ttc after a d&c

[SamsMum]

Hey ladies - 1 day post ERPC. Think I've got away lightly as only minimal pain and no bleeding at all today. Got follow up HCG blood test next tues but hoping to get a negative HPT myself before then. How long did it take you all to get your BFN HPT post ERPC/D&C? xxx

 

[CherylC3]

I counted cd1 as dnc day and had a neg hpt on cd 7 and started my OPKs then and got my pos on cd13 so u will return to normal soon Hun. Xx

 

[lilesMom]

hey sams mum sorry for ur loss. it varies from person to person, it took me 2 and half weeks but my hcg was very high, it had gone over 45000. think thats why it took longer to come back down, take it easy on urself for a bit, xxxxxxx

 

[SamsMum]

Thanks both. My Hcg was only 310 (but rising due to blighted ovum) so hopefully it should come down pretty quick assuming they got the sac yesterday. It was too small for them to see so hpt's should tell!

Best of luck for ttc! xx

 

[lilesMom]

oh it should come down fast so hon, best o luck in ttc xxxxxxxxx

 

[jen435]

Samsmum so sorry for your loss. Your hcg levels should come down rather quickly. Will you be ttc right away? Goodluck if you choose to.

Horseypants don't lose hope but Im right there with you. Cd 31 haven't tested since bfn on 14dpo on sat scared my cycle is just messed up or something. Though found it odd that my fame doc called today saying the ordered me to go for woodwork. Giving myself til wed they didn't like it very much but i can't take that type of disappointment.

As for today i feel terrible. Its my nieces 3rd bday today. She slept over sun. Monday was her moms 21st bday which is my sister. My brother came with her to pick amber up. Something didn't feel right when they left. Im horrified at how irresponsible my sister n brother are and that they almost were all killed. The cops said they are lucky to be alive. My sister lets brothere Drive her car now its totaled they hit a tree and totaled someone's deck. They smoked some kinda tobacco that could paralyze you. Im in tears my poor nice. My husband wants nothing to do with my family at all but i can't help but feel bad as the older sister.

 

[LornaMJ]

Sorry for your loss Samsmum....I only checked my HCG via HPT a week after my D&C and it was still positive. However AF showed 29 post D&C which is my cycle length so I assume it has all returned to normal. I will be TTC again this month.

Good luck to you all and babydust xx

 

[mommylov]

Room for one more? Im so sorry to hear about everyones loses. Unfort I am here for the same reasons. I found out my husband and I lost our first baby last tuesday. I was suppose to be 10w but the baby was only 8w I had a D&C on thursday and am still recovering. I went in for a followup today because I had cramping but everything seemed to check out normal. My dr said that I may be having issues with constipation (Sorry, TMI). I so badly want to have a baby with my DH and we talked about it and he is on board for trying again when we can. I know this is more common than I thought but I am still terrified of not being able to have a LO of our own. Did anyone else feel this way? Any success stories?

 

[lilesMom]

oh god jen, thats awfull !!! hope they all ok xxxxx

welcome lorna xx

 

[lilesMom]

hey mommylove , we posted at the same time welcome babe.
def know how u r feeling , i def worry that i wont be able to hve my own buby.
but we have no increased risk after one mc at all to everyone else just starting out
take it easy on urself and take care, its a very tough time , big hugs to all the ladies here but espeacially the newer ones xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
it will get a bit better with time,
best o luck to all in ttc xxxx

 

[mommylov]

Thansk lilesmom! From what I read, everyone on here is so sweet and I am so glad I found this group! I really hope we all can get through this and that we all get our LO's that we so ache for. It has been so hard and DH just moved out here so I ahve felt very alone with no family around. He has been so great and supportive but I feel better knowing that I am not alone and that many others are going through the same thing DH and I are going through. Sticky baby dust to all!!!! XOXO

 

[mommylov]

meant to say that DH AND I moved out here... oops!

 

[lilesMom]

its only a matter of time for our bfps ( not too much time i hope )
thanks babe , u seem really sweet too. we can all help each other and keep us entertained through the waity patches xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

this site and this thread is great for support x

 

[lilesMom]

how is everyone?
jen hows d hol?
bethany any news on job/move xxx
cheryl how u doin?
how u holdin up mommylove?
horseypants long time no hear, how u keepin x
lorna and samsmum how ye doin?
soz if i missed anyone xxxxxxx

 

[SamsMum]

Hey, hope everyone is ok.

2 days past ERPC and feeling ok. HPT line has really faded in just a day so it looks like they got the sac out and fx'd for that negative HPT within a few days. Will be onto the OPK's then! Good luck for 4 days time lilesmon.

 

[lilesMom]

good sams mum , u seem to be coming back to normal fast , that is great. not great that u r in position but great that its not worse xxxxx
my ticker is wrong now, im not sure how much u read but he is home in 4 days but we cant ttc just yet cos now ive problem with my liver they wanna check out first. lets hope its just cos of all d drugs i had to take and nothing else i tried to fix my ticker but couldnt and i dont wanna remove it cos its my count down to OH home.
that was long winded ha ha x

 

[jen435]

Welcome ladies! Im so sorry to hear of your losses. i hope everyone is holding up okay

Im cycle day 32 18dpo. Still bfn. I started a cold yesterday nausea sore throat congested tired dizzy. Ink what's going on but i think my body isnt back to normal yet.. Lilies so glad your dh will be home soon. Fxd that your levels go down and you can try again real soon. Samsmum so glad your almost back to opks. Your body is returning to normal quik . Ill have to second. Liliesmoms post. My cell keyboard is being touchy atm.

 

[CherylC3]

Hey I'm gd 3dpo sore bbs bumpy nips, creamy cm and greasy spotty fac and neck but it's way too early for symtoms I think..xx

 

[CherylC3]

Woohoo lilesmom nearly ttc time. Xx