Trying before AF?

[ArmyWife1984]

My m/c bleeding stopped on cd8 and I started using opk's on cd12. So it is possible I may have missed ovulation. Hope not.

i'll just keep at bd'ing and opks

last month when you o'd on cd 19 was that right after m/c?

If this month is the month of your miscarriage, I would say you will likely O a lot later than normal.

No, last month was just another month, cycle 3 since the miscarriage. I didn't O until CD 25 on the cycle of the miscarriage. It depends on how long it takes the HCG to get out of your system. I O'd less than a week after my HCG finally came back negative on a blood test.

You were right markswife10!!!! I o'd a week later than normal. CD22 +++ OPK!!!! Thanks for your help!! Gonna go find dh.....

 

[markswife10]

My m/c bleeding stopped on cd8 and I started using opk's on cd12. So it is possible I may have missed ovulation. Hope not.

i'll just keep at bd'ing and opks

last month when you o'd on cd 19 was that right after m/c?

If this month is the month of your miscarriage, I would say you will likely O a lot later than normal.

No, last month was just another month, cycle 3 since the miscarriage. I didn't O until CD 25 on the cycle of the miscarriage. It depends on how long it takes the HCG to get out of your system. I O'd less than a week after my HCG finally came back negative on a blood test.

You were right markswife10!!!! I o'd a week later than normal. CD22 +++ OPK!!!! Thanks for your help!! Gonna go find dh.....

WOOHOO!!!! Glad you got your positive! Good luck and baby dust to you!

 

[flapjack10]

So quiet in here! How is everyone?

xxx

 

[ArmyWife1984]

Feeling pregnant here :wave: I wanna say im 90% sure I am.....Having the same cramping I had with DS and I am only 3dpo!!! Cramping was so bad last night I couldnt sleep!! never been so happy to have been so miserable!!!

 

[flapjack10]

AW GL hun! I hope you get that BFP!

xxx

 

[xxemmyxx]

I'm feeling really miserable, a woman at work announced her pregnancy on Tuesday, still don't feel like I am ovulating, didnt get a positive this month again, I'm really pissed off!!! I'm going to be at my original due date still not pregnant

 

[klcuk3]

I'm feeling really miserable, a woman at work announced her pregnancy on Tuesday, still don't feel like I am ovulating, didnt get a positive this month again, I'm really pissed off!!! I'm going to be at my original due date still not pregnant

Sorry to hear you're feeling down xx hope things pick up soon and your body starts behaving itself x

 

[klcuk3]

I have had my first af since my mc and am now cd11....using my cbfm which has been high for last two days....not expecting to see a peak until cd17 though x Am annoyed with self as prior to last pregnancy was doing really well on a diet and since mc have been rubbish and slowly starting to put weight on...gotta find my mojo and get back into shape x

 

[Starry Night]

Armywife - good luck and sticky vibes for you this month!

xxemmyxx - I'm sorry to hear it's been so rough for you. A FB friend of mine just posted her pregnancy news and it's so hard to not be mad and jealous. I'm not close to her so I can't even pretend to be happy for her. Have you gone to the doctor to see why you might not be ovulating? I really hope you get your sticky BFP soon.

kluck - I've been terrible with my diet as well. When I was still pregnant I could only stomach salty foods like fries or chips. Then after the m/c I just felt too down and depressed to care. And now it's Christmas with baking and feasts, etc. I'm just starting to kick myself into gear because I worked SO hard to lose all my weight after DS. AFter my first m/c I gained so much weight due to turning to food for comfort so that was added on top of my pregnancy weight. And I know that getting fat will only make me feel MORE depressed. I'm very, very slowly starting to lose my cravings to nibble all day.

AFM - I'm in the tww for my first AF. Once it comes then we can TTC for our second rainbow.

 

[markswife10]

I'm getting ready to O (not charting, just tracking CM and CP and CD and they are all spelling O is coming soon)! Been BD'ing a lot. I'm just ready to O and be pregnant again already

 

[whigfield]

Hey ladies.. Mind if I tag along? I am still currently going through m/c but as soon as it's over we want to try again immediately. We had been trying for 2 years for this baby and have no other children and now that I've had a taste of being a mommy I can't bare to give it up! Only issue I have PCOS and baby was a clomid baby, however in January the doctor is going to re-refer us again for more treatment.

 

[ArmyWife1984]

Hey ladies.. Mind if I tag along? I am still currently going through m/c but as soon as it's over we want to try again immediately. We had been trying for 2 years for this baby and have no other children and now that I've had a taste of being a mommy I can't bare to give it up! Only issue I have PCOS and baby was a clomid baby, however in January the doctor is going to re-refer us again for more treatment.

so sorry hunny. Welcome
Are you going to try clomid this cycle?

 

[VeraLynn]

So I was GOING to wait for my AF to come because I was expecting my cycles to be all whacky because of the MC, BUT to my surprise everything is moving along quicker then I thought. Bleeding stopped about 5 days ago, which I only bled for like 4 days (but I was only measuring at 4 weeks even though I was 8 - had a blighted ovum so I guess that would be why).

Woke up to find some CM this morning which lasted all day. Was kind of shocked and thought that that was rather quick to start OV. But bought a OPK on the way home from work and got a line on the one test I took. Also took a HPT and it came up negative, so least I know everything's back to normal now.

Don't feel like missing out on a good opportunity, so told the BF that we will be acting like rabbits for the next few days. Fingers crossed that I'll have a BFP by January!

 

[xxemmyxx]

Hey ladies.. Mind if I tag along? I am still currently going through m/c but as soon as it's over we want to try again immediately. We had been trying for 2 years for this baby and have no other children and now that I've had a taste of being a mommy I can't bare to give it up! Only issue I have PCOS and baby was a clomid baby, however in January the doctor is going to re-refer us again for more treatment.

Welcome sorry for your loss xx

 

[xxemmyxx]

Armywife - good luck and sticky vibes for you this month!

xxemmyxx - I'm sorry to hear it's been so rough for you. A FB friend of mine just posted her pregnancy news and it's so hard to not be mad and jealous. I'm not close to her so I can't even pretend to be happy for her. Have you gone to the doctor to see why you might not be ovulating? I really hope you get your sticky BFP soon.

kluck - I've been terrible with my diet as well. When I was still pregnant I could only stomach salty foods like fries or chips. Then after the m/c I just felt too down and depressed to care. And now it's Christmas with baking and feasts, etc. I'm just starting to kick myself into gear because I worked SO hard to lose all my weight after DS. AFter my first m/c I gained so much weight due to turning to food for comfort so that was added on top of my pregnancy weight. And I know that getting fat will only make me feel MORE depressed. I'm very, very slowly starting to lose my cravings to nibble all day.

AFM - I'm in the tww for my first AF. Once it comes then we can TTC for our second rainbow.

I have been referred to fertility specialist but first appointment isn't till 4th feb, mc was in June and I had been trying for 18 months for that baby, just seems to be taking forever and not ovulating is making me feel so useless, good luck ttc when u get AF xxx

 

[Starry Night]

Have you been told to not TTC while waiting to see the specialist? My doctor said he'd refer me to a specialist due to my 3 miscarriages once this current loss has been sorted. I'm really afraid I'll be told to wait and I just don't want to. As much as I want to find out why I have lost 3 babies I would be willing to put off seeing a specialist because I'm super anxious to try again.

 

[Sophiasmom]

whigfield I'm so sorry for your loss. I was in the TTC forum with you a couple months ago, but I lost mine at 5 wks. I know what you're going though is horrible (I've been through it twice now), and I hope you get through it quickly and get your sticky baby.

AFM Looks like I'm out for this cycle. I'm stuck with the flu, we sent DD to the in-laws so she won't get sick, and witch comes early today.

 

[xxemmyxx]

Have you been told to not TTC while waiting to see the specialist? My doctor said he'd refer me to a specialist due to my 3 miscarriages once this current loss has been sorted. I'm really afraid I'll be told to wait and I just don't want to. As much as I want to find out why I have lost 3 babies I would be willing to put off seeing a specialist because I'm super anxious to try again.

I think cus my problem is ovulation based they might just try clomid or something first, I know another lady on here had recurrent mc and they asked her to wait 3 months while they tested her, it was tough but now she is 11weeks pregnant. Ttc is so hard sometimes and seems to take forever but we have to stay positive I havnt been told to stop trying yet but will keep you updated, the first appointment is the sperm analysis with my partner, they won't see me unless he has that first...

 

[xxemmyxx]

whigfield I'm so sorry for your loss. I was in the TTC forum with you a couple months ago, but I lost mine at 5 wks. I know what you're going though is horrible (I've been through it twice now), and I hope you get through it quickly and get your sticky baby.

AFM Looks like I'm out for this cycle. I'm stuck with the flu, we sent DD to the in-laws so she won't get sick, and witch comes early today.

Hope you feel better soon! I'm a bit ill and trying to fend it off xx

 

[Starry Night]

Have you been told to not TTC while waiting to see the specialist? My doctor said he'd refer me to a specialist due to my 3 miscarriages once this current loss has been sorted. I'm really afraid I'll be told to wait and I just don't want to. As much as I want to find out why I have lost 3 babies I would be willing to put off seeing a specialist because I'm super anxious to try again.

I think cus my problem is ovulation based they might just try clomid or something first, I know another lady on here had recurrent mc and they asked her to wait 3 months while they tested her, it was tough but now she is 11weeks pregnant. Ttc is so hard sometimes and seems to take forever but we have to stay positive I havnt been told to stop trying yet but will keep you updated, the first appointment is the sperm analysis with my partner, they won't see me unless he has that first...

I think I wouldn't mind waiting the 3 months during testing but over here it takes so incredibly long to see the specialist in the first place that it could be 6 to 9 months before I ttc. So yeah, I think I'd plan on TTC until the specialist told me not to and just hope that if I get my BFP before that time that the baby will be my forever rainbow.

All of my babies were lost at different stages (12 weeks, 9 weeks and 6 weeks) so I'm hopeful that it was just a string of bad luck.

Good luck with your appointments.