Trying before AF?

[flapjack10]

Siiiiiigh! TMI ALERT.

Well, it was my second time having sex... I had lost my virginity the weekend before. I was in my friend's study with this lad. We were doing it (both pretty drunk) and our friend was shouting up for me to come downstairs and dance with him to the Dirty Dancing soundtrack. I was like "I can't right now!!" (as in pee off I'm shaggin' yer mate ).

Due to this distraction, we slipped or something happened and the condom disappeared! We thought it had come off on the bed, so we searched for it for aaaages - I even tried to make it into a Cystal Maze sort of game. *cringe*

We determined it must still be inside me. I went to the loo twice, but I swear there was nothing up there! We tidied up and I was very confused! I really hoped my mate didn't find a used condom in his computer room - or even worse his Mum would find it!

I had to go to work the next day and I was in agony (and hungover). My back was so sore. Throughout the day I kept 'checking', but no condom in sight or feel! In the evening, I got home from work and went on the trusty internet. Typed in my situation to some Sexual Health Forum and someone suggested I get in the bath and see what happened.

So, off I trotted to run a bath, got in, sat there for a bit and out plopped the condom! Gross, gross, gross!

Been put off using condoms ever since - only in dire need situations!

And the lad dumped me a couple of weeks later after my Sixth Form Formal (prom)! He was 21 and I was 17 - he well took advantage of me! Don't worry he begged me to take him back a couple of years later and I declined! Then I added him on Facebook last year - just so he could see I'm married and so, so, so happy. Muahahahaaha!

Wow that was nearly ten year ago - I feel olllllld.

 

[Storm7]

Brilliant story flapjack! I wonder if the people on your journal are familiar with it!

 

[xxemmyxx]

Great story flapjack! Glad u got ur revenge! Mine was similar except I had more of an "examination" from the bloke to get it out, me with my legs spread as far as they can go and him scrambling around up there saying "I can feel it but I can't get it" ...embarrassing, I really didn't know him well enough to be having a cervical examination haha wish I knew the advice about the bath!

 

[mrs_swj2be]

brillient story flapjack. made me chuckle which is just what i needed. (not that i am laughing at you lol)

hope everyone is ok.

where is everyone in there cycle at the moment????????????????????

AFM - i am cd 17 and i got a positive opk toady so am now in the 2 week wait and (tmi ) OH has actually got a day off of work so we have made the most of our time toghter so massive fx'd that the do there job.
the next 2ws are going to terrible its going to drag and go soo slow as not only will it be the end of my 2ww but i will be off on my holidays.

 

[xxemmyxx]

Where u going on holiday mrs s? Maybe getting ready for your holiday will help keep your mind off the 2ww! Dunno where I am in my cycle, still no positive opk, I havnt had one since the mc, Im Starting to worry im not ovulating

 

[mrs_swj2be]

we are off to selsy in chichester for 8 days on the 21st september just me and OH.
21st septrmber is also my dads aniversary it would have been 8yrs.
how long ago was mc now???????

 

[xxemmyxx]

10 weeks since mc x

 

[mrs_swj2be]

10 weeks since mc x

have you spoken to the dr about not ovulating?????????

i am 7 weeks since mc and 2nd cycle i was soo worried that my cycles would be all over the place.

try not to worry though as that will not help.

 

[xxemmyxx]

Yeah I did and that's when she said I look like I have pcos!! Bitch lol! If I do I must still ovulate cus I got pregnant naturally before, maybe its just irratic now...we shall find out when I get tested xx

 

[mrs_swj2be]

BITCH lol

i still ovulated even with pcos i wasnt always regular but none the less i was ovulating.
and even if you have got pcos you there is no reason why you cant fall pregnant naturally.
NOTHING IS IMPOSIBLE.

i have found doing somthing with my spare time like a hobby takes my mind off of things.

do you do anything like that????

 

[xxemmyxx]

Honestly I don't really have a hobby no, no excuse really but I'm a teacher and generally I'm very busy, by the time I get home and do the dinner, put a wash on and all that rubbish I'm ready for bed!! I often fall asleep in the evenings, I dunno how people have time or energy to go to the gym or to a club or anything I'm always exhausted! Maybe I'm just in a bad routine... Do u have a hobby? X

 

[Laubull]

Emmy why don't you start temping, then you'll have a better idea about your cycles and if you ovulate? Just an idea

 

[xxemmyxx]

Thanks lauball, I did say last cycle that if I didn't get a BFP I would start temping this cycle but I just don't know where to start! I know nothing, I need a lesson in temping! I need it all explaining to me, if I take my temp every day when I first wake up and put it into FF maybe u all can help me! Does ur temp go up just after u ovulate?

 

[Laubull]

Of course we will all help you! I read a book called taking charge of your fertility before I started to temp but you can learn it all from fertility friend, they have directions/lessons on their site. Yes your temp does go up after O, check out my chart in my signature, you should be able to click it too. Get a thermometer that goes to 2 decimal places, I got mine from Amazon for about £3.

Have a read and any questions shout

X

 

[mrs_swj2be]

Honestly I don't really have a hobby no, no excuse really but I'm a teacher and generally I'm very busy, by the time I get home and do the dinner, put a wash on and all that rubbish I'm ready for bed!! I often fall asleep in the evenings, I dunno how people have time or energy to go to the gym or to a club or anything I'm always exhausted! Maybe I'm just in a bad routine... Do u have a hobby? X

i dont blame you for being exhausted. i dont work because of health reasons so i have time that needs occupying lol.
i have spent a few years doing cake decorating and i am hoping to set up a business once we have moved in to our own place.
but at the moment i am doing crochet and really enjoying it going to make some blankets.

 

[xxemmyxx]

Of course we will all help you! I read a book called taking charge of your fertility before I started to temp but you can learn it all from fertility friend, they have directions/lessons on their site. Yes your temp does go up after O, check out my chart in my signature, you should be able to click it too. Get a thermometer that goes to 2 decimal places, I got mine from Amazon for about £3.

Have a read and any questions shout

X

I have that book too! I have read it but maybe need to look back at the temping bit! I just looked at your chart, I suppose it will help to see if I am ovulating and where I am in my cycle cus I have no idea right now! Thank you for your help xx

 

[xxemmyxx]

Honestly I don't really have a hobby no, no excuse really but I'm a teacher and generally I'm very busy, by the time I get home and do the dinner, put a wash on and all that rubbish I'm ready for bed!! I often fall asleep in the evenings, I dunno how people have time or energy to go to the gym or to a club or anything I'm always exhausted! Maybe I'm just in a bad routine... Do u have a hobby? X

i dont blame you for being exhausted. i dont work because of health reasons so i have time that needs occupying lol.
i have spent a few years doing cake decorating and i am hoping to set up a business once we have moved in to our own place.
but at the moment i am doing crochet and really enjoying it going to make some blankets.

Ooo! So you can make some lovely blankets for us for when we all have our rainbows! I have a friend who does that and now she sells them on eBay, maybe you could try that? Xx

 

[carlywarly]

I just had a donation on Tuesday after getting a +OPK! The thing is I had a mmc in May and haven't had AF since...I don't even know if I am working properly lol...but gave it a shot as a 'just in case' Will have to wait and see (although I am pretty sure it wont work) if not, hopefully I will get AF

 

[xxemmyxx]

I just had a donation on Tuesday after getting a +OPK! The thing is I had a mmc in May and haven't had AF since...I don't even know if I am working properly lol...but gave it a shot as a 'just in case' Will have to wait and see (although I am pretty sure it wont work) if not, hopefully I will get AF

Fingers crossed carlywarly, know what you mean when you say you don't know if your working properly! At least you got a positive opk so something is working lol x

 

[mrs_swj2be]

Honestly I don't really have a hobby no, no excuse really but I'm a teacher and generally I'm very busy, by the time I get home and do the dinner, put a wash on and all that rubbish I'm ready for bed!! I often fall asleep in the evenings, I dunno how people have time or energy to go to the gym or to a club or anything I'm always exhausted! Maybe I'm just in a bad routine... Do u have a hobby? X

i dont blame you for being exhausted. i dont work because of health reasons so i have time that needs occupying lol.
i have spent a few years doing cake decorating and i am hoping to set up a business once we have moved in to our own place.
but at the moment i am doing crochet and really enjoying it going to make some blankets.

Ooo! So you can make some lovely blankets for us for when we all have our rainbows! I have a friend who does that and now she sells them on eBay, maybe you could try that? Xx

definetly when you get you rainbow let me know and i will make you a lovly blanket.
i was trying to make my design as i love doing my own own thing so dicided last night with my OH that as we will not know wether or not to make pink or blue and we always say when we get our rainbow that i am going to use the rainbow as a theme for my blanket. i will make then post pictures.
but i am making more than 1 thing at the moment so will be a little while.