Things I cannot say out loud....

[LadyRoy]

SD2 can you please not have night terrors and stop calling for your mummy, it's not nice for DH who is such a good daddy. I think your bitch of a mother should stop interfering with our contact time too. We don't owe her a running commentary of our days

 

[MizzDeeDee]

MIL- Thank you for telling us you're sorry... I just wish OH didn't have to keep reminding you that this is our baby to do what we want with and that we don't have to answer to you. You have no right to get upset because we don't let you keep her overnight all the time or we don't let her CIO or we don't run over to see you whenever you want. Also, getting angry and telling him that you'll never come over here and that we have to come see you stinks of you trying to control us, which I won't allow it, and since you live across the street a little immature... doesn't it just make sense to be nice and not manufacture problems where there aren't any? I can only take so much of this.

Baby- You're asleep right now.. you never sleep anymore.. I am so tired all the time..but now you're sleeping and I can't sleep. Is the word for this ironic or sad....very very sad...

 

[lisaf]

I don't know if there is even a point to bitching about it anymore, but MIL.. EVERY single time you are left watching Daniel at the end of the day, you do NOT get him down for his last nap. Its the ONLY nap I am strict about and care about because it keeps him on track for bedtime. If he doesn't get that nap, he's horribly fussy for us and I just can't handle that at the end of a long day, especially knowing that he wasn't fussy for you and you basically ruined him for me for the day.

I don't care if he was babbling to you, I KNOW you didn't leave the room, of course he won't sleep if you're hovering over him, he needs more than 5 minutes to try and fall asleep!

SIGH

Its sad but I basically have a fix to the routine for whenever she does this because she does it so often. It usually invovles 30-45 minutes of fussy baby/crying while I try to get him down again, then he's cranky when I wake him up early so he will be tired for bedtime.

SIL - if you want us to pull my son out of daycare and have you watch him full time, bailing on him today and leaving him with your mom (who you know damned well doesn't keep him on his routine) is not the way to show me. You basically proved me right and have shot all your chances to hell. I understand you weren't feeling well, but your physical stamina for the task was one of my main worries.

 

[Natsku]

To new house: Thank you for being liveable and quite lovely but why do you have to not have a shower? I'm gonna have to cut my hair short so it won't be so much hassle washing it with buckets of water (and so Maria doesn't pull it all out )

 

[lisaf]

To new house: Thank you for being liveable and quite lovely but why do you have to not have a shower? I'm gonna have to cut my hair short so it won't be so much hassle washing it with buckets of water (and so Maria doesn't pull it all out )

Lol, you still have hair? Mine is falling out in clumps at the moment

 

[MizzDeeDee]

Bladder- Please shut up! I'm afraid to get out of bed because it might wake up the baby. I'd rather piss on myself. I'm not kidding. I'd rather leave a huge spot right in the middle of my mattress then wake up my baby.

 

[MizzDeeDee]

To new house: Thank you for being liveable and quite lovely but why do you have to not have a shower? I'm gonna have to cut my hair short so it won't be so much hassle washing it with buckets of water (and so Maria doesn't pull it all out )

Lol, you still have hair? Mine is falling out in clumps at the moment

Are you having this too? I don't know how I am not bald! I am going to get it cut to my shoulders and HOPE that helps.. it's horrible... and scary if I didn't know why.

 

[Natsku]

To new house: Thank you for being liveable and quite lovely but why do you have to not have a shower? I'm gonna have to cut my hair short so it won't be so much hassle washing it with buckets of water (and so Maria doesn't pull it all out )

Lol, you still have hair? Mine is falling out in clumps at the moment

Are you having this too? I don't know how I am not bald! I am going to get it cut to my shoulders and HOPE that helps.. it's horrible... and scary if I didn't know why.

Mine has always fallen out in clumps so haven't noticed the difference

 

[MizzDeeDee]

To new house: Thank you for being liveable and quite lovely but why do you have to not have a shower? I'm gonna have to cut my hair short so it won't be so much hassle washing it with buckets of water (and so Maria doesn't pull it all out )

Lol, you still have hair? Mine is falling out in clumps at the moment

Are you having this too? I don't know how I am not bald! I am going to get it cut to my shoulders and HOPE that helps.. it's horrible... and scary if I didn't know why.

Mine has always fallen out in clumps so haven't noticed the difference

Oh my.. how unfortunate.. you poor thing. It drives me crazy.. but it is supposed to go away.. I couldn't imagine having to put up with it all the time.

I'm sorry.

 

[lisaf]

its like a horror movie in the shower I have really fine hair and not that much of it so I'm a little extra scared when its just coming out like that. I just run my hands through it and pull out 10-30 strands at a time (I do it while driving and crack the window and the the wind take it away.. the birds are going to extra plush nests this year )

I dont' think cutting it will help since every single strand has the root attached.. though it would make for shorter bits of hair falling everywhere I'm not willing to give up the convenience of a pony tail by cutting mine short, lol

 

[BrokenfoREVer]

FOB...you know I don't sleep well. I spend my life saying I feel ill cos I'm tired. So why...when I'm still pregnant & don't actually have to get up do you wake me up & make me get up at 10 to 6 in the morning! All cause your an idiot & ignored your alarm!!

 

[MizzDeeDee]

Well I have curly hair so it would be okay if I have it to my shoulders but you're probably right about it just falling out in shorter pieces. I take a shower and it comes out literally to the point that I have clumps of hair as big as my fists. I have fine hair but I have alot of fine hair but losing that amount of hair is just unsettling....


When does this end I wonder?

 

[MizzDeeDee]

FOB...you know I don't sleep well. I spend my life saying I feel ill cos I'm tired. So why...when I'm still pregnant & don't actually have to get up do you wake me up & make me get up at 10 to 6 in the morning! All cause your an idiot & ignored your alarm!!

Do you have to wake him up because he sleeps thru the alarm? That's obnoxious of him.. especially with you being pregnant. You kinda need the sleep.

 

[lisaf]

I don't know.. I assume it might continue the whole time I'm BFing

i stick the hair to my shower wall.. its disgusting

 

[lisaf]

body - I hate you.. DH is nice enough to let me sleep in on weekends, but i can't enjoy it because my hips still ache You suck.. shape up or else I'm replacing you

 

[Natsku]

To new house: Thank you for being liveable and quite lovely but why do you have to not have a shower? I'm gonna have to cut my hair short so it won't be so much hassle washing it with buckets of water (and so Maria doesn't pull it all out )

Lol, you still have hair? Mine is falling out in clumps at the moment

Are you having this too? I don't know how I am not bald! I am going to get it cut to my shoulders and HOPE that helps.. it's horrible... and scary if I didn't know why.

Mine has always fallen out in clumps so haven't noticed the difference

Oh my.. how unfortunate.. you poor thing. It drives me crazy.. but it is supposed to go away.. I couldn't imagine having to put up with it all the time.

I'm sorry.

You get used to it. And it could be worse, when my brother was 16 his hair fell out in clumps til he actually went bald! Then it all grew back again and no one knew why

 

[MizzDeeDee]

To new house: Thank you for being liveable and quite lovely but why do you have to not have a shower? I'm gonna have to cut my hair short so it won't be so much hassle washing it with buckets of water (and so Maria doesn't pull it all out )

Lol, you still have hair? Mine is falling out in clumps at the moment

Are you having this too? I don't know how I am not bald! I am going to get it cut to my shoulders and HOPE that helps.. it's horrible... and scary if I didn't know why.

Mine has always fallen out in clumps so haven't noticed the difference

Oh my.. how unfortunate.. you poor thing. It drives me crazy.. but it is supposed to go away.. I couldn't imagine having to put up with it all the time.

I'm sorry.

You get used to it. And it could be worse, when my brother was 16 his hair fell out in clumps til he actually went bald! Then it all grew back again and no one knew why

Oh, I've heard of that... you're right.. that would suck.

 

[BrokenfoREVer]

FOB...you know I don't sleep well. I spend my life saying I feel ill cos I'm tired. So why...when I'm still pregnant & don't actually have to get up do you wake me up & make me get up at 10 to 6 in the morning! All cause your an idiot & ignored your alarm!!

Do you have to wake him up because he sleeps thru the alarm? That's obnoxious of him.. especially with you being pregnant. You kinda need the sleep.

Oh no...he woke his self up...15 mins before he had to start work. He just woke me up to tell me & shouted & made such a fuss, that now I'm wide awake! Think like...bedroom lamp, bedroom light, hall light, living room light, kitchen light & bathroom light on. Then came & started shouting.

 

[MizzDeeDee]

FOB...you know I don't sleep well. I spend my life saying I feel ill cos I'm tired. So why...when I'm still pregnant & don't actually have to get up do you wake me up & make me get up at 10 to 6 in the morning! All cause your an idiot & ignored your alarm!!

Do you have to wake him up because he sleeps thru the alarm? That's obnoxious of him.. especially with you being pregnant. You kinda need the sleep.

Oh no...he woke his self up...15 mins before he had to start work. He just woke me up to tell me & shouted & made such a fuss, that now I'm wide awake! Think like...bedroom lamp, bedroom light, hall light, living room light, kitchen light & bathroom light on. Then came & started shouting.

WTF.... what a jackalope! When is he leaving? Bet you can't wait.

 

[Natsku]

To myself: why do you forget to make yourself a cup of tea when you first get up? Now you're all sleepy and you still have to make breakfast and stuff.