Animalcracker
)) I'm so happy for you. It's wonderful news, congratulations. Some of us here already graduated to 35+ graduates thread
Maybe you migh want to join too. Good luck with pregnanacy and I hope you would have a healthy sticky bean that would stay for 9 months and come out as a beautiful baby
https://www.babyandbump.com/pregnancy-groups/495635-35-ttc-1st-graduates-come-over.html
Butterfly
It's probobly a good idea just to see the dr and get all your levels checked out just to be on the safe side.
)) Good luck, I hope you won't need any treatment and have a baby without a sweat.
Tigerlily, brace yourself for annoying comments of people knowing or not knowing your situation.
Better close your ears and avoid it. Good luck with the appointment. Hope all is well and you won't have to TTc for long
Fallenambers hope you are having a great weekend and lot's of fun in the wedding.
Missy
The mountain cabin will be a perfect getaway for you. Hope you will have a great time. As for MIL I might sound a bit synical but my honest advice is let it go. Don't you worry at all cause if they upset you they are better off away than near. When I first married I used to invite my FIL to stay with us a lot. Than I would take him to concerts, museums, spend loads of time with him and be very very welcome. A friend of mine said one day "Why are you doing all this. This guy is going to create trouble and you will have a headache" I said "Don't say that, he is DH's dad after all" But guess what the nicer I was to him the more he started planting stupid thoughts in DH's brain about me. He started completely undermining me and demanding to come in and out of the house without my consent. In the end we had a bust up after he and SIL fabricated a horrible lie about me "That I wanna make kids with DH and run away with all his money" as if I'm a gold digger and he is prince William, which is ridiculous. In the end he wasn't allowed in for a while and I went cold for a year. Than he learned how to behave. Now we have a good relationship. He comes and stays, and I still entertain him but I don't get out of my way to do anything extravagant as I used to. And if I don't want sthg I just simply say "NO"
You are a very giving and caring person. Cause you care about SS and MIL, SIL, FIL etc but first you must make sure that they actually respect and appreciate your efforts. Otherwise people are people the more you give the more they would take without caring if you have the energy. This is not being selfish or mean. I just found out through experience that it's better to draw a line with everyone and not let them cross it. Otherwise it's so easy to get unappreciated and be used which is hurtful.
This attitude actually improved my relationship with DH too. We both finally realised that we are central to this relationship and stopped letting other people poke their noses into our little union.
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Newmarriedgirl hope you feel better soon and all is well with your LO. When is your next appointment?
Chris yipeee the new tent
Have fun this weekend baby.
good luck all Whatever wagon's girls
Or should we say "Whatever tent"?
Dwrgi you hopped on the whatever's thing as well
)) hahahahahha
Macwooly
Use your good realtions and ask her to help around in the house more
). Favours here and there. Looking after fur babies when you are on holiday, hanging the laundry, doing the dishes etc... C if she still wants to get that involved
hahaahahaa
Honestly girls I'm not mean but it took me a long time to say enough is enough
Wohooo Lavaaaaa, how about a Whatever's Basket
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AFM I'm good, just eating loads and sleeping loads. I get extremely exhausted out of nowhere if I overexert myself. I guess I need to adjust to this new situation. But luckily a nice long nap works wonders. Bit fed up with still using so much medication. I have a purple smiley from all the injection bruises under my belly button.
Just found out that some women use this injection untill 6 months. It's really expensive as well and my GP refused to pay for it. They are so cheeky. In fact with all the cuts in the UK the councils have become even more ignorant towards the fertility issues. I will have my first NHS appointment after 12 weeks. In the mean time if anything happens they don't care.