TTC 1st child 35+ (Please spoiler any PG news/announcements).

Wow Lava EXCITING!!!! :happydance: :happydance: :happydance: :happydance:

And surely if there are 2 then they are always going to be smaller than 1 anyway and less developed so maybe will take longer to see the heartbeat etc?
 
Wowww Lava it is twins indeed :))) yeeeeaaaaahaaaaw :))) I knew it would be twins :headspin::headspin::juggle::juggle::juggle::wohoo::wohoo::wohoo::rain::rain::rain::holly::holly::holly::yipee::yipee::yipee:


Hahahahaha!!! well done baby. You don't normally see a baby in 5 weeks so don't you worry. My early scan at 5 weeks just showed sac too. They just do it to make sure the sac is not in the tubes. You can see heartbeat and baby perhaps after 6 weeks. I'm so happy for you :)) See you were worrying about your old eggs and now you have two beanies in there. Isn't that a miracle :)))

I also want to congratulate Newmarried girl. Well done hon. Congratulations to both DH and you. Hope you have a great 9 months
 
Lava - congratulations :) Please try not to worry as everything I read says heartbeat is first detected between 6-8 weeks :thumbup: Praying your pregnancy continues from strength to strength x
 
:happydance:Oh my!! Lava - congratulations!!! Im so happy and excited for you and your husband:happydance:
:hugs::dance::dance::yipee:
 
Thanks everyone for your outpouring of love & support. I wish that I could feel as confident as y'all, but at only 1 day shy of 6 weeks yesterday, not seeing our babies yet (even without the HB) feels like bad news is ahead. I spent the night crying. I finally fell asleep praying to God & saying over & over in my head: Grow, Miracle Babies, Grow!
 
Lava :hugs: Praying that you are listened to and that you beanies grow and flourish :hugs:
 
Newmarriedgal~Congratulations! What wonderful news! Enjoy the moment!!

lavalux~ Twins! Awwwww! :wohoo:I LOVED being pregnant with twins. It is such an amazing experience. Stay positive, don't worry so much! Its a different pregnancy with twins. Everything will be alright~ Hang in there little beans :) Congratulations xoxoxo

Good Morning to everyone else! Leaving for Washington, D.C. this morning. We'll be back on Sunday. We have a wedding to attend on Saturday.

All of you have a fun & relaxed weekend~

See you when I come back!

FE
 
Tigerlily, I know how you feel about those things not bothering you before. I was the same way. Now the slightest news about babies or pregnancies tears at my heart. So glad you got an appointment to start all the testing. You will feel better after. Its a good start on the TTC journey. :thumbup:

Northstar, I was the same way. I felt like I could finally breath when me and the dogs left my ex. :happydance:

Lava, you hit the jackpot!!! Please try not to worry yourself to death. Like Skye said, you don't have to see the heartbeat just yet. :hugs:

AFM, I'm just waiting to Ov. DH and I are going away to the mountain cabin this weekend so I'm excited about that. :happydance: I'm a little annoyed though. My MIL invited herself down the other night because SS was graduating from 5th grade. She brought SS's favorite cousin with her. Well after work yesterday I found out she decided to stay an extra night and little cousin slept the night with SS at DH's ex's house. I'm annoyed because this past weekend MIL and FIL were supposed to come down here to meet my parents (they hadn't met yet). MIL cancelled last minute because she said she was sick. Well yesterday MIL spent the whole day with DH's ex and her family. :growlmad: It just makes me feel bad because she didn't come down to meet my parents but she came down here for a 20 minute ceremony that DH and I didn't even go to and then hangs out with DH's ex and her family the whole rest of the day. This is one of those examples where I don't rate as high as DH's ex because I didn't bear her a grandchild. I'm sorry for the whining but I had to get that off my chest. Its just another stab in the heart feeding my insecurities about not being able to have a baby. I guess DH's ex is more of a family member in her mind since she is the mother of her grandchild and I'm just her son's wife.
 
Tigerlily, I know how you feel about those things not bothering you before. I was the same way. Now the slightest news about babies or pregnancies tears at my heart. So glad you got an appointment to start all the testing. You will feel better after. Its a good start on the TTC journey. :thumbup:

Northstar, I was the same way. I felt like I could finally breath when me and the dogs left my ex. :happydance:

Lava, you hit the jackpot!!! Please try not to worry yourself to death. Like Skye said, you don't have to see the heartbeat just yet. :hugs:

AFM, I'm just waiting to Ov. DH and I are going away to the mountain cabin this weekend so I'm excited about that. :happydance: I'm a little annoyed though. My MIL invited herself down the other night because SS was graduating from 5th grade. She brought SS's favorite cousin with her. Well after work yesterday I found out she decided to stay an extra night and little cousin slept the night with SS at DH's ex's house. I'm annoyed because this past weekend MIL and FIL were supposed to come down here to meet my parents (they hadn't met yet). MIL cancelled last minute because she said she was sick. Well yesterday MIL spent the whole day with DH's ex and her family. :growlmad: It just makes me feel bad because she didn't come down to meet my parents but she came down here for a 20 minute ceremony that DH and I didn't even go to and then hangs out with DH's ex and her family the whole rest of the day. This is one of those examples where I don't rate as high as DH's ex because I didn't bear her a grandchild. I'm sorry for the whining but I had to get that off my chest. Its just another stab in the heart feeding my insecurities about not being able to have a baby. I guess DH's ex is more of a family member in her mind since she is the mother of her grandchild and I'm just her son's wife.

Awww honey your not whinning, you have every right to be mad, that is just so not fair, i am praying that you have a whole bunch of babies, and then you tell MIL oh sorry we are busy, go by her house!! Chin up honey, your day is comming very soon!! :hugs:
 
Thanks everyone for your outpouring of love & support. I wish that I could feel as confident as y'all, but at only 1 day shy of 6 weeks yesterday, not seeing our babies yet (even without the HB) feels like bad news is ahead. I spent the night crying. I finally fell asleep praying to God & saying over & over in my head: Grow, Miracle Babies, Grow!

oh Lava - I'm so happy for you with the multiples but I totally understand how you are feeling.....you just want to see them or hear the HB just to give you a sense of peace. :hugs::hugs::hugs: The hormones are making me cry at the drop of a hat so I spent some time crying and praying for you that all will continue to be good. I'm sure everything is just dandy, as FE says it is different with twins so try to keep heart and know they are just snuggling into you and getting bigger and stronger every hour! My continued prayers are with you.

as for me - I spiked a temp to 101 yesterday and scared myself over reading issues that can come up with fevers and pregnancy so i just went to the Urgent Care last night - seems I have a sinus infection. I am on amoxicillian, which I know is ok during pregnancy but they also gave me flonase which I am unsure about. Hubby Charlie says if I am uncomfortable with taking it, then don't, I should go with my gut but I just think I'm scared to put anything extra in me if I don't really need it! ugh!

Morning to everyone else - hope you all have a wonderful day! :flower::flower:
 
Good morning ladies!!! Congrats to all the ladies with bfp's how exciting, with all this baby dust in here i just know we will be seeing more bfp's real soon. Yea its TGIF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We got our new tent set up in the backyard last night, its perfect, we are going to have so much fun camping with it!! And yes tonight we are going to "Check it out" :blush: he he he. OK ladies i am driving around with the "Whatevers" wagon, hop on with me and lets all have some TGIF fun!!!!:happydance:
 
OMM I'll join you as I really don't know what it is with me the last 2-3 days but I really am in a "whatever will be will be" mood at the moment :)
 
I must admit I have talked DH into putting the tent up in the garden "just to check it doesn't leak" before he goes camping with the lads next weekend :winkwink: Bless him he was prepared to cancel as he thought it may be my fertile time but told him that it should be before he goes :)
 
Tigerlily, I know how you feel about those things not bothering you before. I was the same way. Now the slightest news about babies or pregnancies tears at my heart. So glad you got an appointment to start all the testing. You will feel better after. Its a good start on the TTC journey. :thumbup:

Northstar, I was the same way. I felt like I could finally breath when me and the dogs left my ex. :happydance:

Lava, you hit the jackpot!!! Please try not to worry yourself to death. Like Skye said, you don't have to see the heartbeat just yet. :hugs:

AFM, I'm just waiting to Ov. DH and I are going away to the mountain cabin this weekend so I'm excited about that. :happydance: I'm a little annoyed though. My MIL invited herself down the other night because SS was graduating from 5th grade. She brought SS's favorite cousin with her. Well after work yesterday I found out she decided to stay an extra night and little cousin slept the night with SS at DH's ex's house. I'm annoyed because this past weekend MIL and FIL were supposed to come down here to meet my parents (they hadn't met yet). MIL cancelled last minute because she said she was sick. Well yesterday MIL spent the whole day with DH's ex and her family. :growlmad: It just makes me feel bad because she didn't come down to meet my parents but she came down here for a 20 minute ceremony that DH and I didn't even go to and then hangs out with DH's ex and her family the whole rest of the day. This is one of those examples where I don't rate as high as DH's ex because I didn't bear her a grandchild. I'm sorry for the whining but I had to get that off my chest. Its just another stab in the heart feeding my insecurities about not being able to have a baby. I guess DH's ex is more of a family member in her mind since she is the mother of her grandchild and I'm just her son's wife.

Hi Missy

So sorry to read your post about your MIL and FIL. It just seems to me that they have an absolute cheek to cry off at the last minute claiming to be sick, and then spending time with DH's ex. THey are treading a very slippery slope as your DH has chosen to be with you, not his ex, and they need to respect that if they want their son's respect. Faimiles work in strange ways. This incident just shows your MIL and FIL's lack of integrity, and is in no way a reflection on you, just their bad manners. Bloody nerve of it. They'll regret it when you bear your own child and realise how dismissive they once were.

Have fun in the cabin-what a romantic thought! Let's hope that being away will help you both relax and cause some very magical :dust::dust::dust:

Have fun hun, and forget about the insensitive in laws!

Big hugs to you, and fingers crossed for a BF You Know What!!! xx
:hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs:
 
Good morning ladies!!! Congrats to all the ladies with bfp's how exciting, with all this baby dust in here i just know we will be seeing more bfp's real soon. Yea its TGIF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We got our new tent set up in the backyard last night, its perfect, we are going to have so much fun camping with it!! And yes tonight we are going to "Check it out" :blush: he he he. OK ladies i am driving around with the "Whatevers" wagon, hop on with me and lets all have some TGIF fun!!!!:happydance:

OOh la la OMM!! You have yourself some fun tonight under the stars!!!

Will be thinking of you!!

Whatever whatever whatever!!! Yay-let's go!

I hear there's a good bar in Whatevere's Ville!! Mine's a cocktail!!

Enjoy your weekend, love
A
xxxx
:happydance::happydance::happydance::happydance::happydance:
 
Missyt - your MIL is actually just plain rude, there's no excuse for such blatant bad manners, it's definitely not you that's the problem it's HER.

She is shooting herself in the foot, as Dwrgi says, as your OH has chosen to make a life with you, so she is forfeiting time with her own son, and as hard as it may be for you to grit your teeth and say nothing, ultimately your husband will see this.
 
Missyt I feel for you :hugs: My ex husband's mother was like that with me and used to ignore me in favour of the mother of her grandchild (my ex hubby's ex) :nope: She should treat you better as Dwrgi is right your DH has made his choice and it is you :hugs:
 
I must admit I have talked DH into putting the tent up in the garden "just to check it doesn't leak" before he goes camping with the lads next weekend :winkwink: Bless him he was prepared to cancel as he thought it may be my fertile time but told him that it should be before he goes :)

Oh too funny!!!! Whoo hoo for tent fun lol :happydance: and so sweet of him to consider cancelling his trip if it was your O time, now thats a wonderful DH!!
 

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