ttc after a d&c

[jen435]

Hi ladies!
I didn't mean to be absent so long but it turns out that I had a nasty kidney infection. One that left me with a heart murmur that I have to get checked out in a couple of weeks. Last night was my third night of antibiotics but my first without a high fever so victory! I'm on pretty strong meds so not sure if I can TTC this cycle- will ask my doctor tomorrow.
Oh and AF came Monday when I was going to the doctor, which I am not sad about because I had had really high fevers.
I love and missed you guys!

So my doctor just called and asked for the number of my primary care physician (my hometown doctor)...this is never happened to me before. I don't care if they have my records since I live here for now I have just never actually had a clinic care enough to get all the records lol. I thought it was weird.

Bethany I'm sooo sorry you were so sick I hope you are feeling better. Very glad to hear you have a caring physician. They are very hard to find. Please take care of yourself. I was really hoping your symptoms was just from pregnancy but after all you have been through its a blessing you are not ATM. When your healthy enough i really hope it happens right away. You have been through so much this year 2013 is sounding pretty good right now hopefully making us parents and to be very healthy. How is your husband? Hope all is okay and I'm sooo glad your back!!!

 

[jen435]

Bethany good luck to your husband on the job!!!
Jfg I hope your body goes back to normal soon for you.
Lilysmom its so nice having a clean house. My dh is great at rearranging things. It drives me nuts. I hope that you'll be excited once you see him and won't resent him so much. I wish you the best with you decision to try or not this cycle. I wish you levels where normal. Your cycle is so perfect for dh arrival to try.
Cheryl how are you doing so far this cycle?
Horseypants I know how frustrating it is waiting for af or bfp. I'm right there with you. I caved in today and used a cheapie in afternoon. Bad mistake CD 27 12dpo and bfn. No sign of my usual af symptoms but I'm just thinking maybe my body needs time to regulate still. Trying to stay positive at the same time. Just remember your still in as long as she doesn't arrive. So stay positive.

 

[Storked]

Hi ladies!
I didn't mean to be absent so long but it turns out that I had a nasty kidney infection. One that left me with a heart murmur that I have to get checked out in a couple of weeks. Last night was my third night of antibiotics but my first without a high fever so victory! I'm on pretty strong meds so not sure if I can TTC this cycle- will ask my doctor tomorrow.
Oh and AF came Monday when I was going to the doctor, which I am not sad about because I had had really high fevers.
I love and missed you guys!

So my doctor just called and asked for the number of my primary care physician (my hometown doctor)...this is never happened to me before. I don't care if they have my records since I live here for now I have just never actually had a clinic care enough to get all the records lol. I thought it was weird.

Bethany I'm sooo sorry you were so sick I hope you are feeling better. Very glad to hear you have a caring physician. They are very hard to find. Please take care of yourself. I was really hoping your symptoms was just from pregnancy but after all you have been through its a blessing you are not ATM. When your healthy enough i really hope it happens right away. You have been through so much this year 2013 is sounding pretty good right now hopefully making us parents and to be very healthy. How is your husband? Hope all is okay and I'm sooo glad your back!!!

I am feeling so much better. Appetite is slowly returning but my strength will be diminished for a while due to meds. My husband has been great while I was sick- he was so kind and took amazing care of me. But it looks like unless we relocate first...TTC may have to be put on hold until April. We plan to be in Thailand then and my OB won't let me fly pregnant. Sadly.
Jen, you are very sweet you will definitely be a parent to a sweet-smelling baby before you know it. All of us will. We deserve our sweet little ones

 

[lilesMom]

bethany congrats on the move fx for u. glad ur startin to feel better
thanks jen, yeah timing should be good, i dont know what to do really , i should wait but i dont want to i might ring my doc on mon and go in tues if she will do it, for another blood test. i know once he comes home il want to try even more. keep trying to convince myself im ok waiting but im not, im back to crying bouts again so im obvs not ok with it

 

[jen435]

Bethany so glad your feeling better and dh took great care of you! I hope everything works in your favor and you can relocate. I wasn't aware pregnant women couldn't fly. Very good to know thou.

Laura good luck with your doctor I hope your blood work comes back okay. I can't blame you for wanting to ttc. You deserve to try again. Fxd that good news come your way soon!!! Also lots of hugs to you. I hope once your dh is home you find the comfort you need to find happiness and not be so sad.

CD 29 and 15dpo today... I caved in used frer 6days sooner with fmu sat... bfn no af though to trying to stay positive. No symptoms really either they come and go so I wonder if its my imagination.... after my d&c I had a 38 day cycle so since this is my first real cycle. I'm either pregnant (highly doubt thou) or my cycle will be longer then my 28 day cycle I always had prior to pregnancy... Bethany how many days was you cycle this past cycle? I recall you going by 28 days but then you were late also weren't you?

How is everyone else doing?

 

[Storked]

Jen, I just can't fly because of my clotting issues
As for my cycle...38 days! Way too long :O

 

[jen435]

Aww bethany im sorry

38cd is soo long. I guess ill be the same since af came exactly 38cd after d&c. Thank you for heads up! I thought it was only that long bc it took body time to get bfn. All well. Im cd 30 today only 8days to go. I think ill be temping next cycle im just nervous to since i wake up at all different times due to work. If af shows its ugly face ill have the due date around my bday!! The day i pretty much found out i was tossing my son. Ill also have to try soy because im starting to think maybe my body didn't ovulate .. Im starting to lose hope in this cycle and stay positive just incase there is a next.

 

[lilesMom]

fx crossed for u jen xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
hi all
i had alovely day playing with my nieces and nephews, we all went for lunch and to a wild life park for my mom bday, was lovely

 

[jen435]

Thank you!

Im so glad you had a great day!

 

[lilesMom]

fx for u jen, xxxx
how u feelin bethany?
how is every1?

 

[Storked]

I don't check in much I'm afraid. Me and my spouse haven't quite decided but we may delay TTC for a bit even though I hate to. Dunno, very sad and conflicted.
Jen, hope you like the soy! I did.
Laura, sounds like a fun time you had

 

[lilesMom]

its a tough decision to make isnt it. il prob have to delay it too for a bit, hope not too long. if it is better for ye, do delay it, i know its hard but if its better in long run, hope ye can reach a decision ye can both be happy with xxxx
was a lovely day, it put me in much better form

 

[CherylC3]

Hey ladies got my pos OPK yesterday so I've had lots of baby dancing. Xx

 

[lilesMom]

woo hoo cheryl. fx for u xxxxxxxxx

 

[CherylC3]

Aw I hope I get it this month. Xx

 

[lilesMom]

no reason why u shouldnt hon, i really hope u do xxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

but have fun trying as well ha ha

 

[jen435]

Cheryl goodluck!!! catch that egg! Hoping this is your month!

Laura and bethany wishing you comfort with your decision. Hugs

 

[jen435]

How is everyone?

 

[horseypants]

im waiting for af to start. spotted yesterday and had a huge temp drop today. how you, jen?