ttc after a d&c

[mommylov]

Hi tash! Thank you and he's found out no surgery needed!!!! We were told to try this month and the dr is going to check my levels through this cycle. He said that if I don't fall this cycle, them they are going to give me clomid next cycle so fx I fall with a healthy bean! I love your dreams and symptoms and think those are great signs!! Oh I hope you are preggers!!!! Heaps of to you hun!!!!!

Good morning to everyone!

 

[TTCSecrets]

Ames that is fantastic newssssssssss!!!! Now u can get back on that TTC train CHOO CHOOOO lol!!
Im so happy for you! I really hope you fall soon, i know its bitter sweet but the added fertility you get after a miscarriage is a good hting, i really hope you fall this cycle! will u be opking etc? Im still charting and my temps look similar to most cyclles before!

I feel pregnant, in fact id put a bet on it, im just trying not to be too hopeful

did u have a nice christmas?! doing much for new year ? xxxxx

 

[mommylov]

Thanks hun!!! Yup starting to opk and the second I get a +, we are bding and I have to go to the lab to get bloodwork done. The dr have me progesterone to take home incase I need it. He will tell me the day that I get my lab work done. I did have wonderful Xmas with my parents here. How about you? Oh I hope you post a + hpt soon!!!!

 

[ilovehim91810]

first i want to thank all of you ladies for all your kind & caring words
everything each one of you wrote has help put a :smile: on my face for the day & gives me hope that good things do happen to good people!.

it does really suck that i had to find you all this way but im glad that i have
im also gonna send this link to this thread to two bnb friends of mine who have also gone through a loss.
we were all suppost to be having *July* babys
it really sucks to know ive got to bring in *YET* another -New Year NOT PREGNANT
however maybe i'll have another october baby or september or nov or maybe even a christmas baby!!! i don't even care when my baby is born or if it is a girl or a boy i just want my rainbow baby:-/ by the man i love so dearly.

ive been trying to stay as busy as i can to try not think about it!!!
i only just wish now i didnt get rid of my opks or my concieve plus idk why but i just kept on having a bad feeling that all of this was just good to be true and it really was.
i just still can't believe the dream i had was real
i mean the dream was not all real because of course it was alittle odd but the part about me having a scan and the baby not moving part was real!!

how long does it normally take for your levels to go down?!
i want to take a hpt to see what it comes up as but like ive said before if it still comes up positive i dont want to see it because i know theirs not no baby in there and if it comes up neg i dont want to see that either because ive had to see nothing but one line for two WHOLE YEARS and you know its actually been longer then two years because when we first got together we never used condoms at all and i was never on no birth control,what we did do was both get tested before we slept together though even though we had been friends for years but being friends with someone doesnt tell u if there clean or not anyway...
when we finally started dating it was the best ever ive always been in love with eddie my *DH* i mean i knew the first time we kissed we'd be together forever.

you know i just wish i would have met him before i got with my ex or he got with his:-/ because then maybe then we had alot of kids together by now!!!.
it just makes me so upset that she has 4kids by him and we've been together for 3yrs and got 0 and 1Angel
atleast now we do know that i can get pregnant though that is about the only good thing that has come out of this....(ugh) so sad

well id love to type more as i have so much venting that needs to come out plus so many more questions but i got to get DS ready for his bowling league and then i got to go pick my stepchildren up god i love them i wish she'd just let them live with us its not like she ever has them anyway makes me sick to my stomach i will def see what everyone is up to later though!! have a great day good luck & god bless everyone

 

[mommylov]

Aww Ilovehim, I'm sorry sorry and vent away! I have a good feeling about 2013. Don't know but I just do. As for levels going down, everyone is different. Mine took about4 weeks to get to 0 and then I got my first period 2 weeks after that. I know when you poas and see the results it's hard but you will be ttc in no time. Try to keep your chin upandjust remember you're not alone.

 

[TTCSecrets]

ILOVEHIM..

Yeah sure send them here hehe ! Your friends will be more than welcome, honestly the girls are the best on here i dont know what i would have done if i hadnt met these girls on here!

I know how you feel about the expected due date and having july babies, my baby is due in february, well was meant to be due, lost him in August.. Its a very sad thing to go through hunny but we are all here for you

As for when the levels go down it really does vary, from what i can remember i think it took a while for Amys (mommyluv) levels to go down, mine went down fairly quickly and i got my period three weeks and three days after the DnC .. It varies for everyone but naything upto 10 weeks is normal to get first period i think..

AMES thats brilliant news, you get to OPKing and BDing and make sure you catch that egg!!! I really do think this is my month, be gutted if not Hopefuly by next Friday il be posting my BFP on here hehe xx

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[TTCSecrets]

Yes laura we are awaiting your bump photo hehe

Angel glad ur okay, any sign of a bump for u yet?

Yeah i am trying to reason and rationalise my symptoms like maybe i banged my left boob and thats why its sore, and maybe i was sick this morning because ia te something bad yesterday...

But then i think well i know ive not banged my boob and chris had the same thing as me to eat yesterday so why isnt he being sick etc...

i have no tests, havent had any in the house for a while n i dont want to trek all the way down to the shops in the pissing down rain to get one and pee and it be too early, so, im going shopping on monday for my sister Lula's birthday ( her birthday is next friday) and i think i might pick a few tests up and test on monday, if its negative im gonna get hammered on monday night for new year


So sorry about dhs shoulder being sore at least if he sleeps upright in bed u can keep an eye on him slipping on his side hehe and prop him back up again lol!

i just feel pregnant, since 7 dpo (when i had my dip below coverline ... coincidence?) ive done nothing but cry over silly pathetic things, i even cried at a funny film :S How does that work, i feel grouchy, crampy and in a bad mood, my boob is sore and the sensitivity to smells... i was wrenching for ages this morning because of the smell of the puppy wee, and i dont know if this is counted but i used my lovely fairy liquid earlier and thought it smelt foul, and i sprayed my normal bodyspray after my bath and it smelt different :/ definitely testing on monday

xx

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[TTCSecrets]

I will be when i know if i can drink or not haha! xx

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[TTCSecrets]

i think im gonna go ASDA tomorrow and grab a few tests, or a few hundred in case i get poas happy , plus if they are negatives at least ive got ome for monday / tuesday morning, will make sure to use FMU, really excited actually, i just feel it this month

AND i had a bath earlier, and i know it sounds weird, but when i lay back my belly felt really uneasy, which is exactly how it was last time i was pg, so heres to hoping, if not then hopefully 2013 will bring me a bfp xxx

 

[mommylov]

Hi girls! Angel so sorry about dh and sleeping on his side. I hope he feels better soon! This getting up in the middle of the night sure is good practice huh? Lol

Tash, I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you hun! It would be great to end the year or start the new one with a bfp here!

Dh and I are going to blackhawk. They have a few casinos there and it's a pretty drive and area since its in the mountains. Not a bad drive either. Just an hour or so. We might stay the night but not sure yet. Happy new year everyone!

 

[aaronswoman79]

ilovehim91810 welcome to the thread. I am so so sorry for your loss. . I know you probably here this a lot but time does help you to heal. I know its still so fresh and your hormones are probably all over the place. We have all gone through it, so we know how hard it is. What is good is that you know you can get pregnant, and you will get your bfp again!! Like Amy said, 2013 is going to be a good year, I just feel it. I lost my baby on Aug 1 of this year, I was 19 weeks along. I had a freak accident with the umbilical cord and who knows what else was wrong. The baby was perfect though, my sweet little angel. I am so happy for you that you have a wonderful marriage with your dh and you both love each other so much. I was worried about not being able to get pregnant again because I am 33 ( I know this is still young, but was scared that maybe I was no longer fertile), but I did get pregnant. Actually today I start my 2nd trimester and ironically it happens to be the due date for my baby that I lost. . I already have 2 daughters, one is almost 13 and the other is about to turn 7, so the miscarriage was very hard on them too. . Just so you know we are all here for you if you have any questions of just want to vent. Take care hon.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Natasha, about the dream you had with the 2 pink lines. 1 or 2 days before I got my last bfp this October I had a dream that I took a test and saw the 2 lines. This is what made me think I was pregnant. And it turned out I was.

 

[aaronswoman79]

So what are all of your New Years plans? Dh is taking the whole family to Carmel/Monterey for New years. I have been wanted to get away since my mc, so I am looking forward to getting away and being right near the ocean. I have horrible allergies right now, so hopefully it will help being near the ocean. I can't wait to go to the cute little boutiques, bakeries, and restaurants.

 

[TTCSecrets]

i hope so, i really cant explain it but i FEEL it, i feel pregnant, more than i have done on any other cycle, EVER, even when i went for a drive earlier my stomach felt like a washer and it was pressure on it when i braked or went over bumps, exactly how i was during last pg,i keep crying my boob hurts, i cant stop peeing, i threw up this morning, i caved in and POAS but it was negative, expected i suppose at 8dpo, but i thought if i have enough in my system to have symptoms surely i should have enough to show up on hpt but obviously not might try anyway with fmu what do u guys think xxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

Well im getting increasingly negative now, POAS this morning and BFN, not even an Evap line, i know its stil early but today was 9dpo, my last pg i tested BFP on 9dpo, i guess i keep using my last pg as the standard for a new pregnancy :/

I have another test that i will use tomorrow, guess i wanted a BFP on New Years Eve... Especially because of all those dreams i had last cycle about getting a BFP on New Years Eve, thought maybe it would be real, and then all of the drems ive had this week... Well, im tkaing one more test tomorrow, if its negative, im gonna have a glass of wine or two on new years eve, and then wait for AF on Friday i think...

How are you all?! xxxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

Update:

Had a bit of brown tinted CM in my underwear when i went to the toilet, so now im thinking im definitely out I am tempted to say it might be implantation but i had what looks like an implant dip at 6 dpo, im now 9dpo, so doubt i would have implanted twice if that makes sense, and plus if its left overs from implantation why would it take three days to come out :S

So, overall feeling after being so positive is that IM OUT, AF is due on Friday/Saturday, ive stocked up on knicker stickers and period pain tablets, ice cream and films, AF IM READY xxx

 

[xoxo4angel]