TTC 1st child 35+ (Please spoiler any PG news/announcements).

[Dwrgi]

Moon, am very sorry to read your news. Be kind to yourself and take it easy. Big , Axxxx

 

[want2conceive]

sorry to hear moon. our prayers are with you hun.

 

[tigerlily1975]

I'm so very, very sorry, Moon. Sending you HUUUGE

C xx

 

[pbl_ge]

Oh, moon, I'm so sorry to hear that! I'll be thinking of you....

 

[drhouse]

moon hugs hugs hugs.

 

[padbrat]

Moon I am so sorry to hear your news hun. Please make sure you are well taken care of and be very gentle on yourself darling. We are always here to listen, cry with, rant with or anything else you need x

 

[Butterfly67]

Oh moon I am so sorry

 

[padbrat]

Chicken I have to say I have taken breaks of at least 6 months after my losses and it ha done me a power of good... kick back... have a good time and then you will feel ready the month after!

Am loving the RE jokes! Mwhaahha

Green I have been to Penang and Kuala Lumpar.... it was some time ago so thing have probably changed, but I thought it was beautiful there x

Hey Dwrgi... have I told you how happy I am that you are back?

Dash... how are those stimms going hun?

Want... all the best.. will be thinking of you on the 1st!

Lils... where are yooooouuu??

DrH FF says you have OV'd! Here's hoping you caught that eggie!

AFM

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Well I saw my slightly scary Obs and he wants me to stay on meds until 16 wks and then 34 wks... he gave me a quick scan just to check the HB and there it was beating away beautifully! I have had pints of blood taken and then saw the endocrinologist and am back there to decide the level of meds I will be having... but I am chuffed to have passed another mile stone... I am now 12w 1d!!

 

[Butterfly67]

Pad I can't tell you how excited I am too that you are past 12 weeks And that you are being looked after

 

[dashka]

Moon - I am so sorry to hear your news.....

Sending you hugs

 

[Dwrgi]

Pad-

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I completely agree with Butterfly, Pad! Am so chuffed for you-a huge milestone out of the way and things are looking good! Must have been amazing to see that heartbeat! You soooooo deserve it! And thanks for the kind words!

I stayed in KL in the summer of 1999. Loved it. Stayed in a hotel with a bar called The Monkey Bar, on account of all the peanuts everywhere. Lots of smog at times, but loved the people, just so friendly. My (then) BF went out to Tiaman Islands too, and spent a weekend in Singapore, which I adored. I wish you luck, GreenLeaf

 

[padbrat]

Aww thank you Butterfly and Dwrgi xxxx

 

[dashka]

Pad -

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I am sooo glad to hear that the scan went well today and that your doctors are looking after you!!! Yay for 12 weeks and 1 day!

 

[owl35]

moon - oh honey, I'm so very sorry to hear that. Take good care of yourself.

dwrgi - love that joke!

pad -

and to chicken, dash, DrH, lils, butterfly, mirium, green, pbl, tiger, want, kismet, nessaw, ladyH, purps, LaB, grkprn and anybody else I've missed! Have a good week!

 

[Lady H]

Hi Ladies

Pad

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fantastic, I am so happy for you!

AFM

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I called the hospital first thing and just as expected, they had cancelled my scan and rescheduled for 2nd Nov. I'm glad I called them! I'm disappointed not to get to see my bean for the first time and out my mind at rest, but I'm glad the NT test will be at a better date for the best results.

 

[LilSluz]

Oh Moon, honey . I am so very sorry you are experiencing this! Unfortunately, 35+ ladies have to deal with them way more than others, so please know it was nothing you did. If it helps any, about 75-80% of mc issues are due to nonviable egg. It used to give me comfort knowing that (alternatives with unhealthy egg are worse). Please be good to yourself, take a little time off work & get some much needed rest & relaxation, eat junk food or have a . I know it can't begin to replace a loss, but somehow it makes the sadness just a tiny bit better.

 

[LilSluz]

Hi Lovely 35+’rs! Sorry, last week was a work nightmare – 10-12 hr days some days & lots going on at the homestead… Hopefully this week will be better !

Pad –

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yay, happy 12 weeks +1 !!! And thank God your appt went well. I think Padette is a strong lil girl who is staging her own lay-down protest & refuses to leave the snuggly ute! But, you are still suffering from the symptoms, so please just make sure they are monitoring you like hawks! Is this the farthest you’ve made it so far, then?

Dashka – thanks for the update, re: DrS! I was wondering about her! Yay, for Wed – hoping for big beautiful follies, honey! Now when I do my reiki meditations in the morning I’ll send some energy~~~~ to your follies & eggs. So glad you are starting ot get better. And yay for dancing at the concert anyway (or swaying)! And hey, concertcise is a form of exercise, so concert-going can be very healthy! Glad 1st day of stims went somewhat ok (sorta?) – I am getting to your journal next!

Purps – I suppose it’s possible to get addicted to colonics, but somehow I have a feeling that won’t be an addiction I’ll entertain! Na, that’s it for a while as I’m squeaky clean now & I need to let my body get back to normal as I think its freaking out on me without its toxic wubby. Thanks for wonderful msg . And will send you some healing energy for calming ~~~~

Dwrgi – How goes The Kitchen (journal)? I shall have to go there next to see if anymore eye candy posts. You’re so funny, that cracked me up! Hope you are having a great Monday (even though that’s an Oxymoron in my book!)

Chicken – I am guessing you are an avid camper? Will you be testing prog again this month then? If you need any help in deciding when to test (according to your chart, that is) just ask! But I can suggest something if your Dr. is okay w/it? If you are worried you may not be able to pin down O time, some women will test CD21 & then again at CD26 or so. That way, when AF comes, you count backwards by 14 to determine rough O date & then look at test results accordingly? I hope you have a nice break hun & ENJOY yourself!!! And don’t worry, many of us have to take prog after O time (cream or suppositories). (PS- LOL on jokes!)

Owl – When is IUI #4 scheduled for?

BF – hope you are OK lovely Butterfly. I have to hit your journal

HA – I am still very sad about your news & just wanted ot send you big :higs:

GreekPorn – how are you doing hun? I hope you are OK . Just come back when you are ready…

Pebble – Yes, I have some crazy friends don’t I? You’re too funny. I am so GLAD your hcg is falling!!!! And that is probably the ONLY time I’m ever going to say that on BNB! Yay for duty! I was going to pop into your journal but your cleanse is already over??? For some reason I thought it was going to take a month or more… Good news though, hun. (& nice to know we have a counselor here!)

Kismet – I hope you are feeling better hun! Darn blasted cold – although I like what my Reiki Master & fellow Karuna RMT told me about them: they are cleansing out your entire system & getting rid of old stuff that just doesn’t serve you anymore . Also, I don’t blame you for wanting to go to Maui . I’d like to retake it just to give me an excuse to go there! (although the energy in Glastonbury is insane&#8230

Green – You ALWAYS have a chance! I don’t think ovarian cysts usually cause infertility, but I’m not a Dr (that’s a google thing). And as far as the man being 10 yrs older, just look at David Letterman producing kids into his 70s! Guys don’t have the same issues we do (go figure – do they EVER?). Also, Froliky used an older man’s & she’s way pregs & doing fabulous! Malaysia, wow, you are probs our most exotic person so far! We have similar weather (except not quite as rainy? I'd say Spring & Summer seasons) & I am one of those who loves the tropical weather.

LadyH- Ok, then roll-on 11/2!

Fro – I hope you are OK, honey. Just thinking of you & wanted to send a

Asry – hey chic, how’s it going with the house stuff? Haven’t seen you much lately…

Mirium – hope you are feeling better, hun

Tiger - I didn’t know you can’t TTC every month.

Want2Conceive – Welcome & good luck on the IVF, hun! WOW on 4 ! Are any frozen? Well, then hopefully this will “do the trick”.

DrH – hoping at least one of those 213m have made it as I see you have O’d so sending major ! Also, LOVE the verses you picked out.: I did the bible verse I think Dash is talking about - how Love is Patient & kind, never boastful, etc : 1 Corinth 13:4 https://bible.cc/1_corinthians/13-4.htm

Ness – hope you are doing well!

to FlyF, Firebaby, Maddy, DrS & anyone else I may have missed! Hope you are all doing well!


AFM – no O in sight. Wondering if my body is way too clean now – it doesn’t really know what to do!? I always get EWCM by CD14 – the latest CD17 & today is CD17. Although now that I said that I looked back at my back-to-back preggers months & those were my late EWCM months (one was CD18). Perhaps Halloween Horror Nights scared my eggs up into my boobs & they are afraid to come back down. Come back lil eggies, no more burnt ex-convict chicks w/chainsaws, I promise!!! “Eggieeee, come home!” Just another fun day in TTC-World! . Oh yeah – I drank everybody’s this weekend, so you ladies all had a great time, in case you didn’t know!

to those having a hard time
to those in the 2WW &
all-around!

 

[purplelou]

to everyone, I hope today is good one!! Huge and to you all!

Pad

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I am beyond happy for you chick! I have such a good feeling about your little snuggler! Huge loves to you xxxx

 

[padbrat]

Hey Lils! Welcome back darling!! Oooo so if you get EWCM tomorrow that means this could be a lucky month??? OOoooo come on you EWCM get going down there!! LOL

Hahhaa lay down protest!!

Purps.. MWAH

 

[want2conceive]

Want2Conceive – Welcome & good luck on the IVF, hun! WOW on 4 ! Are any frozen? Well, then hopefully this will “do the trick”.

Hi lils, we transfered 4 fresh because of my age(39yo) and had some left over to freeze. This is our 2nd IVF attempt so hoping it does the trick because we have been TTC for 8yrs.(tried many different things already besides IVF). Hoping for our miracle!


We fly back home tomorrow night(5 days after egg transfer). For those who don't know we did our IVF in Brasil as it ended up being cheaper for us than doing a 2nd one in the USA.