Trying before AF?

[Storm7]

Bailey - I only had one day with a smiley face on Saturday so working on Sunday being O day... However I am still suspicious over smearyness (is that a word?!) of the test and going to use OPKs for the next few days just in case. I know I should trust the test but I don't. I only wish I had gone with my instinct and retested that day.

 

[Storm7]

It's just fustrating, I spent that long trying to get pregnant I dont wanna miss the boat, Im 35 now...xxxx

35 is still young. I am sure you won't miss the boat

 

[flapjack10]

Sorry hun, but then what is normal?! Aslong as you get your BFP who cares how long your cycle is!

Bailey - I lurk in the pg test gallery to ease my frustration!

We've had a few BFPs - Jaggers, Little J, Babee etc. Your memory is shocking madam - maybe that's a sign you're pregnant

xxx

Haha I have just been looking at the test galleries and I have to say I did think noooooo about testing this early as people just don't get positives at 7dpo!!

And yes my memory is awful lol. But I also get confused easily and I chat on about 3 different threads and get lost as to BFPs lol!! Plus all the pg ladies seem to leave this thread once they get BFP then coz they don't chat to us anymore! They've abandoned us

I know, what did we do?!! I get so confused as well! I thank God that people have tickers or I would sooooo forgot how far along they are etc! If I get my BFP I won't abandon you ladies (Mainly because I'll still need you haha)

It's just fustrating, I spent that long trying to get pregnant I dont wanna miss the boat, Im 35 now...xxxx

You won't miss the boat! You've done it once, you can do it again!

 

[baileybubs]

I think sometimes when people get their BFP they don't want to make those of us still ttc feel bad so they disappear to the pregnancy forums, which is fair enough. But I'm with you flapjack. If I do get my BFP I won't leave, I'll be here to support everyone and egg them on towards getting their BFPs!!

Storm - I don't think smearyness is a word lol but made me smile! What did you think was wrong with the opk? A smiley face is most definately a positive hun and you could have had a very short surge, but a surge none the less!!

 

[horseypants]

this cycle, i really need to work on decreasing my stess level and yes, the PMA! unfortuantely, my job and my OH stresses me out and then i tend to get stessed about how stressed out i'm getting. any tips?

 

[twister7]

Can't really help you there horsey, I'm always stressed I constantly worry about things, I worry if I cant find anything to worry about lol xx

 

[Storm7]

Bailey - by smeryness I mean that there weren't two clear lines only a smear and a control line. Hope that makes sense.

 

[horseypants]

storm, i kind of know whaT u mean

i'd count it as a positive

hehe, twister, i think talking about it helps! next time i get stressed out that im stressed out, i will remember about how you worry if all's calm - hopefully i will laugh or at least have to smile. -and stop it you! no worrying allowed! especially when there's nothing to worry about lol (see i've got all the right answers for ya!)

btw, sorry for the typos ladies, but that's how you know my nails look gooooood i can't bear to cut them!

 

[baileybubs]

Oh you mean on the inside storm? But if it's showing a smiley face then surely it's positive, I don't know how those digi thinks work, big you aren't supposed to pay attention to the lines so surely it couldn't show a smiley unless it was deffo positive?? I don't know they are so confusing!!!

And as for stress levels my tactic is distraction. I am getting married next year so I'm throwing everything into that, but whilst looking at bridesmaid dresses I found this below and thought if I have a little girl before the wedding we could put her in this (we are having a gold and black theme). So it's only managed to semi distract me from ttc lol!!!

 

[mrs_swj2be]

hi is it ok to join this group as would like some support and would like to be able to support others.

 

[baileybubs]

Of course mrs s (I hope you don't mind me shortening your name as I'll forget it!!) welcome!!!

 

[twister7]

Welcome Mrs S, looks like that's ya nickname now..
xx

 

[mrs_swj2be]

hi thats fine by me i am useless with names as well.

 

[baileybubs]

Just noticed your tickers aren't working, try using the bb code hun xxx

 

[mrs_swj2be]

thanks have just fixed them x

 

[flapjack10]

Bailey - by smeryness I mean that there weren't two clear lines only a smear and a control line. Hope that makes sense.

I've had some smeary ones and they've been negative and pos. I think you go off the face and not the lines like Bailey said.

hi is it ok to join this group as would like some support and would like to be able to support others.

Of course Welcome! Sorry for your loss...

this cycle, i really need to work on decreasing my stess level and yes, the PMA! unfortuantely, my job and my OH stresses me out and then i tend to get stessed about how stressed out i'm getting. any tips?

Hmmmm de-stress tips.... I dunno I'm TTC crazy and Twitchy-Eye Lady! I reckon, like you say, just focus on something that makes you laugh like funny videos on YouTube!

As well, what's the worst that can happen if you don't get your BFP? The worst that can happen is that you have to try again, and that doesn't neccessarily mean having to go crazy. Try to enjoy it. Have a lovely time with your OH and try to be romantic and kinky!

We'll be here for you to rant and stress at anyway!


Bailey - That dress is SO cute and gorgeous!
xxx

 

[mrs_swj2be]

here is just a bit about me so you know my story.
been TTC 3yrs 5mths got our first BFP last monday 16th july 2012 but sadly started bleeding on the tuesday and lost our little angel and the wednesday morning at 6 weeks.

 

[flapjack10]

I'm sorry hun I hope you get your sticky rainbow baby soon!

xxx

 

[baileybubs]

Aw hun, I hope you feel better soon. It's so awful having all those dreams and plans for the future taken away from you. People who haven't miscarried just dont understand, but feel free to ask anything and say anything here. No story is tmi, no upset or annoyance too irrelevant, everything you are feeling right now is normal and I guarantee one of us on here has physically emotionally or mentally gone through the same or similar thing. If that makes sense??! You get used to me by the way mrs, I tend to ramble on lol!!

 

[mrs_swj2be]

hi thankyou so much.
i have had friends say to me this week i know how you feel and i just want to scream and say no you dont you have never been through this.
so it nice at last to have other people who do actually understand how i am feeling.
i did want to ask if any one has got any advice on how long to wait before staring to try again as my dr and the hospital have both said that i can start trying as soon as i am ready and that there is no need to wait for af first but would like other womens opinons on this. x
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