Trying before AF?

[horseypants]

I'm here! Listening and lurking! I have no ttc news - it'll be at least a week before o. I really actually need to lose a lot of weight. I have a workout appointment with a friend after work today and I'm already dreading it! Every time I talk to my mom about my mc, she brings up my weight. I KNOW I need to make a bigger effort, but I think about the issue and it depresses me which doesnt exactly help me get in gear. I have a bunch of stretch marks from my mc! I know I was on the verge of getting them due to being overweight, but after the d and c, i guess things got swollen and shifted suddenly and voila. I was looking at them this morning. I think I don't mind.... they are like a tattoo but uber claaassy (imagine me saying this in a thick fake long island accent)

about the weight though, I've also been juggling this:
lose weight, have a wedding, have a baby

trying to work that one out is so hard. i think it would be so great to get prego and then have the wedding (even though our families would freak, im 35 for god's sake) i'm scared of having the wedding around the 8 week mark or even two months after that just in case the worst happens again.... you kinda know what i mean? ideally, i'd already be skinny and married and 28 years old. but alas.

 

[xxemmyxx]

thats ok i usen to have 38dd now i only have 34 b/c depending on the time of the month lmao

Wow your boobies lost weight too!! I don't really want mine to go I am scared they will be like a couple of tennis balls swinging around in a pair of socks after weight loss!

lol i was gutted when i got better and realised but at least i dont get bad back as often any more.
my OH is GUTTED and has ofered to pay for a boob job for me but i told him to be grateful for what he has got.
at least they havnt gone saggy lol soz tmi

Hahaha that's hilarious! I wish my OH would pay for a boob job! Xx

 

[xxemmyxx]

Hi horsey I missed u lol! I have the same struggle, I want a baby but I want to get married too, I wanna be skinny for the wedding so I suppose I need to loose weight either way whether a baby comes first or not. End of day baby is most important thing to me so I'm going to do my best to loose weight whilst ttc

I have stretch marks too they don't bother me, all women have them! They are a womanly feature! And I have never heard a man say ewww she had stretch marks on her, men even have them! Luckily all mine are old so are light but even if they are red they will fade soon, they are tattoo's reminding you what your body has been through, u should feel proud of them xx

 

[horseypants]

emmy, i always agree with you one hundred percent lol. and i've arrived at the same conclusion time and time again with ttc is a priority though a skinny wedding would have been nice. i'm off for the night. hugs ladies.

 

[flapjack10]

I'm 30FF! I've done my BMI and it says I'm slightly overweight (25.2) for my height so trying to shift at least half a stone - a stone! It's the boobs I tell ya! I really do think that BMI doesn't take enough things into consideration such as body shape etc.
YES we'll do it together! We'll get healthy, get our rainbows and help each other!
xxx

Flapjack your 0.2 over lol!! I don't think that counts!! Just do a big poo, u don't need to loose a stone!! Maybe the pilates will tone you up and make u feel fitter xx

I already did have a big poo! Didn't make a difference. I just know that they'll use any excuse to say why I'm having these problems. But yes - deffo want to tone and feel fitter, and also fit into my red dress in my avatar, which shrunk at the dry cleaners

I have loads of stretch marks from a growth spurt as a teenager. They're on my boobs, hips, bum, thighs. So probs when I have a baby I'll get them on my stomach to complete the look I don't mind them, my hubby has stetchies on his arms and he doesn't mind them. It's just nature, init? It's genetic, there's nowt you can do about them so hey ho!


Twister - I see something, but may be indent line... FX for you
Love to all you girlies!

 

[xxemmyxx]

Lol maybe the dry cleaner has been sneaking into my house and shrinking all of my clothes too!! Or maybe its that tub of Hagen daaz cheese cake I ate last night...big diet fail!!

 

[CupcakeBaby]

Lol maybe the dry cleaner has been sneaking into my house and shrinking all of my clothes too!! Or maybe its that tub of Hagen daaz cheese cake I ate last night...big diet fail!!

We must have the same dry cleaner!!!

I've put on loads of weight since my MC I just love pizza and other naughty food and when I'm feeling sorry for myself I think "I deserve it", shovel it all in and then my clothes stop fitting and I feel crap!

 

[flapjack10]

Yeah it maybe due to the fact that I love pizza and ice cream too, rather than the dry cleaners haha

I always think "I deserve it" too. As well, I'm getting tired of acting like I'm already pregnant not drinking or eating what I want too, so I've really been boozing it up lately.

I just love food! Siiiiiigh!

 

[xxemmyxx]

Any excuse for me to eat and I'm there!! Mc has been a real excuse, if the bus is late I think I deserve it lol

 

[flapjack10]

Nom nom me too! It doesn't help that Dominos keep on texting and e-mailing me with 50% off deals!

 

[TTCSecrets]

Ill TRY to make this quick

I am new to this forum so unsure as to how to use it so please bear with me if i have put this post in the wrong place or anything. I have been watching quite a few threads on here for a while though..

Basically i had a D and C on 17th August three weeks ago for a missed miscarriage at 12 weeks

The bleeding and pain stopped after a few days and i got the go ahead to start trying again straight away from my doctor. ( I know people will say to wait until my body is healed but i wont )

I also did OPK and HPTs straight after and for the past two weeks i have been getting negative HPTs.

Yesterday when i went to the toilet i had a little pink tinted spotting when i wiped, no blood as such just a pink tint when i wiped, it hasnt happened since. But i also can't stop peeing or sneezing so now i am terrified i have an infection inside down there?!

I have no pain and no more bleeding or cramps or anything, i am actually terrified i have an infection due to the spotting, the peeing alot and the sneezing horrendously ( i dont have a cold )

Google said it could be ovulation bleeding but i did OPKs yesterday and they were negative, they were cheap though.

Please help me?!?! xxxxx

 

[Storm7]

Mmmmmm.... Dominoes.

Twister - any update?

Hello to everyone else. My boobs are 36GG.... Also need to lose weight but waiting on baby now. As I said to DH - I am happy to gain 4 stone if I also gain a healthy baby.

 

[flapjack10]

Hi TTCSecrets, welcome to BnB and sorry for your loss.

Could it possibly be implantation bleeding? Have you had a positive OPK at all in the past two weeks?

It could be a UTI maybe, I'd get it checked out at the docs. Something that could be easily cleared up with some antibiotics (but is quite uncomfortable and annoying at the time). Have you been BDing (having sex) a lot? Sometimes that can cause them.

xxx

 

[flapjack10]

Mmmmmm.... Dominoes.

Twister - any update?

Hello to everyone else. My boobs are 36GG.... Also need to lose weight but waiting on baby now. As I said to DH - I am happy to gain 4 stone if I also gain a healthy baby.

How are you feeling Storm?

xxx

 

[CupcakeBaby]

Ill TRY to make this quick

I am new to this forum so unsure as to how to use it so please bear with me if i have put this post in the wrong place or anything. I have been watching quite a few threads on here for a while though..

Basically i had a D and C on 17th August three weeks ago for a missed miscarriage at 12 weeks

The bleeding and pain stopped after a few days and i got the go ahead to start trying again straight away from my doctor. ( I know people will say to wait until my body is healed but i wont )

I also did OPK and HPTs straight after and for the past two weeks i have been getting negative HPTs.

Yesterday when i went to the toilet i had a little pink tinted spotting when i wiped, no blood as such just a pink tint when i wiped, it hasnt happened since. But i also can't stop peeing or sneezing so now i am terrified i have an infection inside down there?!

I have no pain and no more bleeding or cramps or anything, i am actually terrified i have an infection due to the spotting, the peeing alot and the sneezing horrendously ( i dont have a cold )

Google said it could be ovulation bleeding but i did OPKs yesterday and they were negative, they were cheap though.

Please help me?!?! xxxxx

If you had an infection it'd smell and you'd be in pain and have a fever etc.

I'd say sneezing is hayfever - it's really bad at the minute, and peeing all the time can just be a hormone thing - I pee all the time when I'm ovulating or pregnant.

I ovulated 3 weeks after my MC (MMC but passed baby naturally) and then had spotting at 5,6,7 dpo and BFP at 11dpo.

I really believe that if you had an infection you'd know about it!

 

[Storm7]

Hi TTCSecrets. Welcome and I am sorry for your loss. As flapjack said it could be implantation. Or from your cervix due to bd'ing.

Flapjack - I am feeling scared. Just had a call from EPU and have a scan date but that call has somehow made it all seem real and I am now a little freaked out....
How are you?

 

[flapjack10]

Eeep Don't blame you for being freaked out hun, but I'm sure your little rainbow is fine.

When is your scan?

I'm ok - muddling on!

xxx

 

[Storm7]

Scan is the 17th. Going to see if I can take the day as holiday as not sure I will be much use at work before or after!

 

[twister7]

Welcome Secrets, sorry for your loss...

Storm, I have everything crossed for you sweetheart but Im sure everything will be fine

Flapjack, where do you go from here then are you waiting for more test ect before trying again, must be so fustrating especially when you seem to be able to "get" pregnant quite easily, hope I have not said anything out of place there....

AFM did a test again this morning and it was the same as yesterday, dont think this is the month tbh, had a weird "gut instinct" about a week ago that this was going to be it, but dont feel like that no more...
xxxx

 

[flapjack10]

Storm -I'll also have everything crossed for you on the 17th! I would deffo hav the whole day off for it, if I were you.

Twister - I have my referral to the Women's on the 27th so I'm WTT until after I have advice/tests from them. My hubby ain't ready to go again emotionally and also he's worried about me. I'm ready to TTC, but I respect his feelings and deep down think he's probably right (don't tell him that though hehe ).
Don't worry you haven't said anything out of place!

Sorry about your tests! But you never know until AF has fully arrived. Stay strong hun.