Trying before AF?

[xxemmyxx]

Soooooooo quiet! Am I the only one left

 

[mummy2o]

Nope still here. Waiting for AF to show up so I can have bloods done. Yay me. Or a BFP, I wouldn't complain either way. Hows the wedding planning going?

 

[Starry Night]

I'm here too. Plan on testing tomorrow but do not feel good about my chances AT ALL. My period is due here on Saturday so if the test is negative then I am definitely not testing until I'm several days late...probably next Tuesday at the earliest.

 

[aknqtpie]

I am still here.. waiting to Ovulate.. hopefully this weekend!

 

[markswife10]

Still here. cycle 6 since the MC and on CD3. le sigh.

 

[Starry Night]

Well...it was as expected..... *sighs* The lack of change in boobs really is my big give away. I know I'm only 12dpo but hpts are so accurate these days that without any real symptoms and a negative test the writing is on the wall. With my long cycles I only get 2 more tries before my angel Sweet Pea's due date at the end of May. That really sucks.

Looks like I'm stuck having secret sex while my parents are over next month.

 

[mummy2o]

Mine due date was on my son's birthday so makes it really easy not to forget, so I guess it will be a mixed emotional day. I have until mid April, so still a couple of tries. Still having my FX for this month though. OH is out of order right now as he has an infection and I don't want it near me, so despite his efforts he can wait until its gone

Markswife you m/c the same day as me so I guess its my cycle 6 also, although I have not been counting.

 

[vietmamsie]

hey Ladies, looks like I'm back after all. My baby was always measuring a few days behind, but at my ultrasound yesterday it was measuring 6 weeks 5 days when I should have been 8 weeks 3 days. There was no heartbeat and the fetus appeared to have never grown properly.

I had to take some meds which made me really sick yesterday.. i think they help to soften everything up in there and on Saturday I'll go to the hospital for 12 hours, take more meds and wait for everything to pass. Since it will be monitored I'll have a few ultrasounds while I'm there to check if everything comes out or not.

pretty crushed... did I mention its my birthday as well? And I leave for Thailand on Sunday?

 

[Libbysmum]

oh Viet! I am so sad to hear this! What horrible timing too! You must be so upset! Hugs for you my dear!

 

[Sophiasmom]

Viet!! I'm so sorry!!!

 

[kmwilletts]

Just wondering of those who did m/c and then get a BFP before AF arrived did everything go ok? Did you have another m/c? Did you think it was related to waiting or not waiting?

Hi there,

I had the same questions you did after my loss. I had my loss December of 2012 and I was 12 wks 1 day along. DH and I decided to try again right before he had to go away to work, and we conceived on January 2nd. My rainbow girl is here and I'm happier than ever I do have to admit I had complications, which were likely due to the D&C that was performed, resulting in some scar tissue in my uterus and caused me to have complete placenta previa and I ultimately needed a c section to have my daughter. That being said, everything worked out fine in the end and I wouldn't change a thing.

 

[markswife10]

Big big hugs Viet!!! So sorry about your loss and the timing

Mummy2o, I didn't realize we MC the same day. I hope our cycle is coming up. It gets old going month after month with no results

 

[Starry Night]

viet, I am so crushed for you! These awful m/c's have no respect for timing or special days or the fact some ladies have already had more than their fair share of losses. So cruel.

I'm so sorry for you loss.

 

[flapjack10]

Oh Viet, I'm so sorry for your loss Take care sweetie xxxx

 

[mummy2o]

So sorry Viet Hopefully your holiday will take you mind off things, just enjoy it as much as you can.

 

[mummy2o]

Viet, I decided you might need some encouragement right now and reasons not to give up. I then thought about it and decided you might be like flapjack. She like you has had 3 miscarriages, she probably thought she was never able to carry a baby, (I don't know flapjack should come and help me out with her story) but baby no.4 just stuck. The pregnancy tests kept getting dark, and now she's almost half way through her pregnancy.

AFM I am currently sitting in the two week wait. I have picked up on an ovulation sign my nipples get sore for a little bit. In theory my AF should be here on valentines day, but we'll see.

 

[Watkinla]

Hi ladies!
I am new to this site and would love to find some support! Recently lost my first due to a blighted ovum at 7.5 weeks had to have a d&c 3 weeks ago on 1/15/13. Surgery went well, no bleeding really except for one day exactly a week after. I was taking HPTs to follow the drop in hormones, had a faint positive last Thursday and by Saturday it was negative! My question is when will I ovulate as I would like to try right away. I thought as soon as the hcg was gone O would take place, but I have been checking my temps and OPKs and nothing. Temps are low, back to pre O temps before mc, and OPKs only a faint LH line. If I count the day of D&C as cycle day 1 today is cycle day 21, shouldn't I have ovulated by now? I am so confused! My clear blue fertility monitor says high for the last few days but negative OPKs since my negative hpt. For those of you that were tracking after your loss when did you ovulate?

 

[ArmyWife1984]

Hi watkinla So sorry for your loss

I had a natural m/c at approx 6 wks on nov 19th. I started using opks at cd 12 counting cd 1 at nov. 19th. I normally O like clockwork every month on cd 14 but each opk only had a faint second line.
I kept using them and finally on cd 22 I got an extremely pos. opk.
I was surprised because the day before that my opk didn't even have a hint of a second line.
10 days later got my bfp.

So for me I o'd a lot later than normal. Not sure with D & C what day you would count as cd 1 but i would def. keep using opks.

I dont temp at all so no help to you there.

Hope you get a bfp too!

 

[Watkinla]

Thanks Armywife and congrats on the BFP!!! I can only hope that I am as lucky as you! I keep thinking that the next OPK will be positive but no such luck! After your mc do you know when all the hcg was out of your system? Did you ever take a hpt to test before O? I have heard that once hcg hits zero you ovulate, but some people say it happens immediately and some say that once it hits zero your cycle restarts at day 1 and then you ovulate 2 weeks later. Just wish I knew what my body is up too!

 

[aknqtpie]

My guess is you may O about 2 weeks after reaching 0. My m/c circumstance was abnormal, and when I had my D&C I was back to zero. I started bleeding similar to aF two weeks after my d&c. I believe I ovulated anywhere from Sat- Monday which were cd13-15 from my AF type bleeding.