TTC 1st child 35+ (Please spoiler any PG news/announcements).

Missyt, you were brave & right to leave your ex. Finding your DH should be proof that God wants to bless you, not punish. You will have your little one to hold!

newmarriedgal ... how did I miss that you are pg!? That is wonderful news! Congrats. I knew yu were having lots of symptoms. Hope that cold goes away & keep us posted on your rising numbers!

Welcome, Fallen Ambers. So sorry for your loss. Wishing you a sticky bean very soon!

Lava - the receptionist at the doctors said I was probably just "5 minutes pregnant!" :lol:

Northstar - sending lots of positive thoughts and :hugs::hugs::hugs:

The dr's also said I can't really take anything yet for the cold - my little poppyseed can't handle anything yet! So lots of water, rest, tea and wait it out. Thankfully I have all you lovely ladies to read about!
 
Newmarriedgal - Congrats, that's fab news :happydance:, so happy for you. Can't wait to see those numbers rise even more.
 
Hello darling ladies - just wanted to pop in & give you all big cuddles - the sad, the happy & the hopeful!!!

I'm off on my hols for 10 days in 2 hours, so I'm hoping for lots more BFPs when I get back.

Love to you all xxx
 
Go out for lunch for a few hours and there are 3 pages to catch up on :)

So....


@padbrat - glad you have made appointments :hugs:

@lava - no we don't live in the same city, in fact for most of the year we don't live in the same country lol! I am supposed to be going back abroad in September but I will wait and see what happens.
Really look forward to hearing about your scan, fingers crossed for you, am sure it will be great :)

@macwooly - will look forward to hearing what they say at your appointment and hope they can move things forward for you

@MissyT I don't think you should even have any second thoughts about not having children with the abusive ex, you definitely made the right choice :)

@skye I think if I get a BFN this month I will go and see the doc to see if they can do some tests. I was actually thinking about looking into IUI today in case that might give me a better chance. Haven't broached any testing with BF yet - he has a child from a previous relationship but that was over 10 years ago, although he does and has always taken his vits so I'm hopeful he is in good shape :)

Welcome Fallen Ambers, so sorry for the loss of your twins and hope that you get a BFP soon :hugs:

@NMG - the numbers are up, that is great news, but yes I can imagine you are getting really impatient waiting!

@Twinkle - have a great hol :wave:

and to everyone else :hugs: :hugs: and hope I haven't missed anyone!
 
Hello ladies!

My goodness, it's been a really long time since I visited this website! How many of my over 35+ friends are still here? :)

Those of you I have not met yet - hello! I just found out I am pregnant again (I am 39 years old) and of course I am terrified after suffering a MMC last year. (This will be my first child and I am praying nothing goes wrong this time).

After the mc last year, it was easier on me to stay away from anything baby related, hence my disappearance. I went through a pretty bad time getting over it and it's taken us 9 months to conceive again!

I hope everyone is doing well!!!
 
Hi Ladies!

Been out with a bad cold, no fun! but I've had enough decaf tea float a ship and am laying on the couch watching lifetime in my pjs! Hubby left enough water, crackers and tissues around me and is coming home for lunch to visit.
I had my second blood test yesterday to see if my hcg levels went up (they were 122 Monday) and while they more than tripled to 426, it's still too low for me to even come in for the first appointment! She said wait until Monday or Wed next week to get it into the 20,000s but it may take longer than that! While I'm not freaking out, I and not liking the waiting! :nope::growlmad:

Hi Fallen Ambers :hi: welcome!

Padbrat - even though I am very new here, I have read your other posts and you have been in my thoughts and prayers daily. Wishing you strength and peace!

missyt - I am grateful you are now out of that bad relationship and into a healthy and loving one! Onmymind is right - he would have just transferred the beatings to children or even you. It takes a strong woman to leave, remember that!

Hi to everyone else this morning, hope you are all doing well!

Yea for the numbers tripling, that is great news, i know the wait is hard, but it will be so worth it!!!
 
Hello ladies!

My goodness, it's been a really long time since I visited this website! How many of my over 35+ friends are still here? :)

Those of you I have not met yet - hello! I just found out I am pregnant again (I am 39 years old) and of course I am terrified after suffering a MMC last year. (This will be my first child and I am praying nothing goes wrong this time).

After the mc last year, it was easier on me to stay away from anything baby related, hence my disappearance. I went through a pretty bad time getting over it and it's taken us 9 months to conceive again!

I hope everyone is doing well!!!

Hi and welcome back, i am one of the new ones here. Prayers are going up that this little one sticks for you!!
 
Hi animal cracker - welcome back and sending you :dust: for a sticky bean

Twinkle - have a lovely relaxing and recharging holiday!! :icecream:
 
Newmarriedgal, what great news! I didn't even realize you were pg. I knew you were having symptoms but didn't know for sure. Keep taking care of yourself.

Animalcrackers, congrats! FX'd that you have a healthy baby!
 
Hello everyone, hope you're all fine and dandy. :flower:

HA: Good luck with the cycle, fingers crossed this is the one.

FM: Hello! Glad you had a great time in San Franciso (would love to go there oneday!). I'm sure the break will do you the World of good.

Dwrgi: Many thanks! Good luck with the IVF, I'm keeping everything crossed for you.

OMM: Looove the 'Whatevers' wagon.. is there room for one more?!

Skye: Thank you for the welcome and the advice. I'm hoping to have a consultation with the acupuncturist week after next. Even if it helps me to relax (which I could use even if I wasn't TTC!), I'll be happy. Hope you and the little bean are both well.

Purple: Good luck with this cycle. My husband is also younger than me (I'm 36, he's 29) and he's the positive one, too!

Butterfly: Good luck, I think it's wonderful that you and your ex want to love and raise a child together.

NorthStar: I'm glad that after such dark days, you are now with such a good man. I hope you get that BFP, soon.

Padbrat: I know you don't know me, but I'm thinking of you and whatever you decide to do next, we will all be here, supporting you along the way.

Lynnb: Congratulations! I hope you and little 'bean' are doing well.

NSN: Hope I can join you on the 'whatever' wagon?!

Lavalux: Wow, 1st scan! Good luck!

Macwooly: Good luck with the appointment, let us know how it goes.

Ambers: I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, I can't even begin to imagine what you've been through. Good luck with your appointment on the 13th.

Missyt: I can't believe how cruel some people are, but thank goodness you're all okay. I'm sure it will be your turn soon.

NewMarriedGal: Congratulations! The numbers sound very good. Get well soon!

Twinkle: Have a fab holiday!

AnimalCracker: Congratulations, I'm keeping everything crossed for you.

Hello to everyone else, I'm sending you all big :hug:

AFM: I had a bit of a low day on Tuesday. Colleague was nattering away about his pregnant wife and he was all excited about about the baby. It's amazing how this never used to bother me. On the positive, we've now booked in to see the GP on the 28th, so let the testing begin!

Apologies for the monster message! As always, I send each and everyone of you lots of luck and :dust:

C xx
 
Thanks tigerlily1975, nowadays life is pretty good, I guess a baby would be the cherry on the cake though.

I enjoy life 100% more not having someone constantly dragging me down and making me feel crap about myself. And my dogs get to live indoors and not get shouted at, yeah we're all happier now. :happydance:
 
Ok, y'all. I just got back from the fertility clinic and am still a little numb, and more than a little worried. If you are interested in my appointment, I'm going to do a spoiler post & try to hide it. If you aren't interested, you can just move on to the next post. ;)

They saw TWO gestational sacs with a yolk sac in each. One was a 15 mm gestational sac with a 4 mm yolk sac; the other 13 mm with a yolk sac of 3 mm. No fetal pole or heartbeat was detected. I am 5 weeks 6 days. We will go back next Thursday to see if there has been any development. The doctor did not seem overly concerned about the lack of fetal pole or heartbeat based on my gestational age and said that this was an early scan, but he was cautious. They did not check my HCG or progesterone as my previous numbers looked good and he said that right now, there was no point to stick another needle in me. So, I've search the internet and seen that at 5 1/2 to 6 weeks, it is not uncommon to see no fetal pole. I had prepared myself to not see the heartbeat, but was really expecting to see a baby. DH & I are in shock (omg, possibly twins!) and scared and now can only wait.
 
Ok, y'all. I just got back from the fertility clinic and am still a little numb, and more than a little worried.

OMG Lava!!! - How exciting...and yeah, I'm sure a bit scary but EVERYTHING is going to be just fine. Sending mega :hugs: to you & will keep you and your lovely family:baby::baby: in prayer.
 
Tigerlilly1975 there is plenty of room on the whatevers wagon, i will swing on by and pick you up!!!!
 
Ok, y'all. I just got back from the fertility clinic and am still a little numb, and more than a little worried. If you are interested in my appointment, I'm going to do a spoiler post & try to hide it. If you aren't interested, you can just move on to the next post. ;)

They saw TWO gestational sacs with a yolk sac in each. One was a 15 mm gestational sac with a 4 mm yolk sac; the other 13 mm with a yolk sac of 3 mm. No fetal pole or heartbeat was detected. I am 5 weeks 6 days. We will go back next Thursday to see if there has been any development. The doctor did not seem overly concerned about the lack of fetal pole or heartbeat based on my gestational age and said that this was an early scan, but he was cautious. They did not check my HCG or progesterone as my previous numbers looked good and he said that right now, there was no point to stick another needle in me. So, I've search the internet and seen that at 5 1/2 to 6 weeks, it is not uncommon to see no fetal pole. I had prepared myself to not see the heartbeat, but was really expecting to see a baby. DH & I are in shock (omg, possibly twins!) and scared and now can only wait.

Whoooooo hooooo that is fantastic news, and yes as early as you are it is not uncommon to not see anything, its amazing in one week what you will see!! I am soooooo happy for you!!
 
North Star...Good for you! You turned your life around and I think you are amazing and brave...
 
Ok, y'all. I just got back from the fertility clinic and am still a little numb, and more than a little worried. If you are interested in my appointment, I'm going to do a spoiler post & try to hide it. If you aren't interested, you can just move on to the next post. ;)

They saw TWO gestational sacs with a yolk sac in each. One was a 15 mm gestational sac with a 4 mm yolk sac; the other 13 mm with a yolk sac of 3 mm. No fetal pole or heartbeat was detected. I am 5 weeks 6 days. We will go back next Thursday to see if there has been any development. The doctor did not seem overly concerned about the lack of fetal pole or heartbeat based on my gestational age and said that this was an early scan, but he was cautious. They did not check my HCG or progesterone as my previous numbers looked good and he said that right now, there was no point to stick another needle in me. So, I've search the internet and seen that at 5 1/2 to 6 weeks, it is not uncommon to see no fetal pole. I had prepared myself to not see the heartbeat, but was really expecting to see a baby. DH & I are in shock (omg, possibly twins!) and scared and now can only wait.

Hi Lava

Congratulations on two sacs! How absolutely wonderful. I am so pleased for you. Pleased do not get too concerned about what they said-it is too early to see a heartbeat-this generally happens at 6-8 weeks. Hang on in there hun, and please please don't go ahead of yourself with worry. I know what we are all like, but you must keep positive and strong for the sake of your little beans (plural!!!).

Lots and lots of love to you!
:flower::flower::flower:
 
Omg Lava :wohoo:

So pleased for you and hubby...you'll get to see them both on the next scan, all perfectly normal at this stage him :hugs: awesome news :happydance:

XxX
 

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