Tori - are you temping and doing opk testing? I definitely think it's good to know exactly when you ovulate. Mine varies from cd14 to cd23 ...so it's really important for me to opk test.
I know what you mean. I'm a planner too. Got married last year and decided to ttc immediately naively thinking id have my first at 36 and then #2 at 38. Now I'm thinking we may only be able to have one if we are able to have any at all.
It's hard not to regret but I was always on the fence about having children until we started trying. Then I realised it was something I had always wanted deep down. And everyone I know has at least one child. Feels like a club I can't join. And you start looking at your life wondering what you will do if it doesn't happen.
Hopefully it'll happen soon for you. We have to stay positive and take each day as it comes. X
I know what you mean. I'm a planner too. Got married last year and decided to ttc immediately naively thinking id have my first at 36 and then #2 at 38. Now I'm thinking we may only be able to have one if we are able to have any at all.
It's hard not to regret but I was always on the fence about having children until we started trying. Then I realised it was something I had always wanted deep down. And everyone I know has at least one child. Feels like a club I can't join. And you start looking at your life wondering what you will do if it doesn't happen.
Hopefully it'll happen soon for you. We have to stay positive and take each day as it comes. X