Trying To Conceive #1 Only Vent Thread

[Jett55]

Stupid ff changed O day again it's really ticking me off it makes NO dang sense

 

[Limm]

Today my cousin, who I'm pretty sure got pregnant without trying and has been known to often leave her child with whoever she can so that she can go out almost every weekend, posted a story that ended with this...

"You will never know your parents worth till you become a parent."

Seriously??

Also, I finally found out how to work out CD, only to then work out I am CD118. Great.

 

[Sparkle_13]

Jett55 I feel your pain the same thing has happened to me a few times this month it keeps switching between CD13 and 18... Grr so annoying! I bought a CBFM today so hopefully I have more luck next month.
How many months have you been charting can you use your previous months to get a better idea?

 

[ashntony]

Today my cousin, who I'm pretty sure got pregnant without trying and has been known to often leave her child with whoever she can so that she can go out almost every weekend, posted a story that ended with this...

"You will never know your parents worth till you become a parent."

Seriously??

Also, I finally found out how to work out CD, only to then work out I am CD118. Great.

Limm I am right behind you! CD96.... It sucks... It is one thing to have a chance each month to get a BFP but here we are multiple months already gone down the drain.... I hope something happens for you!!! I ordered Maca, Vitex, Folic Acid, and B12!!! Here is to us!

 

[loobyloo242]

my friends gone into labour today, first thing i did was cry! i should be so happy but i just am filled with jealousy and i feel like i can't help it!
next month i have my appointment with the obgyn to go through the results of my HSG, blood test, ultrasound so i really hope they give me some medication to help me out i dunno, a few people have told me there pg recently and although im happy i just constantly about 24/7 dream about becoming a mum!

Dust to all x

 

[wntafmly]

I have been having to avoid facebook because also evey friend of mine is pregnant or trying and it seems that no matter what I try it doesn't work for us. We have been trying to for 2 years with nothing. Some days I feel like just giving up because it's not going to happen. (that is my luck in life)

Prayers12 I completely understand. It's been almost 3 years for us, but it was just recently that we felt it was time to pursue things medically. In the past 2 years just in my very large family alone there has been 7 kids born and 3 more pregnancies announced, and 7 kids born to my friends. It's really tough, but you just have to decide what it right for you and your SO, and how long you are willing to try or how far you are comfortable going medically if that is the route you choose. Good luck to you, and stay strong

 

[Jett55]

Jett55 I feel your pain the same thing has happened to me a few times this month it keeps switching between CD13 and 18... Grr so annoying! I bought a CBFM today so hopefully I have more luck next month.
How many months have you been charting can you use your previous months to get a better idea?

This is only my 2nd month charting but what it says o day is makes no sense cuz I had positive opks & ewcm waay before cd22 I think its just dumb plus me not bein persistent with it for awhile helped make it wack

 

[trying2beamom]

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This is a support forum. Bashing the forum and its members is not acceptable.

 

[Ladybuggz]

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Have you seen the LTTTC thread? Tends to have ladies that have been trying for 1+ years

 

[Jett55]

So I was joking with my 2 yr old nephew calling him evil for takin a toy from his little brother & a girl who doesn't even take care of her own kid jumped on me for it even though idk how many times she complains about her kid n stuff gaah I wana hit her sometimes

 

[CakeCottage]

Stupid anovulatory cycle... Grrrrr x

 

[Limm]

CD119.

Currently at my brother's house whilst him, SIL and the kids go on holiday for the weekend. I look into the kids' bedrooms, the walls painted with many colours and every corner filled with toys and tiny clothes and my uterus cramps up.
Tomorrow is my friend's wedding. Obviously I expect it to be tough because she's found out she's 10+ weeks and we had both been TTC, but I didn't expect to find out another lady I know is expecting her third. I can't even be bitter about it. Both of them are lovely people. I think that makes it worse.

Did another HPT and it was BFN. Still no word from my GP about if I'm definitely being referred to the infertility clinic. DH commented earlier today that he reckons if we hadn't decided to be TTC we would've probably conceived already.

So to sum up, I am sat alone, in a different town and feeling like someone is trying to pull my heart out.

I'm sorry for repeatedly posting in this thread. Feels like all I do is complain about my life.

 

[tamithomas]

I'm within my O window and DH pulled a muscle last night when a leak started from our roof right in our bed so he had to move it and pulled his side muscle so won't be able to BD. Everything to prevent us from having a kid! Grrrrrrrrrrrr. Why can't it happen already?

 

[ashntony]

CD119.

Currently at my brother's house whilst him, SIL and the kids go on holiday for the weekend. I look into the kids' bedrooms, the walls painted with many colours and every corner filled with toys and tiny clothes and my uterus cramps up.
Tomorrow is my friend's wedding. Obviously I expect it to be tough because she's found out she's 10+ weeks and we had both been TTC, but I didn't expect to find out another lady I know is expecting her third. I can't even be bitter about it. Both of them are lovely people. I think that makes it worse.

Did another HPT and it was BFN. Still no word from my GP about if I'm definitely being referred to the infertility clinic. DH commented earlier today that he reckons if we hadn't decided to be TTC we would've probably conceived already.

So to sum up, I am sat alone, in a different town and feeling like someone is trying to pull my heart out.

I'm sorry for repeatedly posting in this thread. Feels like all I do is complain about my life.

your fine Limm I am right there with ya! I am fed up with seeing baby and pregnancy scans on FB.. i am sick of hearing about how everyone else is luckier than I !

 

[wntafmly]

Stupid anovulatory cycle... Grrrrr x

I agree, they are just a royal waste of time.

 

[AlliCat]

So...I am confused as to when to test. My blood work from my day 21 progesterone work up on April 12th was 12.1 and doctor said that I ovulated. Per ovulation tests I ovulated on day 21 or 22. What do I go by as far as when to take a pregnancy test?

 

[tamithomas]

found this online, I think this could easily contribute to the vent thread:

 

[ashntony]

Haha Tami! I love rumpy cat pictures!

 

[Jett55]

looove the pic Tami.. Grumpy cat makes me smile

 

[shorty42383]

Tomorrow is my 30th birthday, I took an Frer this morning BFN! Just waiting for AF to show up either Thursday of Friday... nothing like being disappointed during your birthday week!