45am (thank you my darling daughter- you done so well! :cloud9:) til now, entertaining our daughter, feeding her and doing the washing you promised to do yesterday- it's your clothes for gods sake! (a dark wash contains maybe 1 pair of jeans for me, nothing for j (she only owns pink and White clothes... :dohh:) and the rest is all his!)
I'm so not staying quiet this morning.... If only I could Hoover! :( still too sore from c section. Xx
 
DH- this whole "us being separate" thing is really helping me not hate you. I like that we're sleeping in different beds even in different houses. I like that it feels like we're dating. I like not being responsible for you. I like that this current arrangement works for our gorgeous daughter. I like not supporting you. I think if we can do this for a couple months while I sort my feelings and expect NOTHING from you then we might actually be able to work on us. Also- I'm sorry I've talked about you with my friends. I need to get it out but I am learning who I can really go to with this stuff- and that my BFF (like a sister) is not the one. I wont talk about you anymore to her besides saying nice things or positive things.
 
To everyone, LO does not spend too much time with me. I'm his mother. After losing our first baby, don't you think I would have issues about leaving him??? Try to understand!!!!

I'm tired!! I have a 6 month old and am 4 months pregnant. I'm entitled to be tired. Quit thinking that I'm lazy!
 
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Daisygirl82 said:
To everyone, LO does not spend too much time with me. I'm his mother. After losing our first baby, don't you think I would have issues about leaving him??? Try to understand!!!!

I'm tired!! I have a 6 month old and am 4 months pregnant. I'm entitled to be tired. Quit thinking that I'm lazy!
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Omg! I cannot believe anyone would be that insensitive. Keep cuddling your LO and rest as much as you need to! H&H to you all x
 
sorry for your loss daisy girl, you avatar picture is absolutely adorable!!!!! x
 
I'm sorry for your loss daisygirl :hugs: surely people should be more understanding! :(


Oh my god! Pyscho girl! Take the hint!!!!! I didn't reply to your message as I refuse to be bullied by a 30year old woman! Bloody hell, I deliberately didn't respond as I didn't want to upset the group of friends! I only told my best friend and she and I said we'd ignore her and let her hang herself, now she's going round my friends telling them how mean I am.... :cry: my bf says to ignore it and not to worry, but I'm so scared my friends will believe her lies. I hate this woman now, before I felt nothing for her, now I'm angry! My other friends just txtd to ask what's going on?! :( this evil woman must be toting her cos I haven't told anyone, neither has bf. My DH says just to txt "I'm sorry she's bothering you with all this- I specifically said nothing so it wouldn't cause problems in the group" so I have and I'm leaving it at that. I don't want to caught bitching. I'm so upset tho, I can't believe I'm a 28 year old mother and im getting bullied! :shrug:
 
Lettuce :hugs: lets shoot her, how pathetic :gun:



And :sex: :sex: FINALLY after TWO MONTHS my constant spotting/bleeding since I got the implant calmed down enough :haha: but god it felt like longer than 2 months I was about going mad! Lol


Dear someone else at puppy class- can you please do some studying/practising so that I don't look like the only numpty who has bothered doing any training, and doesn't anyone train puppies these days? I don't like being looked at but mine is the only one who can do most of it already!
 
To my cat. I know I made fun of you for not being a good hunter (until recently he was 100% indoor cat & 10 years old) but you don't have to prove me wrong by bringing in half dead grasshoppers & dropping them at my feet. I know you are proud of your "gifts" to me but 10 is enough!

I swept the floor today & found 2 dead ones & another that jumped up on a shelf to die. Gross.
 
Dear mum, I am greatful for you helping me out whenever I come down. However, please get to grips with feeding on demand!

Last time I left him with you for the day while I did stuff, he didn't have a nap because he wasn't getting the amount of food he needs which meant he was in a foul mood. If he finishes a bottle and wants more, then MAKE MORE!! Don't decide to wait a couple more hours because "he can't possibly be hungry". Would you deny a toddler/child if you were asked for a glass of water? No! So don't treat my son like he doesn't know what he needs! Maybe that bottle just wasn't enough for him!

And another thing, if you say "just because he's crying doesn't mean he's hungry" one more time, I swear to god I will not be responsible for my actions. I'm not feeding him just because he's crying...believe it or not, I know what that cry is for! Surprise , surprise, it means he's hungry!!

Oh and no. I will not force him to start taking bottles on a schedule! That is not the purpose of feeding on demand! Yes I know 4 hourly bottles worked wonders with me and my sister but this is the way I want to do things and that's that! He's a big boy and he's happy and healthy so obviously my way ISN'T wrong.

Dear everyone! If I am doing something and LO is grizzling, stop picking him up and making me feel like a bad mum! The other day he spent more time in my mates arms than he did in mine because he started grizzling everytime I was doing something.

Yes I know you were simply trying to help but it simply made me feel crappy and like I'm not good enough to be a mum just because I won't stop doing something because he's grizzling for attention! I will get to him when I'm good and ready! He's not in danger...he's not hurt, hungry, dirty etc. He just wants my undivided attention at all times and he needs to learn that sometimes that isn't possible!

Phew I think I got it all off my chest ... for now.
 
Tiffa130 said:
To my cat. I know I made fun of you for not being a good hunter (until recently he was 100% indoor cat & 10 years old) but you don't have to prove me wrong by bringing in half dead grasshoppers & dropping them at my feet. I know you are proud of your "gifts" to me but 10 is enough!

I swept the floor today & found 2 dead ones & another that jumped up on a shelf to die. Gross.
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Awwww, presents! :) lol. Cat gifting comes with no receipts... :(

Oh dd, why do you STTN one night then not the next?? What's the deal?! Im exhausted. :cry:
 
To my hips- right, enoughs enough . You can let go of the fat stores you've been squirreling over my prenancy months. I gave up breast feeding 10 weeks ago...WE DONT NEED TO HANG On TO IT ANYMORE.
 
To random lady in the pharmacy - If Sophie is crying and I say she's tired, she's tired. If I'm trying to put her to sleep don't come over and push your face close to hers and start distracting her with stupid voices and poke her face.

She's tired! She needs to sleep! She fights it enough as it is! There's enough crying I have to handle, if you overstimulate her even more she gets all upset and is impossible to put to sleep!

It's not that I don't want anyone playing with my baby, but if I say she needs to sleep, she needs to sleep!
 
Lauki said:
To random lady in the pharmacy - If Sophie is crying and I say she's tired, she's tired. If I'm trying to put her to sleep don't come over and push your face close to hers and start distracting her with stupid voices and poke her face.

She's tired! She needs to sleep! She fights it enough as it is! There's enough crying I have to handle, if you overstimulate her even more she gets all upset and is impossible to put to sleep!

It's not that I don't want anyone playing with my baby, but if I say she needs to sleep, she needs to sleep!
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Oh I hate this!!!! My mil does that! I eventually had to say something... :( x
 
Daisygirl82 said:
To everyone, LO does not spend too much time with me. I'm his mother. After losing our first baby, don't you think I would have issues about leaving him??? Try to understand!!!!

I'm tired!! I have a 6 month old and am 4 months pregnant. I'm entitled to be tired. Quit thinking that I'm lazy!
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:hugs::hugs:

Of course you will be wary of leaving your baby. It's completely understandable and if people dont get that then really this is something you should say out loud to them!

xxx
 
To LO:

You used to STTN. And the past week you been getting up at 5am... You're too young for parties mister! GO BACK TO SLEEP!
 
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