Thought things couldn't get any worse

[Missymoo100]

Hi just wanted to vent to anyone who will listen. posted her a few month back because of my crazy cycles since coming off the pill, 28, 44,39,54,64,67, days n things not getting any better because I'm now on day 57 and no Af! Blood tests done n came back normal, but not been offered a scan. I'm 27 n always super regular b4 the pill. Now waiting to see a specialist. Husband just had sperm test results back and he has low sperm count 8mill/ml! If I did see any glimmer of hope it's now well and truly gone. I can't stop crying. Feel like if I'm unable to get pregnant I will never be happy again. If the referrals just been made how long will it take to hear back?

 

[Joccy]

Hopefully the specialist can help. Are there drugs a guy can take to increase his sperm count. Remember all you need is one to make it! I'm sorry you're down about this. I really hope the specialist can help! Hugs.

 

[curiousowl]

Just wanted to say so sorry for what you're going through with the crazy post-pill cycles. I understand. My last cycle was 39 days and I didn't ovulate. Now I'm on CD25 and my chart suggests I'm 16dpo but no AF and BFN. It's so frustrating. I hope things look up for you and that the referrals go quickly.

 

[clucas1988]

hi i totally understand about the crazy cycles, having them myself, you never know where you stand with them or what stage you are at!
All i can do to offer you some comfort is say atleast the doctors are looking into this for you, im 26 similar age to you, i know how youre feeling in regards to wanting a child so very much!
Go back to your doctors and see if they can do a nything about low sperm count, maybe change your hubbys diet etc? Im sure there will be light at the end of your tunnel, youve just hit a bit of a barrier at the moment, things will get better xxxx

 

[jessthemess]

For hubby I would suggest loose clothing and boxers, cooler showers, a men's vitamin, no caffeine, good sleep.

And I'm sorry also your long cycles are getting you down! I know how that is too. The Dr's will help though

 

[purplecupcake]

I was on BCP for 10 years. It took almost a year for my cycles to get somewhat regular, and in that time some of my cycles were 60-90 days long.

The best thing for you to do is use an app like fertility friend to start tracking your cycles, even though they are irregular. You can also start using OPKs to narrow down your O date and plan sex that way. Irregular cycles are annoying, but you can absolutely get pregnant while having them.

 

[clucas1988]

Thanks purple, your post helped my situation aswell.....damn irregular cycles! xxx