TTC 30s/40s Club

[niecey]

Hi ladies

im new to the site,im 41,my OH is 32(yes he,s a toyboy!)and wer,e ttc our 2nd baby together.we already have a little boy who is 13mnths,and i have a 13yr old daughter from a previous relationship.

wer,e currently on ttc cycle2,and hoping to get a as soon as possible.

lots of to us all x

 

[pixielou]

I'm trying to figure out when I ovulate and it's driving me crazy. I've been charting symptoms for about a month now. I would just like to get back to feeling "normal", and knowing when AF will arrive. I've had a 28 day cycle my entire life but now I believe it may be closer to 34 days. Has anyone tried Pre-seed?

Hi Our First,

I have just finished my last box of pree-seed. Gonna order some more. Must admit havent used it religiously and no BFP-YET...

It has been rumoured to work and quite a few ladies n the BFP section had some joy with it. It also feels nice for your partner-if you know what I mean!
I'm also taking clomid and so don't get as much CM so this is supposed to help immensely!

Hope, that helps!

 

[Chris77]

Hi ladies

I ordered pre-seed, gonna try it this cycle. I can't believe I'm getting excited over lube!

 

[mom2pne]

Hello I may have already introduced myself months ago, but if I didn't here it goes. My name is Simone. I'm 34(35 on Sept. 25th) My dh and I have been tying for #5 since January. I did get pg mid-March but m/c on Apri 30th @ 7w 4d. My OB said to wait 2-3 cycles. We waited 2. I got a BFP @ 9 dpo but the showed. Then I got a BFP @ 11 dpo and same thing the showed. If it happens again my ob is going to run tests on me to find out what is the matter. She would have done the testing now, but I got so much going on with school starting that I don't have the time to get to her office. I am hoping it doesn't happen again and I have a beautiful baby in May.

 

[pixielou]

Hello I may have already introduced myself months ago, but if I didn't here it goes. My name is Simone. I'm 34(35 on Sept. 25th) My dh and I have been tying for #5 since January. I did get pg mid-March but m/c on Apri 30th @ 7w 4d. My OB said to wait 2-3 cycles. We waited 2. I got a BFP @ 9 dpo but the showed. Then I got a BFP @ 11 dpo and same thing the showed. If it happens again my ob is going to run tests on me to find out what is the matter. She would have done the testing now, but I got so much going on with school starting that I don't have the time to get to her office. I am hoping it doesn't happen again and I have a beautiful baby in May.

Hope you get your BFP hun!
XX

 

[terridayle]

Hi everyone,

I just turned 39 yesterday, I have one child who turned 20 in July. My fiancee is 42 and we started trying in January, we were successful. But then approaching my 15th week I started to spot and ended up going for an ultrasound which showed the baby to be size wise 9 weeks 3 days and no heartbeat, I ended up having to have a D&C. Took 9 weeks to start my first cycle and then finally at day 50 I started my second cycle, which is almost over. I go for an ultrasound tomorrow and if all is well I can start trying again. I am nervous but also very excited as our nursery is about 80% completed.

 

[Peanut78]

Hi all, already introduced myself on the intro page, and still trying to come to understand this forum... Was so surpirised to see most girls are in their 20's (or younger). I just turned 30 and guess where I come from (Norway), I am relatively early (or most just starting).... Now feeling slightly old in this forum, and less fertile.... hope that's just paranoia.... How long have you ladies in30-40 club been trying...?

p.s. finding the supportive messages on this site amazing, could not help but join - and looking fwd to getting to know you all!

 

[cturtlegirl]

Hi All,

I have just posted on the Introduce yourself forum, but thought I would post here as well. I'm from the UK and ttc #1. I'm now on the 3rd month of ttc although back in my first month May 08 had but unfortunately miscarried in June at 6 weeks. We're now 2 months into ttc with irregular cycles since the miscarriage, 1 of 43 days and another of 36 days. Before I was always 31 days.
The caught me today despite having some symptons of pregnancy. So now starting out again

C xx

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[buffycat]

hey peeps.....:wave:

i've not posted on this thread before, so thought i would pop along and say hello!

i'm 30 and DH is 37....we're trying for our first baby, and i'm getting so impatient! We've been trying for 16 months now, and we had a mc in march.....


hope all of you are happy & well....

luv & hugs

 

[Laragh]

Hi there
I'm new, my name is Laragh and I'm 30. Myself and my partner have been TTC for 4 months now so not too long. I've only 2 more days to find out if this is the month!

 

[Stardancer]

Hi, I'm 32... been married 10 years, TTC for 9. Diagnosed with PCOS at the end of 2004 so I'm trying to lose weight and been taking metformin since april.. Starting ovulating again 2 months ago.. woo! Without Met, I my cycles are anywhere from 40 days to 100 days long, and I don't ovulate. My cycles are now around the 40-45 day mark.
I had 2 miscarriages at 7 & 8 weeks wayyy back before I was married, and a very early one while on metformin in 2005 - at 5 weeks.

That's me! Oh.. and I live in Northeast England in a house full of cats :-D

 

[mom2pne]

Welcome ladies! I can't imagine long cycles. Mine have always been 24-29 days. The only times I had a longer stretch was after I m/c'd and after I delivered my boys. I do hope tho that you can get pg quickly! I had my 1st @ 20, my 2nd @ 22 and my surprise your pg on b/c w/twins @ 32.

 

[Jessgirl]

Hi All
I'm May, I am 34 and have been TTC for a while! I've been on depo for quite a few years and came off it last year but its only been since May that my periods have become regular. Unfortunately, quite a few of my friends (14) have given birth this year and I joined this forum as I feel desperately lonely and miserably sad. However, fingers crossed for this cycle, ov is due around now. Baby dust to everyone - I am looking forward to chatting to you all and helping out as much as I can.

May

 

[ttcbaby2]

hi im kelsey im 34 married to kev 31 and have a 2year old son we are ttc our second baby we tried for a year with no luck then gave up for a while and been trying 5 months this time so far

 

[magicvw]

hi im kelsey im 34 married to kev 31 and have a 2year old son we are ttc our second baby we tried for a year with no luck then gave up for a while and been trying 5 months this time so far

Hiya TTCbaby2!

Welcome to BnB hun! I am in the same kind of position as you. I'm 35, my LO is 2 and we have been ttc no.2 since around May last year. How's it going with you this time round?x xx

 

[Tory123]

Hi All

I am new to this so do forgive me. I am 33 and my hubby is 26, (i think i need a younger model lol) we have been ttc for two years we are now under the doctor and all test have come back fine, husbands sperm a bit on the low side but nothing to much to worry about the docs say, so why hasn't happened? I have now been put on clomid and don't really know why as everything I read about it says it is to make the women ovulate. I am quite regular and my cycle has been on day 26-29 since I first started all them many moons back (20 years ago). I did ask the doctor why and he said its for me to do 70% of the work and hubby to do 30% whats new! Anyway my first clomid was last month and yes you got it nothing and the came. I have started round two of clomid and fingers crossed.

Love reading all the posts x

 

[willow77]

Hi Ladies,

I'm Willow I'm 30 and new to BnB This is our 3rd month of TTC for our first baby, fingers xx for a BPF in the next few days. Good to find others in 30/40's TTC too as most of my friends had their children whilst in their mid twenties and I'm sure I am driving my other half mad with baby talk!

Baby Dust to you all.

W x

 

[jaccib]

Hi,
I'm Jacci. I just miscarried 2 weeks ago. I am 42.....my OH is 40!! I an 11 year old daughter......had 2 m/c after her at 6 and 8 weeks. This one was at 10 weeks. We really want to try but is it too soon?? Only lost this one on 25 August.
Know time isn't really on our side and life goes on.

 

[merechick]

Hi, I'm 32 and my husband Frank is 36. We've only been TTC for about 2-months. I have endometriosis, so I experience frequent cramping at all times during my cycle. It's really frustrating b/c it's hard to detect physical symptoms of ovulation and/or pregnancy with all this other stuff going on down there! Had surgery to remove some of the endo in June but they couldn't get all of it. Luckily, it has only affected the outside of womb and some other organs, but doctor says my tubes and ovaries are fine....fingers crossed!

Best of luck to all of you, hope we hear about lots of BFPs soon!

 

[Stardancer]

Hi,
I'm Jacci. I just miscarried 2 weeks ago. I am 42.....my OH is 40!! I an 11 year old daughter......had 2 m/c after her at 6 and 8 weeks. This one was at 10 weeks. We really want to try but is it too soon?? Only lost this one on 25 August.
Know time isn't really on our side and life goes on.

Sorry for your loss I think docs recommend waiting until you've had a normal period before trying again, probably just to make sure everything is working as it should.

Good luck and baby dust to you, and fingers crossed for a sticky one next time