ttc after a d&c

[Storked]

Laura, hope you get great news at the ultrasound tomorrow!
Enjoy Galway (jealous!)

Amy, that is great news about DH's knees not needing surgery! Get healed up honey

 

[horseypants]

Is it dumb that I am scared to workout hard in the TWW?

i am too.....

what's your guys philosophy on orgasms when ur pg?

ahhhhhhhh, that is great about OH's knees!

 

[horseypants]

still laughing at the brilliance of the softcup "trickery"

 

[Storked]

still laughing at the brilliance of the softcup "trickery"

I vote that Jen does it!

 

[horseypants]

yes! if i get a vote, my vote is def YES! employ softcup trickery at every opportunity!

 

[Storked]

Is it dumb that I am scared to workout hard in the TWW?

i am too.....

what's your guys philosophy on orgasms when ur pg?

ahhhhhhhh, that is great about OH's knees!

Yeah I haven't been the most regular at the gym so paranoid over going at it hard!

As for orgasm...terrified. I love pleasure. But I was told not to have sex for a while by my OB when pregnant and so now I got it into my head that it isn't good. I don't chalk my MMC up to them or anything but so freaking paranoid now. What about you Horsey?

 

[horseypants]

well, the last time i was pg, i made up my mind to not get off (haha, crass!) and didnt until after i thought i had already mmc-ed. then i did it and the baby's heartbeat kept going, as we found to our surprise when we went in for a supposedly post mmc scan. then, a few days later, the heartbeat stopped.

so part of me thinks it doesnt matter

and then the other part thinks it could be good for the baby

and then i'm also thinking maybe it's better later in the pregnancy?

I dont know! this is a really a question i wish i had a real answer for.

what exactly did you doc say?

i do feel very tiptoey about pregnancy and i think that might be a bad thing. like too careful. to the point where i stress out. if it would just go well, though, maybe i'd relax!

 

[lilesMom]

Is it dumb that I am scared to workout hard in the TWW?

i am too.....

what's your guys philosophy on orgasms when ur pg?

ahhhhhhhh, that is great about OH's knees!

welcome at any time here

 

[lilesMom]

hurray forno surgery amy xxx

 

[Storked]

I am sure that there is an answer horsey but lamely, I ain't got it :\
Do whatever makes you feel safe easier said than done right?

 

[horseypants]

yup!
laura, when's the ultrasound?

 

[lilesMom]

tomoro morn hon x

 

[lilesMom]

i wont be on for few days girls cos i be in galway, just in case ye get worried xx
talk soon x

 

[mommylov]

Have fun Laura and keep us posted on the us!!!! fx!!! xoxo

Horsey, I too am in the paranoid boat... more so now than before. My dr didnt mention anything to me about that so I am pretty usless lol. Its something that I am going to think about now and will want to ask my dr should I fall pg this cycle so if I find out anything, I will surely let you gals know!

Thanks girls, Im sooo relieved that dh doesnt need surgery, now if I can just get over this cold that I think I caught from my friends little girl that would be great

 

[aaronswoman79]

Hi Jessica! I have a niece and a BFF named Jessica. I will be praying that you get AF soon. So, I know nothing of wine but was yours good? Back when I was married to my ex I enjoyed a sweet white wine I want to see it made. I want to visit a brewery someday too.

Well, we had a sweet red wine. It was pretty good. My husband had his first glass of wine (or any alcohol for that matter) when he came to visit me in San Francisco. He loved it. I got him hooked. JK. But we are only occasional drinkers. And when we do, it loosens us up a lot. He is pretty serious by nature. Wine makes him more talkative and he opens up a lot more. We are planning to go to napa winery and do some wine tasting. That is something we have never tried.

 

[Storked]

Jessica that sounds like fun! My husband has tried alcohol before and apparently it loosens him up too he isn't serious but he can be very straight laced if that makes sense. He is always telling me not to talk vulgar (eye roll)

Amy and Horsey, I would be shocked if we weren't paranoid every pregnancy from now on girls get better Amy!

Laura, we will miss you so much

 

[Storked]

I was doing so well as then all if a sudden I want to cry. Stupid emotions. Stupid TWW

 

[jen435]

Laura enjoy your get away! Happy birthday!! And most importantly fxd for tom!!! Praying for good news!!! Up! We will definately miss you!

Amy yay!!! Dh needs no surgery!! feel better girl! You need to be healthy for that bfp you'll have soon! I'm definately staying positive!

Bethany thank you for your tip! dh makes me mad! But all well ij still gonna try anything I can. Also breath try not to think about tww play with you kitty workout cook talk with us enjoy dh love ya! You'll have your bfp soon also I just know it! Btw which CD are you now?

Jessica hi!! Thank you for your kind words! Your still waiting for af??? Hang in there took me a little over 6wks the witch will come. (Sorry if i messed that up I just read 4-5pgs and brain dead plus on my cell)

Horseypants must agree with u and other ladies I think we will all be super cautious. I wasn't aware dtd could cause MC or harm to baby. I thought they were safe. Guess ill be second thinking that know. Good to know.


What a day I had. Very sad and bazaar... went to work 8:40am for two pts.... next two pts couldn't come in due to a fatal accident right outside our building road blocked off etc. Rescheduled em for afternoon. Dentist hired two new young girls and fired the two married girls he had. (Just t oday) I ended up driving my whole office to lunch since my car was the cleanest. Dentist is definatelyfeelingthem out (he's single). Two ppl and a doggy died in crash so sad.

Well this phone is messing up ilk have to edit this
out themout out (he is singles) the girls s day a week the girls seem nice so far.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Have fun Laura and keep us posted on the us!!!! fx!!! xoxo

Horsey, I too am in the paranoid boat... more so now than before. My dr didnt mention anything to me about that so I am pretty usless lol. Its something that I am going to think about now and will want to ask my dr should I fall pg this cycle so if I find out anything, I will surely let you gals know!

Thanks girls, Im sooo relieved that dh doesnt need surgery, now if I can just get over this cold that I think I caught from my friends little girl that would be great

So how do you suppose we try and get off that paranoid boat. I am a worrier by nature, actually i have ocd when it comes to health issues, so this miscarriage that I was scared to death would happen, and my worst nightmare came true. I am scared to death at how much my next pregnancy will bring on the paranoia. People tell me to leave in in God's hands. But for me its easier said than done. Now about orgasms during pregnancy. I actually had an advice nurse tell me absolutely no stimulation of any kind (meaning nipple, genital... nothing) and she said to me orgasm can bring on preterm labor if you are already having a threatened miscarriage or bleeding. Of course I have read contrary info on this, so I am not sure. Great news about your husband not needing surgery. I hear knee pain hurts like a sob, tell him we give him our regards and hope for a swift recovery.

 

[jen435]

Wow! Thats scary thank you for sharing that info. we will be experts on pregnancy soon it seems. Your next lo will be just fine i just know it.