ttc after a d&c

[lilesMom]

i went twice for the one test , i thought i would have to go a third time but they reckon they found the second sample. i dont even know if il trust the results they messed it aaround so much now thanks amy

 

[mommylov]

forgot to say amy totally on the keeping touch after bfps, i couldnt lose u guys
i dont see why we cant keep this up r have a new one whichevver xxx

My "thanks/ like" button went away again

I agree!!! I would love to keep with this one but how great would that be if we got our bfp's soon. We can def start a new one!!! New forum = new begginings

 

[lilesMom]

im really picky but ive gotten much better, i used to like no veg except carrots, now i llike most of them but some i have to chop r blend to eat so long a si eat um i dont mind how i get um in. i used to gag when i tries to eat lettuce now its one o my fave things. they say if u taste anything 21 times ur taste buds grow accustomed to it nad will like it

 

[lilesMom]

i dont mind if its here r new so long as we keep in contact and ye dont leave without me chances r my bfp will be after all of u since i havent even tried yet

 

[mommylov]

im really picky but ive gotten much better, i used to like no veg except carrots, now i llike most of them but some i have to chop r blend to eat so long a si eat um i dont mind how i get um in. i used to gag when i tries to eat lettuce now its one o my fave things. they say if u taste anything 21 times ur taste buds grow accustomed to it nad will like it

i dont mind if its here r new so long as we keep in contact and ye dont leave without me chances r my bfp will be after all of u since i havent even tried yet

Really??? Im making him eat all these things then 21 times! lol

I havent tried either yet. I know that you are going to be there soon. As soon as these drs get your results in order and we can get you healthy, you will be the 1st! Putting pos vibes out!!!! I almost want to send my dr to you and say "Can you please just fix our Laura already?!?! We need her to be 110%!"

 

[mommylov]

Laura, we have to swallow pills- make him swallow some

Amy, my DH can't stand cooked broccoli. How weird is that? I love broccoli!
As for zinc, it is just overall good for his swimmers. I actually knew nothing about zinc and never had to make DH take it. We knew we wanted to get married and start a family and he told me that he was taking it for his swimmers. He worries about his own fertility with all the chemicals he is around every day. I don't blame him for our loss but he worries about it because he has coworkers who have had many losses. But the chick he works with every day has two kids and never lost any so who is to say right?

And you never bother me because I am addicted to chatting with you girls!

Same here, doll!

 

[lilesMom]

ha ha i doubt they do trans continental house calls but appreciate the thought ha ha

 

[lilesMom]

im on a pma thread here too and 2 of the girls jus got bfps in last few days so pma def works

jen i see u, r u catchin up? how u doin?

 

[Storked]

Amy if you start them off early eating those things you should be golden! Oh oh read How Eskimos Keep Their Babies Warm- it is such a fun read and talks about ways to broaden a child's tastes to be more adult!

Laura I love the thought of a new thread when we are all preggers! Oh and what is pma?
I am not sure I would trust the results either but am in agony at the thought of you having to wait much longer.

 

[mommylov]

Sorry, whats pma?

Hi Jen!

 

[jen435]

Hey ladies! Wow I missed sooo much working today! Okay lets test my memory...
Laura glad they found your blood but how could they not send the form filled out??? I agree with Amy I just want to call them and yell at them! We just want you to have your results and good news already so you can get back to bding.
All the vitamin talk sound like you ladies are on top of definately should help with bfps So glad your dhs take em also I can't get mine to take em and he eats so unhealthy. His excuse is his sister eats terrible and had two healthy boys. All well he has one a day too Amy for days he decides to be good I think zinc for sperm quality is 15-30mg a day??? Bethany your dh is so carefull Amy I must agree with everything Laura said about dh and trying. Its only natural for you to be resentful that he carelessy hurt himself but I really do think he is sorry and regrets not listening so try to forgive him. It will make taking care of him easier. You could always spice things up and play nurse okay sorry just an idea to brighten his mood tonight after a rough day. Laura im so glad your feeling better those meds must be helping you! Hopefully your bloodworks good and you'll have your bfp with us!!! Either way we are all definately staying in touch that's for sure. I'm so glad we all feel the same. Its so awesome to have ttc friends from all around the world that's been through so much together. Yummy for broccoli! I love every fresh veg (raw or cooked) and fruit! As for canned or jarred that's when i become picky.

 

[Storked]

Jen, I hate canned and jarred too! I can handle it for beans, tomatoes, corn and green beans- they make recipes more convenient. But potatoes and carrots and thinks like that I must have fresh to cook yes it is amazing to have such awesome friends to relate to. That is what drew me to this thread. I just felt so alone and needed to talk and you guys are the best to talk to!
I have to agree with you on zinc dosage. I read on another forum on here where women were making their DH take 50 mg but my husband cuts his 50 mg pills in half for 25 mg dosage. He says 50 is too much and I am sure he researched it carefully.
Can you sneak vitamins into your hubby's junk food?

 

[mommylov]

Hey ladies! Wow I missed sooo much working today! Okay lets test my memory...
Laura glad they found your blood but how could they not send the form filled out??? I agree with Amy I just want to call them and yell at them! We just want you to have your results and good news already so you can get back to bding.
All the vitamin talk sound like you ladies are on top of definately should help with bfps So glad your dhs take em also I can't get mine to take em and he eats so unhealthy. His excuse is his sister eats terrible and had two healthy boys. All well he has one a day too Amy for days he decides to be good I think zinc for sperm quality is 15-30mg a day??? Bethany your dh is so carefull Amy I must agree with everything Laura said about dh and trying. Its only natural for you to be resentful that he carelessy hurt himself but I really do think he is sorry and regrets not listening so try to forgive him. It will make taking care of him easier. You could always spice things up and play nurse okay sorry just an idea to brighten his mood tonight after a rough day. Laura im so glad your feeling better those meds must be helping you! Hopefully your bloodworks good and you'll have your bfp with us!!! Either way we are all definately staying in touch that's for sure. I'm so glad we all feel the same. Its so awesome to have ttc friends from all around the world that's been through so much together. Yummy for broccoli! I love every fresh veg (raw or cooked) and fruit! As for canned or jarred that's when i become picky.

Awesome memory! lol

He does feel bad and I have forgiven him. I just get down when he gets moody and doesnt realize that I am doing the best I can given my situation but eventually he reads my facial expressions and body language and has great timing when he plants one on me or gives me snuggles and hugs I just have to stay pos no matter what. What is done is done and we just have to get him healed so that I can break him and take his spermies... OOPS TMI !

 

[jen435]

Lol Amy your funny! That's the spirit!
Hmm hiding it in prepackaged foods could be tricky. I do make dinner but he will only eat parts of what I cook. Its okay I'll let him decide on his own vits... something strange my obgyn told me yesterday is that oregano and certain spices/seasonings can lead to MC and labor contractions. She said shell tell ppl over due to try eating eggplant parm at an Italian restaurant. I found that interesting that she said within 48hrs they are in labor! I can't wait to be thinking about that towards the end of 40wks. Though I want to enjoy pregnancy first

 

[lilesMom]

its positive mental attitude

 

[jen435]

Oh and Amy I'm CD 3 so no bding yet. Starting digital opk kit weds and can't wait!!! Expecting to ovulate by Sept 8. Hopefully bbt confirms it on ff and countdowntopregnancy... we shall see.

 

[lilesMom]

welcome back jen thats funny iw as jus saying to my nieces today ( they r nearly my age) that i hate canned fruit, it just tastes weird, like rubber fruit r something did u go picking berries? thats what i loved in thailand, the pineapples and mangos were amazing, they were so juicy and fresh, they r not the same by the time they hit ireland
it is so cool that we r all from diff places but yet get on well and seem to think alike on a lot of things

 

[lilesMom]

Oh and Amy I'm CD 3 so no bding yet. Starting digital opk kit weds and can't wait!!! Expecting to ovulate by Sept 8. Hopefully bbt confirms it on ff and countdowntopregnancy... we shall see.

whoop whoop go jens egg xx

 

[Storked]

Jen thanks for sharing about the food! I can't wait to get to that point either though my doctor told me that I would be induced with my kids so that they can try to control my blood issues. Totally dashed my hopes of ever having a water birth or other natural births. If I am given pitocin I am afraid that the contractions would come on so strong that I would want an epidural. Ugh.
Catch that eggy! (cheers you)

Laura OMG my three oldest nieces are closer in age to me than my siblings! I think our religious affiliations are showing themselves
My husband says that mango anywhere else but Thailand tastes sad lol

So, how many kids do you guys want to have? I used to have a set number in mind but after my loss I think I will try to have as many as possible. And my mom went through menopause at the age of 37 so I feel pressure to have em quick

 

[Posey]

Helllllloooo ladies , just checking in and saying hello to you all, WOW you are all so chatty and sweet with each other, it's so lovely to see

I briefly read through all the back-and-forth, my hubby takes many many vitamins (poor guy!) because of his abnormal morphology, but he's a good sport about it. I work for a doctor (family doctor), and he recently told me that walnuts are good for sperm... so if your DH's will eat them, have a go!

Are you (those of you who are willing) able to tell me your stories / a little bit about yourselves?

Afm, I'm 9dpo today, my temp rose high today but I'm trying not to get excited, I think it's because I had a restless sleep... I woke up an hour before my alarm was to go off and tossed and turned a bit, so I'll have to wait to see what tomorrow brings.

Posey

And Storked, to answer your question, I want three children What about you?