ttc after a d&c

[SamsMum]

Good luck CHeryl! x

 

[horseypants]

i'm on cd3

 

[mommylov]

Hi everyone! Hope everyone is well. Hey lilesmom... going to try soon i see? YAY!!!!
Im doing ok, still recovering from my D&C from last thursday. I went to the dr on tuesday because I had bad pains (felt like gas) and then checked to make sure I didnt have an infection which I didnt. Then went back yesterday and they did an ultrasound on me and saw that I had leftover tissue from the pregnancy.. guess it was missed when they did the D&C which can happen sometimes. So I was prescribed meds and am suppose to take it this weekend to try and pass the leftover tissue naturally and then go back for another ultrasound to make sure its all gone. DH and I so badly want to move on but it just seems like we cant. Hopefully these meds do the trick!

Welcome to any new members. Im sure you are here for the same reason, so sorry for your losses. I hope everyone finds comfort in this forum, I surely have in the short time I have been here! Hope everyone is doing well!

 

[jen435]

Horseypants and Cheryl good luck this cycle!! Praying those swimmers catch that egg and you both have your bfp this cycle! Fxd

Mommyluv I'm so sorry tissue was left behind I really pray that medication does the trick and you are back to ttc soon. Also hope you and your husband find some kind of comfort in the days to come.

 

[mommylov]

Thank Jen!! I just saw you got married on 10/8/10... Dh and I got married on 10/10/10 how funny!!! Lots of hugs to you too and all the other ladies here!

 

[jen435]

Aww that's so cool!

 

[Storked]

Howdy guys! Sorry to have been absent but I haven't been TTC- got a nasty yeast infection from the antibiotics so haven't been having sex.
I see my great-nephew next weekend though and may get baby fever
ladies

 

[mommylov]

Sorry to hear storked... Wishing you a speedy recovery!

 

[Storked]

Sorry to hear storked... Wishing you a speedy recovery!

Same to you- I hope you can move on soon

 

[SamsMum]

Advice/thoughts needed please ladies!

Began M/c on 28th June.
Passed everything but the sac
Had D&C this Monday to remove sac
No bleeding whatsoever Tues or Weds, not even spotting
Thurs night began bleeding and still am. No clots, just like a period.

Now, if I were to count the day I began miscarrying last month as CD1, then last night my 'period' would have been due if none of this had happened. However, as it's only 3 days since the D&C I wonder if it is just post-op bleeding or my body's attempt at a period??

Any thoughts appreciated!

L xx

 

[mommylov]

Advice/thoughts needed please ladies!

Began M/c on 28th June.
Passed everything but the sac
Had D&C this Monday to remove sac
No bleeding whatsoever Tues or Weds, not even spotting
Thurs night began bleeding and still am. No clots, just like a period.

Now, if I were to count the day I began miscarrying last month as CD1, then last night my 'period' would have been due if none of this had happened. However, as it's only 3 days since the D&C I wonder if it is just post-op bleeding or my body's attempt at a period??

Any thoughts appreciated!

L xx

I had my D&C done last thrusday and I didnt have too much bleeding the day of and after. Friday night it started to get a little more heavy but it was just like a period too . I had cramps and went to the dr just make sure there was no infection and thank god there wasnt but I would say the bleeding that you are having is normal after a D&C. If you are really worried about it, it wouldnt hurt to give your dr a call and have him/her either check you out or ease your mind with some info...after all thats what we are paying them for! I think they say that your period usually comes about 4-6 weeks after your d&c but everyone's body is different so that may not be the case for you. Hope you get better soon.

 

[mommylov]

Hi Samsmum... so I posted a loooooong reply but I dont think it went through so Ill try this again lol

I had my D&C last Thursday and I didnt bleed much that day or the next morning. Friday night it did start to get a little heavier but was still much like a period too. Im still spotting but its a bit dark and its been a week and a day so I think the bleeding is normal. I think I remember hearing that it usually takes 4-6 weeks post op for af to come but I could be wrong and everyones body works differently. I went in and got checked because I did have some cramping and I wanted to rule out infection or something bad like that which thank god I was ok. If you are really worried about it, I would def call your dr and get some info and piece of mind from them. Maybe they will check you out or atleast put your mind at ease one way or another... after all, this is what we pay them for so! Wishing you the best and hope you get the answers you are looking for! Feel better soon....

 

[mommylov]

My friend and her husband just had thier baby girl this morning. She is soooo darling and I am just so happy for them....but I couldnt help but think of my angel and my heart just instantly hurt . With eyes filled with tears I pray that will be me soon.

 

[SamsMum]

My friend and her husband just had thier baby girl this morning. She is soooo darling and I am just so happy for them....but I couldnt help but think of my angel and my heart just instantly hurt . With eyes filled with tears I pray that will be me soon.

Mommylov, I know how you feel. We are so happy for them aren't we, but it hurts too. Our best friends are a month ahead what I would have been. xx

 

[mommylov]

Thanks Samsmum...How funny, we have close friends that are 5 weeks ahead of where we were too. Her and I are childhood friends and are 3 months apart. When we both found out we were pregnant, we were so excited that our kids were going to be born so close together like we were. She went through the same thing earlier this year and then her and her hubby got pg 2 months after she mc. We are totally happy for them and wish them nothing but the best but yes it just reminds us that we are not there. I was sitting at my desk at work with tears so I called my DH and he told me that he loved me and that we will be there soon too. I feel so fortunate to have him and and so glad that I found you ladies because without everyone, I dont think I wouldve made it. I still have my sad moments like today but with each day I do feel better and hope you all do to.

 

[lilesMom]

Hi everyone! Hope everyone is well. Hey lilesmom... going to try soon i see? YAY!!!!
Im doing ok, still recovering from my D&C from last thursday. I went to the dr on tuesday because I had bad pains (felt like gas) and then checked to make sure I didnt have an infection which I didnt. Then went back yesterday and they did an ultrasound on me and saw that I had leftover tissue from the pregnancy.. guess it was missed when they did the D&C which can happen sometimes. So I was prescribed meds and am suppose to take it this weekend to try and pass the leftover tissue naturally and then go back for another ultrasound to make sure its all gone. DH and I so badly want to move on but it just seems like we cant. Hopefully these meds do the trick!

Welcome to any new members. Im sure you are here for the same reason, so sorry for your losses. I hope everyone finds comfort in this forum, I surely have in the short time I have been here! Hope everyone is doing well!

so sorry babe , it feels never ending doesnt it, u will hopefully be sorted after this weekend now and can start to move on , big hugs xxxx

no trying for me yet, ,y ticker is old, OH is comin home thats why i left it there, i cant try a while. something wrong with my liver, was at my doc again today and he said my levels r now 3 times what they should be, he ordered more tests and reckons he thinks he knows what it is but theses tests should tell him. fx , i cant try till its fixed, bummer xx

 

[lilesMom]

Advice/thoughts needed please ladies!

Began M/c on 28th June.
Passed everything but the sac
Had D&C this Monday to remove sac
No bleeding whatsoever Tues or Weds, not even spotting
Thurs night began bleeding and still am. No clots, just like a period.

Now, if I were to count the day I began miscarrying last month as CD1, then last night my 'period' would have been due if none of this had happened. However, as it's only 3 days since the D&C I wonder if it is just post-op bleeding or my body's attempt at a period??

Any thoughts appreciated!

L xx

im sorry to say hon its not a period ( in my opinion x ) , u can have loads o gaps and bleeding can be stoppy starty, my doc said u need at least a week without bleeding straight after for it to even possibly be period. i read elsewhere u need 3 weeks bleeding free for it to be period, mine took 5.5 weeks to come.
every1 differs so listen to all advice and listen to ur own gut feeling too babe xxx hope it sorts out for u soon , xxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

sorry sams mum i misread it a little , i didnt realise 2nd one as well, sorry for ur heartache babe. it may be , it is hard to tell. maybe ring doc office to check, they should know best xxx

 

[lilesMom]

it is so hard not to be sad r jealous by others, my sis in law is due within 2 days of my due date, i have serious bump envy lookin at her lovely bump thinking i shold have a matching one .


welcome back storked , i missed u, thought u may have gone cos u were taken up with decisions and poss move, welcome back, xxx

jen how r ur relations, did they have any injuries now or r they ok? xxx

best luck cheryl and horseypants xxx

 

[lilesMom]

just took off my ttc in2 days ticker to avoid confusion , stings abit even though i knew i cant for now,