ttc after a d&c

[mommylov]

Jess! I too am so sorry. And don't apologize, you're not whining. I can only imagine how you must feel. We are hear for you anytime you need to vent Hun.

Leslie, talking to an RE isn't a terrible idea. I went through one myself but ended up back with my reg dr. It's true that they do have more knowledge when it comes to infertility for the most part. It's doesn't hurt to get a second opinion. Your opk does look a altitude lighter but did you say this has happened before and then you get a positive? I have a feeling you ovulated the other day with the darker opk.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Amy, I can't wait until both u and Leslie have your los. I can't imagine what you ladies are going through. And I a so sorry about ranting about my problems. I want to be there for both of you in any way I can (wish so much we all lived much closer). Sucks how we all live so far apart! I wish that one day we could all plan a reunion and meet in person, maybe I'm being naive but I see that as a very real possibility.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Btw, Sophia has no signs of teeth yet!! None at all. And she bites everything in sight. I'm scared for when her teeth come in and shes gonna try and use me as a teether. She's having her 9 month growth spurt a little late (shes 10 months now) Huge growth spurt. She's now at a steady 25 lbs. And just under 31 inches...

 

[Lisa85]

Hey sorry to jump in with a random question but those that have Netflix... Do yours not have subtitles for when they speak other non human languages?! If it does how do you turn it on?
Not sure if it's universal of just coz I'm using it in another country that doesn't have Netflix.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Laura?? Hope you and Simon are doing great hon! Miss you lots!

 

[aaronswoman79]

Angel, how absolutely adorable about Pierce's teeth! I'm jealous!! I want Sophie to get her teeth already! Hows Pierce doing these days?

 

[lilesMom]

Thanks Jess
Same same here
In good form but struggling to eat, reflux is bad
And seizures sneaking back in.
Hence being quiet ;-)
I'm sick of it now, let alone Simon.
He is great though.
Still my smiley boy.

Sorry about ur girls hon xxx
Some days u def need to vent xxx
Hugs

Loveto all

 

[Buttrflyl553]

Amy If I did indeed ovulate the other day ( would be day 20 or 21) will my OPKs continue to go lighter and lighter? I'm running out soon! You regular doc does iuis? Gonna poas again in the next couple hours before work.

Sorry Lisa I'm not really sure in regards to Netflix but would imagine it would have to do with your tv settings and not Netflix?

Laura so sorry about Simon. Will he go to the doctor soon?

 

[lilesMom]

Leslie fx u already ov and caught eggy x
He was at speech and Lang yesterday
They r putting his case to consultant and dietician next tues
Epilepsy meds up again last nt.
Nearing max dose though.

 

[Buttrflyl553]

If I did ovulate the other day, anyone know if it is normal to have that quick of a surge and never see it on OPKs? Sorry to obsess. I hate the loss of control that I have over this right now

 

[Buttrflyl553]

6:45am..to me looks darker than it has since Sunday? Maybe the surge is coming. bAny thoughts? Will update again around 5:45pm if no one cares

 

[xoxo4angel]

If I did ovulate the other day, anyone know if it is normal to have that quick of a surge and never see it on OPKs? Sorry to obsess. I hate the loss of control that I have over this right now

You certainly can have a surge over night and miss it on an OPK. One month I randomly tested during a late night pee and it was a true +ve. The next morning it was almost as dark, but not quite. I also had other ovulation symptoms (cramp, bloat) that caused me to suspect O was coming.

Today's OPK looks darker to me. Curious to see this evenings! Sorry for my delayed replies Leslie, I'm still at my sister's and I don't get a lot of down time when visiting. I like to see the progression of the OPKs, so keep them coming! Hopefully tonight's is it!

 

[xoxo4angel]

Hey sorry to jump in with a random question but those that have Netflix... Do yours not have subtitles for when they speak other non human languages?! If it does how do you turn it on?
Not sure if it's universal of just coz I'm using it in another country that doesn't have Netflix.

Non human languages? Like Klingon or Khaleesi's Dothraki? If you are watching a French film it should come with subtitles. If it's a movie with a made up language, subtitles are generally automatic since no one Is proficient in it. Closed caption can be controlled (as stated by someone earlier) by the settings on your tele. I'll can check out my Netflix and see if you'd like.

 

[lilesMom]

I've never properly done opk s Leslie so I'm no good there
Sox Xx

 

[xoxo4angel]

At times I think that if I had a husband who was more supportive I wouldn't come on here and complain about my life as much as I do. So I do truly apologize for my whining. I have an 8 year old here that has been crying for 45 min. Straight and nothing I do calms her down. BTW, she got her referral to the children's mental health clinic today. She is going to havs to go to Oakland's Children's hospital for surgery . Shes had a hard nodule on her shoulder for 4 years now. They suspect it is a calcification. They have been keeping an eye on it for the past few years and want to have it removed because it causes pain and will affect her as she grows. I am not sure if I have ever told you ladies this but Natalie also has an eating disorder that comes with the bipolar, she has ocd and will only eat certain colors of foods. She has food aversions, hypersensitive taste to foods. She can only eat bland or she vomits at the sight of certain foods. So we are going to seek therapy for her eating disorder. And she has alwayalways had issues with feeding, down to when she was a baby drinking formula. They think she might have developed it from suffering from severe reflux (makes perfect sense). But she will refuse anything green, orange etc. She gags as soon as she sees vegetables, vomits all over the place if we try to get her to eat certain foods. I've tried sneaking veggies into her food, fruit drinks with veggies mixed in and she alwas knows. Her foods have to be bland in color and taste. I barely understand it myself so there are a host of issues we have with Natalie. .

Men still wouldn't fully understand, a woman still needs her girls to fully understand. Men are just wired differently, so vent, share all you need or want Jess. Yay for Natalie's referral. Yikes about the surgery and holy mackerel about the eating disorder! Poor thing just can't catch a break. Now that the insurance has set in I pray she gets the help and you get the guidance you will need to aid her. Were they able to get Alyssa a referral as well? Teen depression is scary. Hugs to Soph!

 

[xoxo4angel]

Leslie fx u already ov and caught eggy x
He was at speech and Lang yesterday
They r putting his case to consultant and dietician next tues
Epilepsy meds up again last nt.
Nearing max dose though.

I hope the dietician can help Prince Milky! Praying he adjusts to the new dosage of meds quickly and he gets his appetite back. Babies are so resilient, Simon is an amazing strong baby xoxo.

:wave: Bethany & Jen mwah to the girls!

Amy ~ I will be praying for your father to have a speedy recovery AND for you to get to share beautiful news (BFP) to motivate him in his recovery!

 

[mommylov]

Leslie, you have me stumped! That DOES look darker. I think I read that a surge can be as short at 12 hours. So that means those that only test once a day can easily miss it. I think that its good that you are testing again tonight just incase. I hate when our bodies play tricks like this.

Thanks Angel. I know I havent mentioned her much but I think that Collguezilla is preventing me from getting pregnant. I have no other stress in my life except for the rollercoaster this dumb old hag puts me on. She'll admit (mostly to others and not me) that she can get scary crazy and that she is going to do something about it and then doesnt. She is a very delusional and I think is an adult version of a little spoiled brat. She is simply a horrible, fake person.

 

[Lisa85]

Angel, thanks for that. Yeah like klingon and that haha! I can only watch Netflix via the computer (which is connected to the TV) so that must be why. The tv settings play no part in it. Must just be something we having to deal with doing the dodge!


Ill try catch up on everyone later... love to all!!

 

[Buttrflyl553]

Angel did you know khaleesi is one of the top baby girl names? I thought that was interesting . No problem about delay... Hope you are enjoying your trip!

Amy I am stumped as well. This happened before and I don't get it but what can I do. Hopefully that means a positive is around the corner. I left a message to obtain a consult for a specialist and hope to hear back soon. I have been testing 2-3 times a day so my opks are almost gone! . How are you feeling?

 

[Buttrflyl553]

Well ladies quite the night...sat in traffic and took me 3 hours to get home because of an accident on the highway. Was holding my pee for opk but was so uncomfortable I had to stop to pee before I went back to driving!
Below is 9:09pm as I wanted to hold my pee 2 more hours after. Still looks dark but not positive. Tomorrow's will tell if my surge happened while on the highway or if it's coming soon! Just got done BDing! May not be able to BD tomorrow but Friday definitely!