ttc after a d&c

[xoxo4angel]

Jen! :wave: Still no luck with a job, bummer! More time with Zoey is a bonus though

Leslie ~ Your poor DH...it's a lot of pressure all around. You guys have been preggers once already, I bet he is just fine. Now is the time to boost his ego<~~like you don't have enough on your plate!

Laura ~ Poor little fella...I hope the Dr sees him soon! I can't believe they don't take it more serious. Is this a specialist he sees? FX'd for answers! And I would keep him in bed with me too if I were you! Pierce is in his crib, but it takes some coaxing. I don't use cry it out so I hold him a lot, but I enjoy it.

Happy Monday chicas! Hope you all are enjoying the Olympics!

 

[aaronswoman79]

Angel, I didn't do cry it out with any of my daughters. I tried it a couple of times and it led to them holding their breath, choking, vomiting etc, not worth it. It might work for others but never ever worked for me.

Laura, I really hope the docs listen to u about Simon's episodes. At the same time I hope it is nothing. How bad is his reflux? Is it silent reflux where the food comes up the throat and he gags on it? Or he spits up a lot?

Leslie, I have only used opks one cycle and it was the clear blue easy with the happy face (I know its expensive, but it really worked for us). Me and dh bded after we got the happy face and we got pregnant that cycle. Not sure if it was because we used the opk or not but the opk was right that I was oving.

Its kinda quiet here. Hope all of u ladies are doing well.

AFM, my 13 year old is failing out of 8th grade. She will probably have to repeat the 8th grade and not be able to start high school in the fall. We have tried everything with her. I just don'g get it. My 8 year old is very mentally unstable, her mental illness is getting worse and worse. I might have to eventually admit her into the hospital. I always dreaded this coming. I have known that most bipolar children eventually at some point would need hospitalization for mental instability but I never thought her illness would get this bad. Taking care of her is like taking care of 3 children. She cries all the time, needs comforting all the time. It is very very hard to take care of her. She even has eczema outbreaks on her body from all of the stress. Sometimes I feel like the walls are closing in on me.

 

[Lisa85]

Jess, im so sorry you have all this to deal with. i wish we could make it all better for you. Stay strong and you will get through this.

Laura, must be so frustrating not getting answers about simon. Hope it gets sorted soon.

Leslie, you have got pregnant before so I'm sure you can again... its just a little harder for you both. Stay positive!!

Angel, P must be a very good boy!! you are always on her now!

Jen, disappearing posts are the worst!!

Bethany, Amy

AFM - Still sleeping all the time and I'm getting to the point where I've had enough... time needs to speed up so i can have my little girl. Im so uncomfortable all of time!!

 

[Buttrflyl553]

Laura any news from the doc? I can't imagine how irritated you are because I would be the same!

Thanks Jen. I wasn't sure about buying the cheapies because I have trouble reading them when others post. Sorry about the job..hope one comes your way soon.

Angel I know we have been pregnant before but I heard that there can still be sperm issues? I guess speculating won't change that. He will go soon. You getting snow over there soon? I thought of you when I watched the following last night!

Jess thanks we will see how it goes so very sorry about your daughter and what you and your family are going through. Is she seeing a therapist? I do mental health with kids with bipolar and we often recommend hospitalization so I wonder if speaking with her therapist would be a first step. As hard as it is hospitalization ( or inpatient for kids) can be very helpful because they get around the clock doctors and therapists that teach them ways to cope. Is she on medication? I have seen some positive from it, again it doesn't make it any easier and I am very sorry. It sounds like you really are doing your best and being a great mommy.

Lisa sorry you are uncomfortable. Seems that it is worth the uncomfortability for your little one though.

Bethany miss you!

Amy you are getting closer to O time. Hope all is well!

AFM day two OPKs. Either my body will have to cooperate or I may not continued next month. My shy bladder is making it very difficult. Not ovulating yet but line is getting darker.

 

[Buttrflyl553]

Oh I forgot to ask...once I get positive is it correct that I should get AF 14 days after that?

 

[lilesMom]

Leslie hurray foe darker libe.
Should be pos soon so xxx
Happy bd.

Lisa hope u feel bwttwr soon xxx

Angel I hate CIO.
Would never do it.
I rhunk it inky teachead them thwy can't rely on u. Xxx
Love to all xx

 

[lilesMom]

Went to his therapy place today.
He had an episode in therapists arms.
They rang people I've been ringing.
His neurologists nurse.
Git voice mail.
So I hung around a few hours and endes up coming home xos no return call.
Got xall tonight. They cant see us till tomoro week.
They thunk different type of seizure.
So prob different meds plus rescue meds
Id bad one in theweek ring ambulance.
Yippee. Life is great.
Asses should hve listened to me 2 weeks ago.
No cast or stander till later so therapy on hold too.
Snuggled in bed with simin.
Life be easier if we coyld just stay put ;-)

 

[xoxo4angel]

Oh no Laura! They should have listened! Your instinct is much better than their guesses! I am so sorry you are having to go through this. I pray Simon has a good week and in turn you have a good one

Jess ~ Some very big decisions and events going on with the girls. We're here for you should you need to chat. Can A take summer school to advance? I like that Leslie says the Drs and staff are equipped to teach Natalie ways to cope. As hard as it may be on your to let her go, it might be just what she needs to help her grow into a productive adolescent. I pray the answers come to you.

Leslie ~ 14-15 days after +ve will be your BFP, most people get AF, but you won't! PMA! (I added extra day in case you O more on the 24 hour side). And darn that shy bladder! Are you peeing in a cup or sharp shooting on to the stick? (I watched the Following this afternoon. Eeeek! Do you watch Justified?)

Lisa ~ I bet you are over it! Next week you'll get your date and then poof, she'll be here!

:wave: ladies! I know I'm on here heaps. Pierce nurses a bunch or plays, so I'm on my phone passing that time. I'll refrain from taking up too much post space

Amy & Leslie ~

 

[lilesMom]

Angel take all the space u want.
I love ur posts
Ur great company for me xxx

Jess so sorry .
Il post properly later.
Must give lil man brekkie

 

[Buttrflyl553]

Laura glad Simon had an episode in therapists arms so they can see what you were talking about...and of course momma is always right! Hope you find your answers soon

Angel thanks for pma. And I love your posts too so no worries! Peeing in a cup. Was easier this morning, maybe easier when I get up very early in am. Still light though and not darker from yesterday from what I can see but also earlier this morning than last. Hoping for Friday still ( or Saturday!). No I don't watch justified. We watch walking dead and that just came back!
Any snow coming for you ? Tomorrow looks like a big storm for us. I may have to take another snow day.

Have a good day ladies!

 

[lilesMom]

leslie if u reckon friday then it makes sense it isnt much darker yet
ur right on track for fri
i only used opk after d and c but i wasnt back to normal yet so i was gettin nearly dark as pos all the time and got frustrated.
but thats cos my hormones hadnt settled.
if u find um stressfull .
u could just do this month to confirm ur Ov timing is when u think it is maybe?
thats prob what i would do.
but i reckon opk prob get as addictive as poas for bfp
best of luck for lovely dark line friday

jess so sorry u think dd may need hospital
but i like leslies approach.
it is super hard but if its best for her and only temporary...
then it is for the best.
not taking away from how horrible it is for u as a mom, xx
hugs honey xxxx
do they have childrens ward in mental health facilities there?
here she would be in with adults which is completly unfair on people.
they are updatin our mental health hospital at the mometn though.
so hopefully seperate kids section xx
hugs again and u know we r always here for u xxx

 

[lilesMom]

simon is not too bad today.
had 1 last nt and 1 today but slept better last nt,
he is giving out now cos he is tired and doesnt wanna sleep but thats norml

 

[xoxo4angel]

Leslie the timing may just work out for you! FX'd! If you get a +ve tomorrow, then you'll likely O on Friday and viola! Even if you don't get a +ve until Friday it works b/c the swimmers will be there waiting to pounce! (I watch the Walking Dead, another show I DVR b/c it's scary! My sis got me hooked on it though.) Glad peeing in the cup worked this morning.

Laura ~ Are the frequency of the episodes increasing? *sigh*

Off to have P's pics done! He still hasn't rolled over again, but sits up like a champ...it's crazy. Hopefully the winter storm, yes MORE SNOW, waits to show its face until later today! Stay warm ladies (or cool Lisa)! Mwah!

 

[lilesMom]

hey angel xx

the frequency increased over last week but seem to have stayed at about 2 a day, hoping they dont increase more but will just see.
im better today, had a yucky day yest,
when the ot and physio told me he couldnt have stander and cast yet ,
i cried in their faces, morto.
i know its normal enough but i dislike crying in front of people lots
it just felt like a step back, i had been looking forward on being proactive with walking
anyway it will happen, just after meds fixed instead
have u tried rolling p?
rollin is scary fro them, they feel like they r falling if htat makes sense,
they arent sure they wil be ok on the other side
if u roll him but hold onto him through the roll.
control it for him him in a nice slow roll.
im pretty sure he would be doing it himself within a week
simon did and he has limited movement he was just too scared to do it himself
until he learned it was safe
anyway rolling isnt necessary, sittin work more muscles and is very important.
so maybe he is being clever and fousing on the good stuff hee hee

 

[lilesMom]

stormy here. had no power or water for a bit today.
was weirdly fun for a tiny bit until i remmbered all simons frozen home cooked food in freezer
thank god its back again, was only gone few hours, deep freeze still completly frozen. phew.
i would not be a happy momma if i had to throw all that out.
its crazy how much we depend on electricity and running water.
lucky OH buys water for his beloved coffee machine so i had big tub ( our water is hard water so would ruin his machine ).
i got laxative for simon. he has been strugglin to go.
if hosp reckon its his tummy , i willing to try mild dose to see if it helps any.
i had been tryin to avoid it but its worth tryin if it avoids higher meds and solves anything for him.
im still unsure if i believe um that tummy problem can mimick seizures but anyway
worth a go anyway . hope simon agrees

how is everyone?
betahny are u gone , hope ye r doin ok hon
hope dh is home xxx

lisa hope ur not sick honey xx
i know after 30 weeks u feel the pregnancy hard all right but i promise the time goes fast too xxx
elena will be here before u know it.
i still love ur bub name

hope everyone is well.
love to all xxx

jen are u still planning bday party
any luck with job, xx
hope u find something soon if thats what u want xx
it would prob be hard to go back now too though xx

 

[lilesMom]

tash not sure if ur still readin but hi if u are
i see u on fb anyway so... xxxx

my canvas print for OH arrived, its lovely
if i do say so

 

[lilesMom]

angel i love p s doggy jumper
lil cutie

 

[xoxo4angel]

Power outages are the pits Laura! I freaked out b/c I had months worth of breast milk that sadly I had to throw out ;( Two seizures daily sounds exhausting! I hope the laxative helps Simon. I know this is all frustrating for you...you're human and your tears are warranted

Brb

 

[lilesMom]

Oh no not liquid gold. That woyld kill me.
All the time and effort pumping .
Stupid lack of power. Xx
I'm grateful mine is back.
Feel sorry for esb men working in this

 

[xoxo4angel]

My heart sank when I had to throw out the milk...it was +60 ounces! Guess it's ok since he refuses the bottle, but I still cringe thinking about it. I just hope the sitter can manage him Saturday while I'm at the wedding. I'll prob come home after the ceremony to nurse him and catch up w/ DH at the reception. Honestly I wish I could just skip the whole thing! I'm still not comfy with my ta-ta's! Nothing I own covers them properly 6 more months of nursing then I hope they shrivel back down! Ha!

Pierce had his pictures done today. I did a mini session b/c I'll have them done at 9 months and again at 1. I was getting Pierce to laugh who in turn was causing his Daddy to laugh! My husband couldn't stop giggling! Was a sweet moment, can't wait to see the pics

Hope you all are well.

Leslie & Amy