Trying before AF?

[baileybubs]

Thanks for that storm, I've been questioning whether I got O day right coz of that spotting, coz i didn't think it could be right by my timing, but it does make sense if it can be ovulation bleeding just after ovulation.

AFM right now I'm feeling these odd pains around my ovaries and uterus. Trying not to think its coz I'm pg and just putting of down to normal cycle pains for now. Just another week and I'll know better!!

 

[xxemmyxx]

Thanks for your replies everyone! Hmmm cd28 and I don't feel any symptoms at all of AF hate this uncertainty!
Flapjack- 43 day cycle omg!! I guess I'm gunna need some more sticks to pee on! I never wanted my period so bad before at least I would know wherein stood! I'm not pregnant cus I got a negative today with an frer

Storm7 sorry for ur loss, so shocking how many women go through this I had no idea, but your all great on here I love your positivity! Keep me updated I hope you get a BFP in 2 weeks xx

 

[horseypants]

cd1 for me! i'm happy about it.

baileybubs, i heard it's something about the muscles moving the egg down the tube area into the wider womb - i know the pains yu're talkign about. i have them about half a week after o almsot every time - i think it is a good sign of things moving along and another confirmation you caught o, even if you're not sure whether it was 2 days earlier or later. (im not so great with precision. i cant even tell if im on cd one for real today or whether i should have waited till tomorrow to put it on my chart. i keep going back and forth. )

emmy, welcome

 

[Storm7]

Morning all

Horseypants - glad you got an answer at least you aren't in the dreaded limbo.

Emmy - thank you. Why don't you Join us a while?

AFM: negative opk again today so maybe I should trust the positive one just not sure due to the smearing. Only one test left in this pack now though so its trust or shell out £30 to keep checking.... If it was a true positive then 2dpo today.

 

[CherylC3]

Aw gd horsey pants hopefully this is ur month..x
Bailey they twinges are a gd thing..x

Storm looks like we're in the 2ww together then I'm 1dpo

 

[flapjack10]

HP - I'm glad AF is here, what a relief! This cycle it's going to be PMA all the way! You will get your sticky wicket!

Cheryl and Storm - GL in the 2WW! It's a bitch!

Emmy - I know it's so strange wanting your AF so you can start afresh! It's such a crazy feeling! I even wore sanitary towels for about a week and no AF! What a waste!

Bailey - Yup I'm 11dpo and still not testing! I'm so proud of myself I've come this far now - only two more sleeps... Still no symptoms (apart from twitchy eye is still here lol). Not long for you now! FX!



xxx

 

[twister7]

Morning all....

Welcome Emmy

Flapjack, you have amazing will power not testing, I don't now how you do it, though I understand why xxxx
Waiting game then for you two, Cheryl and Storm... Good luck fingers crossed.
Where do you think your at then Bailey?

Im confused, not sure whats going on with me, had a line on OPK yesterday but not as dark as control line, had no line at all the day before and no line today ( well very faint), so dont know if yesterday was O day...????

 

[Storm7]

Aw gd horsey pants hopefully this is ur month..x
Bailey they twinges are a gd thing..x

Storm looks like we're in the 2ww together then I'm 1dpo

Brilliant - we can wait/go slightly crazy for the next two weeks together!

 

[flapjack10]

Hmph

Looking at your chart you got the right CM at this time so maybe it was O?

Did you you BD? Then again your cycle could still be longer and it could have just been a surge. I'd keep doing the OPKs and BD just in case.

xxx

 

[twister7]

My cycle is usually 28 days but after MC first one was 47, so are you thinking it will only gradually get back to a 28 day one, I was expecting this cycle to be normal?
FF has it pegged differently but thought that was just because of my 47 day cycle....
xxxx

 

[flapjack10]

I wouldn't bet on your cycle being completely back to 'normal'. It may be a bit longer still. Sometimes the body takes a bit longer to get back to the way it was...

 

[Storm7]

You might go back to normal but sometimes takes time to settle. My second cycle after mc was 16 days... That followed a 42 day one.

 

[baileybubs]

Yeah I agree, im on my third cycle and mine are still weird, cycle one was 65 day!! But that was coz I bled for 5 weeks after mc, then second cycle was 31 days and if I've got O day right this one is 35 days. Whereas before pregnancy mine were 28/29 days.
Did any of the opk's come out definate positives twister? Coz it could just be a pre-surge warm up if you know what I mean? When I had my last follow up scan my ovary was swollen ready to release the egg but it didn't happen for another two weeks after that!! So it could just be getting ready.
Have you got pics you can post?

Horsey - glad you know where you are now hun. Hope AF is kind to you!!! But PMA, coz now it's a brand new cycle and you can focus on getting that August BFP now.

Flapjack - I'm 7dpo so 4 days behind you and I'm dying to test!!! I can't cope!! But I'm doing better than last month, I tested at 6dpo last month I need to remember how bad I felt keep getting bfns so i don't test early. I can't wait for you to test!!!
I'm thinking you will be this threads first BFP!!! (is that right or have we had someone else with a BFP??)

Cheryl and Storm - keep up the bd'ing!! Have your opk's gone negative yet? Have you been using anything like preseed this month? I tried it this month, it's bloody slippery stuff but if it's managed to keep those spermies safe then it was worth it!!

Emmy how are you today?

 

[twister7]

Awwww that's a bit of a bummer, was looking foward to getting back to some kind of normality... Ah well..

 

[baileybubs]

Sorry hun, for some people it does but I found that mine hasn't at all. But I do feel everything more so im more in touch with when i do O an stuff like that. I notice that your mc was at 12 weeks like mine, sometimes I think that has made mine take longer to ether back to normal, because I was pregnant longer, if that makes sense. Was yours a mmc? Sorry if I've asked you that before I have the memory of a goldfish with amnesia!!

 

[flapjack10]

Sorry hun, but then what is normal?! Aslong as you get your BFP who cares how long your cycle is!

Bailey - I lurk in the pg test gallery to ease my frustration!

We've had a few BFPs - Jaggers, Little J, Babee etc. Your memory is shocking madam - maybe that's a sign you're pregnant

xxx

 

[twister7]

Sorry hun, for some people it does but I found that mine hasn't at all. But I do feel everything more so im more in touch with when i do O an stuff like that. I notice that your mc was at 12 weeks like mine, sometimes I think that has made mine take longer to ether back to normal, because I was pregnant longer, if that makes sense. Was yours a mmc? Sorry if I've asked you that before I have the memory of a goldfish with amnesia!!

Hiya yeah it was, little crumb was no more at 9 weeks, and MC naturally a 12 weeks..

 

[twister7]

It's just fustrating, I spent that long trying to get pregnant I dont wanna miss the boat, Im 35 now...xxxx

 

[baileybubs]

Sorry hun, but then what is normal?! Aslong as you get your BFP who cares how long your cycle is!

Bailey - I lurk in the pg test gallery to ease my frustration!

We've had a few BFPs - Jaggers, Little J, Babee etc. Your memory is shocking madam - maybe that's a sign you're pregnant

xxx

Haha I have just been looking at the test galleries and I have to say I did think noooooo about testing this early as people just don't get positives at 7dpo!!

And yes my memory is awful lol. But I also get confused easily and I chat on about 3 different threads and get lost as to BFPs lol!! Plus all the pg ladies seem to leave this thread once they get BFP then coz they don't chat to us anymore! They've abandoned us

 

[baileybubs]

Awww twister you won't miss the boat, 35 is still young, loads of people are having babies in their mid to late thirties now. Don't worry hun you will catch that eggy soon and have your rainbow baby in your arms before you know it!!