TTC #1, Looking for iui Buddies for February!

[Swimming]

mnelson bringing in the positivity - I like it.

I found an article saying physical activity helps with sperm morphology. 4 years ago my husband and I were dating and he was pretty active. I've been meaning to mention it to him, but he is so busy with work (he's still not home on a friday night and its 6pm!) I don't want to stress him out with ANOTHER change for him to make.

This sure is a hard journey to travel.

I hear ya swimming... We didn't have any tests until this year since we were technically still below the "danger" age and asked to keep trying naturally. But last year my husband quit smoking, started gym and running after almost 12 years.. I think that definitely helped even though I have no pre tests to confirm. Even though you can't push your dh, I completely understand that, can there be other ways to nudge? Like group sports? And also 2 years ago I took charge of the shopping and slowly stopped bringing junk food into the house. Haha hope you don't have to be as sneaky as me.. I still feel guilty at times but still if it helps these are all just small steps in this very uphill confusing infertility battle

Ahh haha that is brilliant! I get random hives, especially when I eat processed food and lots of junk food- so we eat pretty healthy. However I think I could do better at making sure there is a PLETHORA of fruits veggies for snacks and making that abundant. If you hadn't said that I don't think it would have clicked to make sure I really go overboard on the fruits and veggies when we grocery shop (today!)... thanks!!!!

 

[Ragnhild]

mnelson bringing in the positivity - I like it.

I found an article saying physical activity helps with sperm morphology. 4 years ago my husband and I were dating and he was pretty active. I've been meaning to mention it to him, but he is so busy with work (he's still not home on a friday night and its 6pm!) I don't want to stress him out with ANOTHER change for him to make.

This sure is a hard journey to travel.

I hear ya swimming... We didn't have any tests until this year since we were technically still below the "danger" age and asked to keep trying naturally. But last year my husband quit smoking, started gym and running after almost 12 years.. I think that definitely helped even though I have no pre tests to confirm. Even though you can't push your dh, I completely understand that, can there be other ways to nudge? Like group sports? And also 2 years ago I took charge of the shopping and slowly stopped bringing junk food into the house. Haha hope you don't have to be as sneaky as me.. I still feel guilty at times but still if it helps these are all just small steps in this very uphill confusing infertility battle

Ahh haha that is brilliant! I get random hives, especially when I eat processed food and lots of junk food- so we eat pretty healthy. However I think I could do better at making sure there is a PLETHORA of fruits veggies for snacks and making that abundant. If you hadn't said that I don't think it would have clicked to make sure I really go overboard on the fruits and veggies when we grocery shop (today!)... thanks!!!!

Haha I'm laughing reading your post but also guilty about being sneaky

Any test updates mrsb and swimming??

 

[mrsbertrand]

mnelson bringing in the positivity - I like it.

I found an article saying physical activity helps with sperm morphology. 4 years ago my husband and I were dating and he was pretty active. I've been meaning to mention it to him, but he is so busy with work (he's still not home on a friday night and its 6pm!) I don't want to stress him out with ANOTHER change for him to make.

This sure is a hard journey to travel.

I hear ya swimming... We didn't have any tests until this year since we were technically still below the "danger" age and asked to keep trying naturally. But last year my husband quit smoking, started gym and running after almost 12 years.. I think that definitely helped even though I have no pre tests to confirm. Even though you can't push your dh, I completely understand that, can there be other ways to nudge? Like group sports? And also 2 years ago I took charge of the shopping and slowly stopped bringing junk food into the house. Haha hope you don't have to be as sneaky as me.. I still feel guilty at times but still if it helps these are all just small steps in this very uphill confusing infertility battle

Ahh haha that is brilliant! I get random hives, especially when I eat processed food and lots of junk food- so we eat pretty healthy. However I think I could do better at making sure there is a PLETHORA of fruits veggies for snacks and making that abundant. If you hadn't said that I don't think it would have clicked to make sure I really go overboard on the fruits and veggies when we grocery shop (today!)... thanks!!!!

Haha I'm laughing reading your post but also guilty about being sneaky

Any test updates mrsb and swimming??

I haven't tested yet, still holding out for wednesday I think, if not tomorrow at the earliest. How are you Raghinald? When's your next step? How are you feeling?

Swimming i've been thinking about you this weekend, hoping AF has stayed away! Any updates???

Had the worst dream this morninng, I would say it was pretty vivid as I can remember particularly the feeling of my teeth falling out one by one (these are always the worst dreams for me) and it was a dream within a dream and just felt so real, I want to say more so than others that i've had.

I've been spitting quite a bit, and that's pretty normal a few days before my period, but i am wondering if it is spotting at all or is it discharge? Sorry for the over share, but it's thick and dark brown, and when reading about spotting during pregnancy they usually sound like it's more watery and very light. Not sure what to think about that or if anyone experiences similar spotting.

My breasts have been sore, more sore than typical I think and I've been getting waves of nausea throughout the day for 3 days now. Hoping these are good signs!

What are your thoughts on prenatal vitamins? I've been terribly forgetful with taking mine, especially as they are gentle on the stomach but still seem to make me nauseous in the morning, and by dinner time i forget to take them.

 

[mrsbertrand]

mnelson bringing in the positivity - I like it.

I found an article saying physical activity helps with sperm morphology. 4 years ago my husband and I were dating and he was pretty active. I've been meaning to mention it to him, but he is so busy with work (he's still not home on a friday night and its 6pm!) I don't want to stress him out with ANOTHER change for him to make.

This sure is a hard journey to travel.

I hear ya swimming... We didn't have any tests until this year since we were technically still below the "danger" age and asked to keep trying naturally. But last year my husband quit smoking, started gym and running after almost 12 years.. I think that definitely helped even though I have no pre tests to confirm. Even though you can't push your dh, I completely understand that, can there be other ways to nudge? Like group sports? And also 2 years ago I took charge of the shopping and slowly stopped bringing junk food into the house. Haha hope you don't have to be as sneaky as me.. I still feel guilty at times but still if it helps these are all just small steps in this very uphill confusing infertility battle

Ahh haha that is brilliant! I get random hives, especially when I eat processed food and lots of junk food- so we eat pretty healthy. However I think I could do better at making sure there is a PLETHORA of fruits veggies for snacks and making that abundant. If you hadn't said that I don't think it would have clicked to make sure I really go overboard on the fruits and veggies when we grocery shop (today!)... thanks!!!!

Haha I'm laughing reading your post but also guilty about being sneaky

Any test updates mrsb and swimming??

I haven't tested yet, still holding out for wednesday I think, if not tomorrow at the earliest. How are you Raghinald? When's your next step? How are you feeling?

Swimming i've been thinking about you this weekend, hoping AF has stayed away! Any updates???

Had the worst dream this morninng, I would say it was pretty vivid as I can remember particularly the feeling of my teeth falling out one by one (these are always the worst dreams for me) and it was a dream within a dream and just felt so real, I want to say more so than others that i've had.

My breasts have been sore, more sore than typical I think and I've been getting waves of nausea throughout the day for 3 days now. Hoping these are good signs!

What are your thoughts on prenatal vitamins? I've been terribly forgetful with taking mine, especially as they are gentle on the stomach but still seem to make me nauseous in the morning, and by dinner time i forget to take them.

 

[mrsbertrand]

mnelson bringing in the positivity - I like it.

I found an article saying physical activity helps with sperm morphology. 4 years ago my husband and I were dating and he was pretty active. I've been meaning to mention it to him, but he is so busy with work (he's still not home on a friday night and its 6pm!) I don't want to stress him out with ANOTHER change for him to make.

This sure is a hard journey to travel.

I hear ya swimming... We didn't have any tests until this year since we were technically still below the "danger" age and asked to keep trying naturally. But last year my husband quit smoking, started gym and running after almost 12 years.. I think that definitely helped even though I have no pre tests to confirm. Even though you can't push your dh, I completely understand that, can there be other ways to nudge? Like group sports? And also 2 years ago I took charge of the shopping and slowly stopped bringing junk food into the house. Haha hope you don't have to be as sneaky as me.. I still feel guilty at times but still if it helps these are all just small steps in this very uphill confusing infertility battle

Ahh haha that is brilliant! I get random hives, especially when I eat processed food and lots of junk food- so we eat pretty healthy. However I think I could do better at making sure there is a PLETHORA of fruits veggies for snacks and making that abundant. If you hadn't said that I don't think it would have clicked to make sure I really go overboard on the fruits and veggies when we grocery shop (today!)... thanks!!!!

Haha I'm laughing reading your post but also guilty about being sneaky

Any test updates mrsb and swimming??

I haven't tested yet, still holding out for wednesday I think, if not tomorrow at the earliest. How are you Raghinald? When's your next step? How are you feeling?

Swimming i've been thinking about you this weekend, hoping AF has stayed away! Any updates???

Had the worst dream this morninng, I would say it was pretty vivid as I can remember particularly the feeling of my teeth falling out one by one (these are always the worst dreams for me) and it was a dream within a dream and just felt so real, I want to say more so than others that i've had.

My breasts have been sore, more sore than typical I think and I've been getting waves of nausea throughout the day for 3 days now. Hoping these are good signs!

What are your thoughts on prenatal vitamins? I've been terribly forgetful with taking mine, especially as they are gentle on the stomach but still seem to make me nauseous in the morning, and by dinner time i forget to take them.

 

[Swimming]

mrsbertrand I hope those are good signs for you! It sounds good to me!!! I wish you'd test sooner because I am dying to know, but understand holding out hahaha

I take best nest wellness prenatal, with the folate instead of folic acid. I have to take mine at dinner even though they are gentle, so I can sleep through any negative side effects.

I got my period today (some months I cramp and spot before my first day of 'full flow', this is that day). I think I actually timed my IUI too early last month, so I am trying to have a good attitude and have a better plan going forward next month.

My husband and I were talking, and we really don't think we will have success until I do injections and release like 3/4 eggs at once, because we need more surface area for his sperm (in our nonmedical opinion). But I think we need to do one more round of femara just to appease our RE.

This whole ordeal is stressful because life event planning. Like if we need IVF we will be going out of state (I'll stay with my brother for 2-3 weeks), so It's like I can't get a job if I know I may be going out of state in 6 months. But then again, 6 months is a lot time to go without a job. rambling. ugh. Just need to stay positive and take one step at a time!

 

[mrsbertrand]

mrsbertrand I hope those are good signs for you! It sounds good to me!!! I wish you'd test sooner because I am dying to know, but understand holding out hahaha

I take best nest wellness prenatal, with the folate instead of folic acid. I have to take mine at dinner even though they are gentle, so I can sleep through any negative side effects.

I got my period today (some months I cramp and spot before my first day of 'full flow', this is that day). I think I actually timed my IUI too early last month, so I am trying to have a good attitude and have a better plan going forward next month.

My husband and I were talking, and we really don't think we will have success until I do injections and release like 3/4 eggs at once, because we need more surface area for his sperm (in our nonmedical opinion). But I think we need to do one more round of femara just to appease our RE.

This whole ordeal is stressful because life event planning. Like if we need IVF we will be going out of state (I'll stay with my brother for 2-3 weeks), so It's like I can't get a job if I know I may be going out of state in 6 months. But then again, 6 months is a lot time to go without a job. rambling. ugh. Just need to stay positive and take one step at a time!

So sorry about AF Swimming. It is such a complicated process, and I understand the stress. I can't imagine going out of state, and I get what your saying about the job. Depending on what you find, do you think an employer might be understanding of the circumstance?

(hugs)

 

[Ragnhild]

So sorry swimming... Ive felt the absolute devastation and heartbreak that comes with each AF.. Try to treat yourself and focus on this cycle. Fx it works for you this cycle and there is no more endless waiting and planning without knowing. I know how it can be.. I never knew just how much to commit to what expecting a little miracle that never came. Agree with mrsb... Is it possible to get a job and then when you need to travel explain the situation to your employer? Plus if youre looking for a research based job many allow tele-working nowadays since it saves them money too.
Btw im not sure about your diagnosis but we even did home insem this month coz of the long ride to the clinic and the option of having only one Iui. Even if its not possible in your case trust me things will all work out, just dont lose hope and patience. These threads are to vent and ramble so go ahead... You need all your positive energy and strength for each cycle. I write this after a 4.5 year battle, two of which were spent saving money since only one of us was earning at the time. And going out of the country for the procedure. It seems endless but your bfp and lo will come keep that faith. and prayers.

Mrsb: your symptoms do sound great please keep us posted when you test!!

Fx and for you both...

 

[Swimming]

You guys are the best, really lifted up my spirits coming back to this thread today!!

With the job, I doubt an employer would take a recent grad with no experience who is doing fertility because I'll have to leave for maternity leave anyway, ya know? it's all complicated. I also don't know how much I'll be able to work THROUGH pregnancy. I tend to be a little bit of a wimp hahahaha. I'm hoping I can find something part time, which I may have an opportunity to get some info on this week.

I'll be following for mrsb's story! I hope wednesday brings tons of good news!!!

 

[arcticfox]

hello ladies! I'm currently at 8dpiui today (9dpt), IUI #2 on Jan 21st. I hope you're all doing good and hope we all get our bfps soon..

 

[Swimming]

hello ladies! I'm currently at 8dpiui today (9dpt), IUI #2 on Jan 21st. I hope you're all doing good and hope we all get our bfps soon..

Hi articfox!!!

When are you testing?

 

[arcticfox]

hello ladies! I'm currently at 8dpiui today (9dpt), IUI #2 on Jan 21st. I hope you're all doing good and hope we all get our bfps soon..

Hi articfox!!!

When are you testing?

Hello Swimming!!!
I've been testing the trigger since 2dpiui. Beta is set on the 4th but will go on 6th of Feb instead. Lab is close on weekends where I live.

Previous IUI (Oct '16) was a bfn and didn't test the trigger so no idea how many dpiui's before trigger is out.

 

[mrsbertrand]

hello ladies! I'm currently at 8dpiui today (9dpt), IUI #2 on Jan 21st. I hope you're all doing good and hope we all get our bfps soon..

Swimming, I have the same thought about myself, I've always been a total wimp when it comes to nausea and other illness, and (if I am pregnant) so far the nausea I've experienced has been super mild, so who knows!

Do you have to tell an employer about your testing, or could you just say you have a vacation already paid for, or something along those lines? Not sure how it works where you are, but I see how it might seem like the odds are against you. I hope February will be your month *fx*

Welcome Arctic! FX for your BFP! I have found that after taking a test on 8dpiui, it;s been easier to wait to test, now that I don't have any in the house! I might decide to test tomorrow, but my Ovia app says my expected period is Feb 4th, according to a 34 day cycle. I find it much easier when I am at work and keeping busy, but am off today and tomorrow which will make for long days!

MsNelson, how are you?

Raghinald, when is week 8? Will that be your first ultrasound?

So glad to have you all on this journey with me, though wishing this was all of our first cycle with definite BFPs. Xoxo

 

[Ragnhild]

hello ladies! I'm currently at 8dpiui today (9dpt), IUI #2 on Jan 21st. I hope you're all doing good and hope we all get our bfps soon..

Swimming, I have the same thought about myself, I've always been a total wimp when it comes to nausea and other illness, and (if I am pregnant) so far the nausea I've experienced has been super mild, so who knows!

Do you have to tell an employer about your testing, or could you just say you have a vacation already paid for, or something along those lines? Not sure how it works where you are, but I see how it might seem like the odds are against you. I hope February will be your month *fx*

Welcome Arctic! FX for your BFP! I have found that after taking a test on 8dpiui, it;s been easier to wait to test, now that I don't have any in the house! I might decide to test tomorrow, but my Ovia app says my expected period is Feb 4th, according to a 34 day cycle. I find it much easier when I am at work and keeping busy, but am off today and tomorrow which will make for long days!

MsNelson, how are you?

Raghinald, when is week 8? Will that be your first ultrasound?

So glad to have you all on this journey with me, though wishing this was all of our first cycle with definite BFPs. Xoxo

Welcome arcticfox! Hope this is your cycle!

Swimming: hope something works out on the work front.. It's tough to manage with one income. But I also get your reservations and how it might not sound like the best prospect for a potential employer. Part time sounds like a good option and hope you find something soon.

Mrsb: what dpiui will you be tomorrow? And I totally hear ya... haha I even worked weekends during tww to keep myself occupied but still couldn't stop myself from reading into every sign and twitch lol. My first appointment is 8th feb but it's only tests. Scan won't happen before week 10 or 12 depending on which clinic I decide upon.

 

[mrsbertrand]

Raghinald, today is 12 dpiui (first insem) and 11 past second insem. Heading to the price club this afternoon and might pick up a HPT. I dreamt that I POAS and got a positive, but when I went to get my husband and came back it was negative. A strange dream to have indeed, perhaps a sign of my internal struggle about testing too early??

haha, who knows.

 

[arcticfox]

thanks for the warm welcome ladies. POAS this morning and I still see a faint line. Hard not too obsess and symptom spot these past few days. I'm so looking forward to go back to work on Thursday.

Good luck Swimming, part time or casual are good. I also hope you find something soon.

Congratulations Ragnhild! Have a Happy and Healthy 9 months.

 

[arcticfox]

Raghinald, today is 12 dpiui (first insem) and 11 past second insem. Heading to the price club this afternoon and might pick up a HPT. I dreamt that I POAS and got a positive, but when I went to get my husband and came back it was negative. A strange dream to have indeed, perhaps a sign of my internal struggle about testing too early??

haha, who knows.

Fingers and toes crossed for your bfp!!!

 

[Swimming]

Oh my goodness, I'm glad articfox joined because the hope goes on for mrsbertrand and articfox!!! Fingers toes arms and legs crossed

mrsbertrand I think that dream sounds promising - when I was in my TWW I had a dream the air conditioner was leaking, and when I went to get my husband it magically fixed itself. Since yours included a pregnancy test... I say GOOD SIGN! haha

Everyone- I have called my clinic and they agreed to do injections this cycle instead of femara. May be way more expensive, but both my husband and I were hopeless about February because we "know" we wont get pregnant unless we have a bunch of eggs to make up for his abnormal sperm. hahaha. This is a huge step for me, usually I like to not cause waves or go against the grain, so this is actually a personal accomplishment that I'm trying something out of my comfort zone so quickly LOL

Please let me see some BFPs !!!!!!!!!!!

I am talking to a prospective part time employer Wednesday, which I am optimistic about!

I officially love this thread.

mrsbertrand, I hope you pick up a test..... but no pressure hahaha

 

[Ragnhild]

Oh my goodness, I'm glad articfox joined because the hope goes on for mrsbertrand and articfox!!! Fingers toes arms and legs crossed

mrsbertrand I think that dream sounds promising - when I was in my TWW I had a dream the air conditioner was leaking, and when I went to get my husband it magically fixed itself. Since yours included a pregnancy test... I say GOOD SIGN! haha

Everyone- I have called my clinic and they agreed to do injections this cycle instead of femara. May be way more expensive, but both my husband and I were hopeless about February because we "know" we wont get pregnant unless we have a bunch of eggs to make up for his abnormal sperm. hahaha. This is a huge step for me, usually I like to not cause waves or go against the grain, so this is actually a personal accomplishment that I'm trying something out of my comfort zone so quickly LOL

Please let me see some BFPs !!!!!!!!!!!

I am talking to a prospective part time employer Wednesday, which I am optimistic about!

I officially love this thread.

mrsbertrand, I hope you pick up a test..... but no pressure hahaha

Wow swimming... lots of positive steps for you... fx you also get the BIG positive this cycle itself !!!!!

mrsb: i had crazy dreams all about poas, baby bumps, and bfp announcements this month... wow so excited really praying you have your bfp!!

arcticfox: thanks! and i can totally imagine... each tww is still crazy no matter how many you've been through Hope that line turns into something real and we are soon cheering 4 bfps on this thread

 

[mnelson815]

thanks for the warm welcome ladies. POAS this morning and I still see a faint line. Hard not too obsess and symptom spot these past few days. I'm so looking forward to go back to work on Thursday.

Good luck Swimming, part time or casual are good. I also hope you find something soon.

Congratulations Ragnhild! Have a Happy and Healthy 9 months.

Oooo This is so exciting! How many days past trigger are you??

Still holding out lots of hope for you as well MrsB! If another one of you ladies gets a BFP I think I might just give IUI a shot or two!!

Swimming - Good for you! I am happy you are advocating for what will make you feel most comfortable! Do you know what your med costs will be? I did quick numbers with our clinic and a regular IUI is around $400, $600 with monitoring and a trigger, and around $2,000-2,500 for injectables! I am so nervous about which way to go!