ttc after a d&c

[jen435]

Amy thank you! Im okay just felt bad for the ppl is all. And the doggy. How are you?

Yay bethany so close to testing being emotional is a good sign

 

[jen435]

Ladies whats ur take on bd everynight? Do u think it leads to blanks and low sperm count? Trying to get an idea of if everyother or everynight is best for ttc. Ideas??

 

[Storked]

Jen I still have until like the 18th. I think I am just going nuts lol!
As for when to BD...I go every night. Hard to do every other night- rubs y husband wrong. He doesn't like to feel that I am using him. Even if I am

TTCSecrets, I would think that if you are having symptoms then you should be able to test? HCG appears after implantation and that should also e when you start showing symptoms. Though I never had symptoms until week 6 of my pregnancy.

Amy, trying to be less emotional today but last night was not terrible. My husband held me when I cried and we even talked about the miscarriage. It was a good thing

 

[TTCSecrets]

Jen: Thankyou, i just dont really think its probable that in four weeks ( one week prior to dnc ) i have lost all my pregnancy symptoms, had a dnc , and then got pregnant, and instantly had three or four pregnancy symptoms return.. Seems too good to be true ?

Ive managed to book an emergency blood test tomorrow morning, well a doctors appointment to see if i can have one. To see if that sheds any light, i do have pregnancy tests but they are cheapies that only measure 40mlu , and i dont really want to go and buy an expensive one for like £9 - £12 for it to be negative seems daft, but i mean the itchy belly, the sneezing, the lot..

Im wondering if its possible to have kind of a pregnancy come down? Like my symptoms stopped 4 weeks ago so i knew something was wrong before i booked the scan, but like maybe my symptoms went from my previous pregnancy, and now the hormones have gone down im wondering if the symptoms are there but just a comedown? xxxx

 

[mommylov]

Bethany, hugs from me too doll!!! xoxo

Jen, I hear ya and would feel the same way. I just hope that thier loved ones are able to cope and very sad for those involved and the doggy

TTCsecrets, first off so sorry fo ryour loss My symptoms kind of stopped a week before we mc but I still hadnt noticed.. just thought I was coming up to my 2nd trimester so thought thats why I was feeling better but all other symptoms were still there. The rest didnt go away until after my d&c. I didnt get my first af until 6 weeks later but I too have read that you are most fertile right after a d&c. DH and I didnt bd after our d&c so I couldnt tell you if that were true but if you re feelign sypmtoms then maybe try and test? I didnt get a - hpt until about 3-4 weeks after and then af came about 2 weeks later so not sure what to say. I would say try and take a hpt and see what it says but I would try and talk to the dr and have them take blood. Thier tests are more accurate anyhow. fx that you get the outcome you are looking for!

 

[jen435]

Hugs it makes sense what ur saying. Wishing you well on your blood test. Glad they will do that for you. Bfns are disappointing i think at this point your doing the right thing. Babydust to you keep us posted.

Bethany so glad your dh was so comforting. I wondering if u ovulated early. So excited 12-13 days away til u might test

Do you think bd everday 24hrs apart decreases or increases chances for pregnancy? just wondering what everyone thinks! I read in a book it takes 48 hrs to produce the amount of swimmers needed to get pregnant. But then heard everyday for quality purposes. What do u ladies think?

 

[Storked]

Thanks Amy!

Sorry TTCSecrets but I told you all I know on the other thread

Jen, maybe I did O early. That would be nice lol! As for swimmers...I have read conflicting things on this issue. I read that you should BD every other day for more sperm but I have also read that you should BD every day for higher quality sperm. Something about how the longer sperm stays in the guy, the higher the rate of abnormal sperm. :-/

 

[TTCSecrets]

I know, does make sense..

I mean part of me is thinking, you are imagining symptoms.
But them i think. Well the itchy bumps are there on my belly like they were last time..
I keep sneezing and my nose is running.. Like last time
And just the general * I dont feel right* Feeling...


Fair enough the I dont feel right feeling could be in my head but im sure i cant wish myself to have a sneezing fit and have itchy lumps on my bellys ?

I have tried googling it and people do get pregnant straight after, i had BDd every day since the 19th August bar a day or two, but i thought well surely you cant have a miscarriage,relief of symptoms, then it all back again within three weeks. Just seems too soon to be real. Id love it but not getting hopes up, im gonna go into the doctors tomorrow with the attitude of the worst it could be is remained tissue. Sorry i hate that phrase with a passion...xxx

 

[jen435]

That happened to amy hope you get the anwser your hoping for! Goodluck and lots of babydust. Your body wouldnt get pregnant again unless it thought it was ready. Least thats how i feel.

Okay i read same thing bethany. Dh and i are having fun daily so guess ill stick to that this cycle also puts my mind at ease as do softcups i cant thank you enough for that info rather healthy swimmers then abnormal ones

I cant wait for you to.test bethany sept 18th will be here soon! lots of baby dust.your way for that amazing bfp! As amy says this month feels sooo lucky!

 

[jen435]

Miss laura already! Cant wait to hear all about her trip.and the news!

 

[jen435]

Horseypant how are you?

 

[Storked]

I hope it is lucky for all of us Jen
Yeah I love the softcups and I feel more in control by BD every day anyways. Plus they get all suspicious with the every other day business

 

[jen435]

Your so right! so glad i have you ladies to talk to! your all the best!

 

[mommylov]

So true!! lol I better switch it up and do everyday this time! hahah

 

[Storked]

I feel the exact same ladies

 

[mommylov]

DAILY TO EVERYONE...




THIS IS THE MONTH!!

 

[Storked]

And even if it isn't the month, we are close to those rainbows and we need positive vibes for them

 

[mommylov]

And even if it isn't the month, we are close to those rainbows and we need positive vibes for them

YUP, for sure!!!

 

[xxserendipity]

hi everyone been using ovulation tests since my d&c on the 9th aug and today i got a positive but ive never used them before so a bit confused as what that means does it mean im ovulating now or will do soon and when should we dtd??? x

 

[horseypants]

ahhh you ladies are my daily ray of sunshine. even though i wake up to a million posts, it's the best reading ever. welcome secret. sorry we met this way but happy you are here. i'm more than a week away from o but doing well and feeling more relaxed this cycle after a couple rounds of dissappointment. i think what i needed was to chill out.

my take on how often to bd: if you are worried about increasing sperm quality do it every day. if you are worried about sperm quantity, every other day is good. you'd only really know which you're after if you've had OH's fishies tested... i like every day but will settle for every other!

xo everyone