Dh- you really scared me this morning, I didn't like it and I hope you learned a lesson and won't do it again.
Flynn fell down and banged his head (pretty much a daily occurrence ATM, he's learning to stand unsupported and keeps trying a step and falling) dh picked him up coz I was getting my coat to go out, dh was calmin him down and I came over tk stroke hi hair and tell him it was ok, I can't just ignore him when he's upset, dh went off big style, started yelling that I was tryin to take Flynn away and that I don't trust him with him and that I must think he's a terrible daddy.. All the while he's holding a hysterical Flynn who can't figure out why daddy is so angry and probably thinks he's done wrong. I told dh I wasn't gonna argue in front of Flynn coz he was scared, so dh thrust him into my arms and stormed out, breaking the bin on the way and put his fist through a panel on the fence (cut his hand, oh diddums) and punched the peg bag (?) so hard I had to retrieve it from next doors garden. He then went and sat in the car for half hour while I calmed Flynn down and got ready to go out for the day, eventually he calmed down and asked me to come out to go out, complaining his hand hurts, fuck off, no sympathy it was self inflicted and you can tell sil why there's a hole in her fence. We checked Flynn over for bumps and set off on our day out. It's all calmed now. Still no apology but I never got one before so I'll not hold my breath.
He's always had a temper but he's never damaged stuff or hurt himself before.
He's showered Flynn in gifts today so I think he feels guilty for scaring him, no gifts for me, apparently he doesn't feel guilty about that.